Today is February 9, 2024, Chinese New Year's Eve. We have such a rule here, we must go to the grave on Chinese New Year's Eve Chinese New Year's Eve day, worship the ancestors, remember the achievements of the ancestors, and there is a superstitious saying, that is, invite the "old man to go home for the New Year".
When my father was young, his temper was very hot, and he often abused us, so several of our sisters were angry with him, but as they grew older, they were all relieved, and which child was not punished by his father? When he was in his 70s, he had a cerebral infarction and was bedridden, and his temper changed a lot. The days of bed rest coincided with our busy work schedule and we didn't have time to take care of him, so we hired a nanny, and then he made the house stink, and we finally decided to send him to a nursing home. Every once in a while, we would go to visit him with gifts, and these milks, quick noodles, and noodles were actually given to the waiters, hoping that they would take more care of their father.
An old man in the same room has lived to be 98 years old, and the uncle has been sick in bed for 10 years, and his consciousness is no longer clear. It is said that this is a retired cadre who has a pension of more than 8,000 yuan a month and free medical expenses. His son quit his job to take care of him. What is it to be alive? After living at such an age, he is at the mercy of others in bed like a vegetative person, and he has no dignity as a human being. The old man's in-laws joked, it seems that your family is much better than raising a pig! Look at my father again, although he also has a pension, more than 3,000 yuan a month, but except for the pension fee of 2,500, there is almost no money left. What's more, living like this is really worse than death. Therefore, it seems that the elderly should not live as old as possible, but should have a high quality of life. When you are seventy or eighty years old, you can take care of yourself and even travel abroad, which is the meaning of life.
From this point of view, health is the first place, people to get old, first of all, to protect their body, quit smoking and limit alcohol, eat less oily and salty food, pay attention to exercise, and prevent cerebral infarction and heart disease and other diseases that are common among the elderly. Although everyone will go to the grave in the final result, living with dignity one day later is the main purpose of life.