Women are more emotional in love, but men are different, they are more rational in their relationships.
Many women wish they could meet a man who truly loves them and spend the rest of their lives with him.
But sometimes, we also find that not all men are the right people, and they will unknowingly do some misleading things.
Especially in relationships, men are more prone to change. If a man really loves you, then he is bound to have these changes.
Women need to understand that these changes are the manifestation of true love for you, and don't be stupid to let yourself be hurt.
Women hope that they can meet a man who only loves themselves, and this kind of relationship is very pure, but if a man meets the woman he likes, it will change a lot.
Because in this relationship, he will no longer treat you the same way as before, he will be full of passion and love for you.
Therefore, women have to learn to judge whether a man really loves you, just look at his 4 performances.
- It would have been very insecure to be with you before
"Love is an instinct, either the first time or later. —Anonymous
In the world of relationships, a sense of security is very important, because if you can't bring enough security to yourself, then the relationship will not last long.
If a man loves you, he will feel very secure with you, he will take the initiative to tell you all about him, and he is willing to give you the best of himself.
In life, he will no longer be as hot and cold to you as he used to be, nor will he be as passionate about you as he was before.
When he gets along with you, he is no longer as big and casual as before.
Because he likes you, he wants to be with you all the time, and he wants to make his life full of surprises and romance.
In the process, he will become cautious and afraid to lose his temper with you for fear of making you angry.
Because the deeper you love, the more you fear losing. So women don't care too much about what a man is like with you before.
After all, love is a matter of two people, as long as two people love each other and cherish each other.
- The demands on you will also increase
"Our biggest flaw is that we are selfish and we don't know it. —Anonymous
A man will always become very emotional in love, and when he falls in love with a woman, he will regard her as the most important person in his life, and he will want to live with her for the rest of his life, and he will feel very sorry for her.
So in this case, he will ask you to be better and better, and when you make some demands with him, he will become very strict and don't want to see you a little bit bad.
He may be angry that you are getting too close to other people of the opposite sex, and he may be worried that you will not be able to get home on time. In this case, he will be better and better for you.
Loving someone is like that, no matter what he looks like, as long as it is the person he likes. As long as the person you love is happy, it is enough.
In fact, men are the same in love, they don't really want to find a vase-like woman, they just want to find a shoulder that they can lean on.
If there is such a man who is willing to give so much time and energy for you, then he must love you very much.
- I don't love you so much anymore
"Love is an obligation, an obligation to make his lover happy. —Voltaire
Many times, a man is a very rational creature, he is sensible, he knows what he wants and what he should do.
But when he falls in love with someone, he becomes very emotional and impulsive.
Especially when he likes you, he will care about you very much, care for you, and think of you everywhere in his daily life.
For him, you are his everything, so he will spend all his energy and time with you.
But if a man no longer loves you as much as before after you fall in love, and even has some disgust with you, then it is probably because his love for you is not as strong as before.
In love, true love does not change because of time. So when a man doesn't love you as much as he used to, a woman should pay attention.
Generally speaking, if a man doesn't love you anymore, there will be several manifestations above, obviously, don't be stupid and don't understand.