#Seeing the world#
For most women, it is unacceptable, and it can be said that women will be particularly disgusted by this matter, and they also hate men bringing up such things. If it is two people who know each other on a blind date, once the man proposes that the woman must also pay for the living expenses, it will basically be cool, unless the man is particularly outstanding, otherwise there is no possibility of being together, for this kind of man, the woman will define the man as an old fox, too picky, not suitable for finding a wife.
A large number of men think that half of the living expenses are reasonable, and that men and women are equal, you are right, but theory is not equal to reality, and it is not suitable for reality, if two people are so clear, there is no need to make do with each other, and the meaning of finding a partner is lost, and the purpose of finding a partner is to take care of each other, rather than to be together for the sake of pounds, can you be so clear in life? Do you have to learn an accounting major in advance?
Some people will say, you can't eat me for nothing, you can't live with me for nothing, it's normal to take living expenses.
Don't you look for a wife, someone will give you room fees? Don't you light the lamp? Don't you use electricity? How much does it cost a person to eat a day, do you eat delicacies from the mountains and seas every day? Ordinary meals are only 10 yuan or 8 yuan, if you can even take care of this expense, you really don't want any wife, it's better to be alone, and you don't have to calculate anything.
In the hearts of most men, they feel that women should also pay financially, and do everything together, so that it is fair. But women don't think like this, women think that a man even has to care about basic living expenses, and doesn't want to pay anything, this is to find a free nanny, marry a man, dress and eat, I have no reason to pay for living expenses, if I have, won't I spend? There is no way to accept such a request from a man.
What kind of man would make such a request?
Their income is not high, say poor, not poor, there is food and drink, food, clothing, housing and transportation are no problem, if one more person is added, the basic life can be reluctant, but there is no excess savings, they are afraid that if something happens, they can't get a penny, so they want women to also give a little, so that they will have a bottom in their hearts, can have a little savings, they earn about three or five thousand yuan a month, and then want to find someone to accompany them, the result is that no woman can accept it.
Now the basic standard of living in the city, everyone's basic living expenses should be about 2,000 yuan per month, this is a calm time, don't be sick, don't have any accidents, and can't consume too high, that is to say, if a person's monthly income is more than 3,000 fast, about 4,000 yuan, a person's life is not bad, if two people live, then you need to have a plan to consume, big fish and meat basically dare not buy, if there is another headache and brain fever, then there will be an economic crisis.
This is why many women who want to find a wife will ask men to have a monthly income of more than 5,000 yuan, because everyone knows in their hearts how much a person needs to spend every month, if a man wants a woman to bear the cost of living, almost no woman will be willing, unless the woman admires and loves the man very much, otherwise it is an impossible thing.
Why do elderly blind dates collapse when they talk about it?
We have all seen a lot of elderly people go on blind dates, but most of them can't get together, what is the reason? It's because the economy can't reach an agreement, the man doesn't want to spend, and the woman blindly asks for it, so there is no way to carry it out.
In men's hearts, I can control your food, clothing, housing and transportation has reached the limit, and some men still want to share living expenses with women, which are all reasons why women are unacceptable, so what are women's requirements? It is not complicated.
For women looking for a partner, most people want to improve their quality of life, is to find a reliance, not only food, clothing, housing and transportation is as simple as that, but also need to be financially profitable, or they will label themselves as free nannies, which is not a thing that works, and if you can't get anything from men, then you will feel that finding a wife has lost its meaning, but most men really can't accept it.
If you think about it, a woman either has foreign debts, wants a house, or needs a salary card, or needs an extra 2,000 yuan a month for 'crossing the river', and a man only has that few thousand yuan of income every month, how can he give it all to an irrelevant woman at once? The first is that she does not have this strength, and the second is that she is not at ease at all.
Is it possible for a man to be a man who is not very strong, and he still wants to find a young, beautiful and sensible woman? A woman is already old, and she still wants to have a 'beautiful' income, is it possible? One is a robber and the other is a thief, how can it be possible to reach an agreement, they will all become fine, and the accountants from the academic class can settle accounts, and there is no way to come together.
Older people also need to be heart-to-heart when looking for a partner, otherwise don't waste time and affection
What is heart-to-heart? That is, people who do not hate each other, are willing to pay for each other willingly, never care about each other in life, can treat their partners honestly and generously, do not care about economic gains and losses, accompany each other, take care of each other, your difficulties are my difficulties, your business is my business, and never give up.
Can you meet such a person? I can't say no, but it's a very difficult thing, it's harder than winning the lottery, it's harder than launching a satellite, it's hard to meet but can't be sought, and remarriage can't be said to be all bad, it's just that there are too few good ones, and there are successful cases around you, provided that both people are financially good, and the three views of two people are completely identical, this is really not an easy thing.
If a man wants to find a wife, he must first consider whether his economic strength is enough, that is to say, at least the monthly income should be more than 5000, no financial burden, good health, and a little savings, and he can also be generous and willing to pay for women, if you can't do this, then don't think too much about yourself, the seven fairies are only in mythology, and there will be no woman willing to pay for you.
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