I just saw an old news article that a woman in Zhuzhou, Hunan Province, regarded the other woman as her "rival in love" because another woman was chatting with her boyfriend using ambiguous language online, and then began to quarrel on the private message platform.
If it's just a quarrel like this, the matter will probably end here, and as for how to quarrel and get angry with your boyfriend later, at most it's just a breakup.
However, it just so happened that the woman who was regarded as a "rival in love" happened to be good friends with the roommate of the woman who jumped off the building.
Originally, the woman who jumped off the building had a grudge when she saw the "rival in love", but who knew that the "rival in love" was not a good stubble but an evil woman, and she took the initiative to provoke the woman who jumped off the building, and she provoked the woman who jumped off the building through the door in the rental room, "Why don't you dare to come out to see me when I'm here now."
At that moment, the woman who jumped off the building saw the "rival in love" sitting on the sofa and slapped her in the face, and then the two scuffled together, and then the woman who jumped off the building was crushed to the ground by the "rival in love".
And during this period, the boyfriend of the woman who jumped off the building kept sitting on the sofa and watching, full of scumbag.
When the two scuffled and separated, the woman suddenly jumped from the window and eventually jumped to her death.
Afterwards, the court sentenced the "scumbag" and the "evil girl" to compensate 50,000 and 30,000 respectively to the woman who jumped off the building.
The court's decision gave moral strength, but the lives lost were not exchanged for sympathy.
In this privacyless era where all kinds of love dramas are staged in turn, the routine of scumbags and scumbags has been popularized many times, right?
There are still many people who can look down on life and death for love madness, and people have to admire the power of love to destroy the world.
But life is precious, love is more valuable, if it is for freedom, both can be thrown. In front of the parents who gave birth to you, no matter how beautiful love is, it is not as important as life, right?
This also shows the extreme despair in the heart of the woman who jumped off the building at that time, if it wasn't desperate, what kind of impulse would it take to make an easy move to die?
Scumbags and evil women are not good people, but there is also a big problem with suicidal women. The first is the attitude towards the "love enemy", and the second is the attitude towards the "scumbag".
You love someone, it must be because you see the excellence of this person, but you are definitely not the only one who sees this excellence, others will also see it, then the person you love has the possibility of continuing to attract others from the beginning, will you regard every person who is attracted as a "love enemy"?
As for the "rival in love", do you know her? Have you had a grudge before? Can you talk to her, communicate and compare? If you are better than her, will the person you love definitely choose you?
Love is attracted to each other, didn't he meet someone better than you before you fell in love?
Therefore, at the moment of many "love enemies", you should still have self-confidence first, rather than seeking to get along with the "love enemy", it is better to communicate more with the person in front of you who cares, his thoughts, attitude and character are the key to determining who wins and loses in the battle for love.
If one day there is one more person in his eyes, will you feel that you are not good enough, or that someone else is better than you?
Treating "scumbags", in ancient times, there was Zhuo Wenjun's "I will rest if you are ruthless", and now there is star Ma Yili's "I can get used to you or replace you", so that women who can afford to put it down, can afford to love and abandon it are our love models, don't learn from those fools who died for love but finally got everyone a sentence of "worthless".
After all, your life is lost, and the person who has been tortured for the longest time and the most ruthless can only be the person who truly loves you, as for the lover who has already thought about you who died for him, at most he feels guilty and painful for a while, and soon has a new love, who still remembers your old love?
Even if you think of him a little more affectionately, what can you do if he will never fall in love again for the rest of your life? Your "liberation" alone has been exchanged for the pain of many people, what is the meaning of your life and death?
Love is not a sweet word in the shade of a tree, not a sweet word in the peach blossom garden, not a light tear, not a rigid compulsion, but a spiritual communication based on a common foundation, so once the Tao is different, it can not conspire with each other at any time.
Therefore, no matter how beautiful love is, you can't treat one love as the whole of life.