First, the introduction
Thanks to the TV series "Fireworks Family" launched by CCTV, I was moved by the marriage and family status of the three generations of women in the Qiao family in the play, and I was also deeply substituted by the troubles encountered by women in love and career. Each generation of women has the life background of each generation of women, and every woman has the growth experience and experience of each woman, so they do their best in their own cognitive world, just to realize their family's greatest yearning for a better life.
Second, the interpretation and perception of the relevant plot
Touched by the encounter between Meng Weiming and her daughter Li Yijin in the play, a mother born in the 60s with low self-esteem and strong self-esteem, came from a feudal traditional family, never had enough snacks and clothing, and had no education, so she only knew how to be filial to the elderly, considerate of her husband, and take care of her children and family. But with the development of society, she clearly realized that knowledge can change her fate, so she had to pin all her hopes on her children without much culture. To this end, she saves money and enrolls her daughter in tutoring classes, learns Olympiad mathematics, makes up foreign languages, and tries to improve her children's academic performance, just so that she can be admitted to a good university and find a good job in the future.
As a result, the child stumbled to the tutoring class after school, and on weekends he had to squeeze the bus with breakfast and take the subway to cram school. Parents take a lot of money out, and the children's academic pressure is great, so they have become the first generation of chicken baby parents.
The children were finally admitted to college and had the job they wanted, but the times are developing rapidly, they are unable to do so in their careers, and they are unsatisfactory in marriage and love. If there are children who work and live at home, parents say that they gnaw at the elderly, and if there are children who fly away, parents can't sleep. Just like Meng Weiming in the play, she called her daughter all day long and nagged endlessly, she was not satisfied with her daughter's talk to someone, and she was anxious when her daughter didn't have a partner, so she asked her daughter to go back to her hometown to work for a while, and she wanted to find a blind date for her daughter for a while, she really got to the point where she couldn't eat well, couldn't sleep well, and lived like a year. Seeing this, I don't know how many parents feel the same way. Some netizens were upset, saying why this drama was broadcast during the Chinese New Year, and some were deeply educated and felt that it was worth watching. But I want to say that this is a down-to-earth work, it shines into reality, and it is a true portrayal of many post-60s parents.
Third, the actual case is more pathetic
My cousin was born in 1967 and has two daughters, one boy and three children. The two daughters have been excellent in learning since childhood, obedient and well-behaved, which is the pride of their parents and the hope of the family. When I was in high school, my cousin-in-law stayed on leave without pay to accompany her, and the mother and daughter went all out to prepare for the college entrance examination. The emperor paid off, and the two daughters were finally admitted to the provincial capital 985 University, and after graduation, they each found a suitable job. But now, the sisters born in 1992 and 1993 are still single, which makes my cousin and sister-in-law very worried. So, they begged their grandfather to tell their grandmother to ask someone to help introduce a boyfriend to their daughter, and finally the second daughter finally had a partner, no, she had not been together for three months, and she was urged by her parents to get married and prepare to get married on May Day this year. The eldest daughter didn't dare to go home during the Spring Festival because her cousin gave her a death order. After hearing my cousin's description, I realized that the TV series "Fireworks Family" really reflected reality, isn't it a true portrayal of the parents of the post-60s generation such as my cousin's family?
Upstairs, Mr. Li's son was born in 1990, from childhood to university, all the way to hang, after graduating from the bachelor's degree, he joined Huawei Shanghai Company, but after a few months, he resigned and returned to school to continue his studies, from master's degree to doctorate, from home to abroad, and finally graduated from the Department of Computer Science of Cambridge University in the United Kingdom in 2019. However, because of the new crown epidemic, he had to return to China if he wanted to go to the United States for development. Beijing Tsinghua University, Beijing University of Aeronautics and Astronautics, Nanjing University of Science and Technology and many other well-known universities extended olive branches to him, but in the end he chose to return to his parents. It may be that he has been away for a long time, he misses his mother, or it may be that the big city makes him feel strange and stressed, so the happy days of the family make him no longer lonely and afraid.
His father arranged for him to go to the only 211 university in the province as a professor, and his mother asked him to find a partner for his friends, however, time flies, and a few years have passed, and he is still single. It is said that he has academic qualifications, knowledge, appearance, demeanor, and a house and a car, but why has he not been able to find a partner for a long time? His mother began to worry about him, and his friends gradually lost interest in finding him a partner.
Fourth, review and insights
The times are developing too fast, and young people's concept of marriage and love has also undergone a complete change, they are not impatient, no longer afraid of age, no longer afraid of singleness, no longer regard marriage and family as the biggest goal of life, what they want is to live freely, live unrestrained, and live the meaning of life and the quality of life. I think this is the concept and values of young people today. But after the 60s, we are still wandering in our own values, unable to keep pace with the times, and still want to control and control everything about our children.
Parents should go with the flow, look at everything at the moment with a normal heart, do not urge marriage, do not force marriage, do not give birth, do not force birth, and live their own every day is enough.
Thanks to Mr. Xu Fan's wonderful presentation, it can be said that she has brought Meng Weiming to life, and also played the troubles and sorrows of the parents of the post-60s generation, from the parents of chicken babies to urging marriage and forced marriage, it is their misfortune and the sorrow of the children. In the TV series "If Running Is My Life", which has just finished broadcasting on CCTV, I have also seen such a mother played by Chen Xiaoyi. Zhao Xiuli Jiwa is strong, but in the end, her son Ruoxuan is depressed, and her daughter Ruohua is rebellious. Her daughter is ridiculed if she has no object, and she is not satisfied with her daughter when she has an object, and she is caught in it. Finally, her daughter was forced back to her hometown, but she didn't do anything, arranged blind dates for Ruohua all day long, and endlessly urged her to get married, so that her daughter wanted to get out of her control as soon as possible, so Ruohua met a scumbag, and was successfully stopped by her mother Zhao Xiuli on the day of the wedding.
I didn't expect to go one Chen Xiaoyi, and another Xu Fan, the chicken babies and strength of these post-60s women really make me empathize, and also make many post-90s young people suffocate and fear.
I don't know if netizens are also chasing the drama "Fireworks People", do they empathize with the relationship between Meng Weiming and Li Yijin's mother and daughter, do you also think that Mr. Xu Fan has performed it vividly, and the controlling mother is really hateful and pitiful!
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