Blind date marriage, choose Dink, plan the world of two people for their career
At the urging of his parents, Yang Kun had to go on a blind date to meet a suitable marriage partner. To her surprise, this blind date turned out to be from the same place - Kunming, Yunnan, and the two not only have a common hometown and growth background, but also have many common interests and hobbies, and they are familiar at first sight.
Yang Kun secretly rejoiced in his heart, thinking that this candidate was a good candidate. Sure enough, under her initiative, the two soon came together. Both parents were very satisfied with the business.
After marriage, Yang Kun and her husband are both in the rising period of their careers, and she advises the two not to have children now, because pregnancy and childbirth will take up a lot of time and energy, which is not conducive to career development.
The husband has no objection to this, and even when his mother urges him to have a grandchild, he can understand his wife's thoughts and help her to maneuver. Unexpectedly, this "two-person world" plan lasted for more than 10 years.
At the age of 40, Yang Kun's mother finally couldn't hold back and asked her daughter in person if she planned to have a child. Only then did Yang Kun admit her decision to not have children for the rest of her life - she chose Dink.
Despite his mother's strong opposition, Yang Kun was very stubborn. As a daughter, she didn't want to endure the pain of childbirth; As an actress, she doesn't want to be disturbed by her children.
Although Yang's mother was dissatisfied, she couldn't resist her daughter's idea, so she could only acquiesce to her choice. In this way, Yang Kun and her husband lived an endless two-person world. Don't worry about raising children, and don't be disturbed by the crying of children, and devote yourself to your acting career.
She is eager for greater development of her career, fame and fortune, and the affirmation of the audience and peers. However, the road of life is not as smooth sailing as she imagined, perhaps when she made the decision not to have children, Yang Kun had already planted the seeds of regret.
The Golden Eagle actress was dissatisfied with being a supporting role and missed the opportunity
After starring in many hit dramas and winning the Golden Eagle Award for Best Supporting Actress with "Miss China in Foreign Travel", Yang Kun's popularity and popularity have increased rapidly, and his acting skills have also been recognized by the industry.
However, she is not satisfied with playing supporting roles all the time, and longs to be the heroine one day and play a heavier role. So after rejecting the supporting role invitation arranged by the director, Yang Kun decisively expressed her thoughts to the crew - she hopes to play the female number one.
To Yang Kun's surprise, the director not only directly rejected her request, but also thought that she was despising the supporting role, and she didn't know what to do. Yang Kun hurriedly explained that he was not dissatisfied, but just hoped for the opportunity to challenge more difficult roles.
But the director has already turned away, saying that he may consider her idea another day. This made Yang Kun very disappointed, she thought that she was already famous and could choose a role.
However, Yang Kun did not learn from her mother's opinion, she still went her own way, and refused mercilessly when she received an invitation to play a supporting role. She believes in her own strength, and sooner or later directors will come to praise her as the heroine.
This erroneous idea soon cost Yang Kun a terrible price. The many hit dramas she originally participated in were replaced by others because of her departure, but those actors became smash hits with these roles and became a new generation of "ratings queens".
And Yang Kun failed to challenge the protagonist in a high-profile manner, but was given a bad comment of "not self-sufficient". For several years, Yang Kun did not receive a decent drama contract. She was so anxious that she regretted that she shouldn't have missed so many opportunities, and she shouldn't have rejected the director's kindness again and again.
She fell into a trough and could only stay at home, watching her former peers frequently appear on the list and become the new darling of the entertainment industry. "I'm still young and I have opportunities.
Yang Kun couldn't stop comforting herself, but she also knew in her heart that the showbiz was a pool of unpredictable flowing water, and it was common for him to be famous today, and it was common for him to be ignored.
Whether his original choice was right or wrong, the scale of fate will not easily favor either side.
Her husband suddenly declared bankruptcy, and Yang Kun was in huge debt
Just as Yang Kun's career was back on track and she was about to take on new dramas to enrich her acting career, a sudden change disrupted all her plans. The husband broke into the house on a rainy night and told Yang Kun with a solemn face a shocking news - he was bankrupt.
Her husband, who has been in business for many years, has lost his business and incurred a huge amount of debt due to a failed investment decision. This news was like a bolt from the blue, Yang Kun couldn't believe it at all, and asked her husband again and again what was going on.
Her husband heartily told her the ins and outs of the matter, and he had indeed lost a dime, and they had nothing else but the clothes on them. After listening to her husband's narration, Yang Kun couldn't calm down for a long time, she knew that a family's source of income was suddenly cut off, and she needed to take on the heavy responsibility of filling this hole.
Early the next morning, Yang Kun contacted his agent, wanting to take on more plays as soon as possible to pay off his debts. However, most of the small roles she can receive are those who are over-aged, with a low salary, and she is unable to fill the gap of tens of millions of funds.
In desperation, Yang Kun could only sell the mansion and villa he had worked hard to build for many years. Listening to the auctioneer's final decision and sell her house at a low price, Yang Kun's eyes were red but there was nothing he could do.
She knew that she would live a very poor life from now on, huddled in a small apartment with her husband, and never return to her former wealth and dignity.
At this moment, Yang Kun couldn't help but regret the Dink decision he made when he was young. If I listened to my mother and had a child, now I have a lot to rely on. Even the daughter can share some of the housework and lighten her burden a little.
On the other hand, I am helpless at the moment, not only to take care of my husband, but also to rely on my own work to fill this huge hole, and the task is arduous. However, there are no ifs in life, and she can only reap the consequences and face this sudden change alone.
At the age of 61, he only lived on a meager pension, and had no choice but to return to his old job
After her husband went bankrupt, Yang Kun had to devote herself to her acting career in order to earn more income to fill the huge debt. However, she is 61 years old and is no longer a popular actress, and most of the supporting roles she can receive are some tricks.
The cost of the crew is very strictly controlled, and the salary that can be given to her is pitiful. Even if he filmed all year round, his annual income was only enough to maintain food and clothing, and he was unable to repay the loan sharks.
It should have been a time to enjoy his old age leisurely, but Yang Kun lived a life that was not as good as a cow and a horse. What makes her even more sad is that her husband, the "evil spirit", has nothing to do all day long, and she depends on her to eat, drink and Lazar.
Yang Kun no longer has the passion he had at the beginning, he just wants to go home and sleep after filming quickly. When the makeup artist applied foundation cream to her face, she couldn't hide the tiredness on her face; When the rival actor chatted with her, she didn't see much expression on her face.
Yang Kun just wanted to finish today's work quickly, so that she could lie down on the hard cot and sleep well early, and forget about this difficult reality for a while.
Even if he lives such a hard life, Yang Kun still has to face ridicule from the young actors in the crew. They would make fun of her for wearing a lot of makeup, like an old woman in a song and dance troupe; will show disdain in her words when she can't remember her lines; He even secretly called her a "bankrupt widow".
Yang Kun listened to it in his ears, but he was powerless to refute it, so he could only endure his grievances and continue to work. If it weren't for making money to cover her husband's debts, she wouldn't have been able to bear such humiliation at all.
However, the reality is so cruel, Yang Kun can only choose to accept it, and learn to get used to it. After all, life goes on.
Showing up in the live broadcast with goods was not cared for, and he was subjected to vulgar abuse
In order to increase some income, Yang Kun decided to show up and bring some goods on the live broadcast platform. She thinks that she is also an old drama bone after all, and she has a certain popularity base, so she should be able to attract some fans to buy the recommended products.
So Yang Kun registered a live broadcast account, and on the first day of the broadcast, he prepared some glasses and health care products that the elderly would choose, intending to use his own experience as a selling point to talk about the advantages of the product.
However, what Yang Kun didn't expect was that in her first live broadcast room, not even a single fan came. Some Xiaohuadan who went to shoot at the same time as her, but there was a barrage in the live broadcast room, and the fans who gave gifts one after another.
Although Yang Kun was a little embarrassed, he still started the first game with goods. She took out her reading glasses and introduced the features and prices to the camera, but there was no response in the empty live broadcast room.
Yang Kun's heart sank little by little, she realized that the general trend had gone, and her time had passed after all. Not only that, when Yang Kun was about to end the live broadcast, a few rogue fans actually came and began to insult her in the comment area as "old and improper" and "song and dance troupe changed careers".
Seeing these words, Yang Kun was embarrassed and angry, and closed the live broadcast room in a hurry. She imagined a situation where fans didn't pay, but she never imagined that she would be reduced to the point of being ridiculed.
Yang Kun came from it and locked himself in the room and cried. Successes and failures in life are always very close, the old scenery is fleeting, and she is no longer able to fight.
Looking back on the art process and then on the road of actor, my parents advised me carefully
Speaking of Yang Kun, we can't fail to mention her background in a literary family. Her parents both worked in the local art troupe, and her upbringing made her have a strong interest and passion for drama performance from an early age.
Whether his parents are playing or rehearsing, Yang Kun will follow along and watch with relish. Writing, directing and acting in sketch dramas in front of the mirror has become a part of her daily life.
Especially when she became a literary and artistic cadre in the class, she had more opportunities to organize her classmates to perform programs, which gave her a great sense of achievement.
So, when Yang Kun told her parents that she wanted to be a professional actor in the future, they were not surprised. However, considering the complexity of the environment at that time, they also persuaded Yang Kun that this road was not easy to follow.
After all, an actor's life has too many ups and downs, and a slight carelessness may ruin his career. But Yang Kun has firm ambitions, no matter how her parents persuade her to give up the idea of becoming an actress, she insists on embarking on this road of no return.
In desperation, Yang Kun's parents could only do their best to cultivate their daughter's acting skills. The husband and wife passed on everything they had learned all their lives to her, not only out of protection of their daughter's career, but also to satisfy their own demands.
After graduating from high school, Yang Kun successfully passed the layers of assessment and entered the acting department of Beijing Film Academy. When her parents said goodbye to her at the airport, they repeatedly told her to be cautious in her words and deeds, and not to ruin her future because of a quick speech. Yang Kun nodded and started his acting career.
Once his fate almost changed, the examiner almost vetoed it because of his appearance
Being admitted to Beijing Film is an important turning point in Yang Kun's acting career. She has witnessed her parents' acting career since she was a child, and she has long been full of yearning for this industry. In order to realize her dream of being an actor, she resolutely chose to apply for the acting major after the college entrance examination, and she went all out in every aspect of the interview.
However, at the last level, Yang Kun's fate was almost changed by the examiner's words. "This child's acting skills and talent are impeccable, but with her appearance, it is difficult to develop in the entertainment industry. The examiners sat around and discussed Yang Kun's whereabouts.
Yang Kun stood outside the door, rubbing his fingers nervously. She couldn't believe that all the hard work she had put in was wasted because her facial features were not good enough. "Do you pass her directly, or give this seedling a chance?" The examiners argued.
Just when Yang Kun was about to give up hope, an examiner suggested that he might as well give her a chance to play a supporting role. In the end, the examiners made the decision to keep Yang Kun. And this also changed the trajectory of her life.
chose Dink during the rise of his career, although his mother disagreed, but he couldn't help it
Yang Kun's married life is plain and happy. Soon after they got married, she proposed to her husband that she wanted Dink, on the grounds that childbirth would delay the development of their careers, and her husband readily agreed to her idea.
Whenever her husband's mother urged him to have a grandchild, he was able to respond tactfully and take the responsibility on himself. This arrangement also made Yang Kun's mother more satisfied with this marriage - the son-in-law treats her daughter well, and the relationship between husband and wife is harmonious.
However, Yang's mother was not deceived by her daughter's happy married life, and she was keenly aware that Yang Kun did not plan to have children at all. But every time she asked tentatively, Yang Kun could divert the topic and avoid answering.
Yang Kun, who was forced to be questioned by her mother, also lost her temper, and she simply told all the words in her heart: "I just don't want to give birth! Yang's mother was angry and helpless, she strongly opposed her daughter's idea, but she couldn't do anything about her.
Yang Kun has always been stubborn, she knows that even if she doesn't agree, her daughter will go her own way. The mother and daughter were at a stalemate with each other's positions, and both chose to give in and acquiesce.
At the age of forty, he frankly admitted that he would be infertile for life, and his mother had no choice but to acquiesce
At the age of forty, Yang Kun finally mustered up the courage to have a showdown in front of her mother - she chose Dink and had decided not to have children in this life. Hearing her daughter's decision, Yang's mother was stunned at first, and soon her eyes turned red.
In the face of her mother's anger, Yang Kun was not to be outdone, she retorted confidently: "I also have my own plans, choosing not to have children is a matter for me and my husband, and it has nothing to do with you!" The atmosphere was extremely tense at one point, and the mother and daughter were like two opposing trenches.
After a long time, Yang's mother suddenly deflated and sat back in the chair, she understood her daughter's temperament, and instead of having a big quarrel, it was better to give in and retreat.
So, Yang's mother simply stopped mentioning this matter and acquiesced in her daughter's decision. She began to learn to adapt to the reality that she would not be able to hold her grandson in the future, and that her daughter would live a different life from others.
But she also understands that Yang Kun has a stubborn personality, and no matter how much she opposes, it may not help. She can only try to accept this fact and hope that her daughter will not regret this decision.
The golden years are gone, and I can only play some old lady roles
Yang Kun has been in the film industry for many years, but what really made her a smash hit was only three or two dramas. As the years go by, her appearance is no longer there, she has long passed the age of being a beautiful match, and most of the roles she can receive now are some old ladies.
Yang Kun was also unwilling to fade out of sight like this, she re-repaired the picture and went to the door of the studio to submit her resume.
After hitting the wall again and again, Yang Kun finally faced up to this reality: her acting career has entered the twilight of her life. The audience will never cheer for her role as much as they did back then, she is the ordinary trickster.
Yang Kun also said to his colleagues self-deprecatingly, "I'm old enough to only play your mother", which caused a lot of laughter. Indeed, she is not the beautiful spring flower now, at most she is playing soy sauce in the play - just adding a little blockage to the male and female protagonists.
However, fortunately, Yang Kun didn't expect to rely on acting skills to eat in his life, otherwise he would only starve to death. What can she do if she is unwilling at this moment? The world is changing, and there are always new people replacing the old ones.
She complained and repented, but after all, she still had to go. Yang Kun still remembers that the Golden Eagle Award ceremony was brightly lit, and today she stood in the convenience store to take care of the shelves, and she couldn't help but sigh. But she understands that the stage is not hers after all, and it is time to make way for young people.
Now the 9-to-5 acting skills are still the same, and they are allowed to act for 20 years
Today's Yang Kun is no longer the gold medal actor of the year, but her acting skills are still remarkable. After her husband went bankrupt, she had to return to her old business, even if she didn't have the opportunity to play an important role, she could always use her superb acting skills to vividly show a small role in front of the audience.
"Teacher Yang is the savior of our group, she can always remember the lines as quickly as possible. So said the young actors. Indeed, her rich experience in film allows Yang Kun to enter the play without too much rehearsal, she relies on the accumulation and precipitation of these years. Even if it is just a passer-by on the background board, she will perform it seriously, devote herself to it, and show her acting skills.
As for whether he can physically support the filming of such intensive scenes, Yang Kun has never been worried. "I'm in good shape!" Whenever a reporter asked her this, she would put on a posture of an eldest sister and say with a smile that I can still act for 20 years! Indeed, from the steadfastness in Yang Kun's eyes and the faint smile on the corner of his mouth, there is not the slightest trace of decadence and fatigue. Perhaps it is precisely because she has fallen into a trough that the current small supporting role has also become the motivation and hope for her to soar again.
Yang Kun knows very well that his acting career can no longer return to the glorious era of gold medals in the past. But she is not discouraged, at the age of 61, she can still release her desire to perform in front of the camera, which is enough. Tomorrow is still the day when I have to get up early and film darkly, which is also the happiest for Yang Kun now.
Ten years of watching and spending fifty years in the shadow, I never expected the chickens to fly and the dogs to jump
In his 50-year acting career, Yang Kun has also experienced many ups and downs. From an ignorant girl learning acting with her parents, to being admitted to Beijing Film with full hope, and then to almost losing the opportunity because of her appearance, after several reincarnations, she finally emerged in the TV series.
At that time, Yang Kun was full of longing and expectation for her acting career, she wanted to win the love of the audience and shine her light on the big screen.
Yang Kun gradually became famous, thinking that he could already take on the drama with a high degree of selectivity. Who knew that a wrong decision would ruin all the network resources she had worked so hard to accumulate in this circle.
In her best years, Yang Kun lost a great opportunity, and she also paid a heavy price for her mistakes. Fortunately, God still favored her and gave her a chance to start again.
The drama "Mother-in-law, Daughter-in-law, and Sister-in-law" made her successfully transform again and started the second spring of her career.
thought that he would always be active in the entertainment industry and reach new heights. Unexpectedly, her husband's sudden bankruptcy made Yang Kun heavily indebted and had to go back to the mountains to make money. Now she has no choice, even if it is a small role, she has to take it in order to make up for the family expenses.
From a net worth of tens of millions to a pension of only 2,500 yuan, the ups and downs of life caught Yang Kun off guard. She also regretted her decision, but at this moment, in the face of the cruel reality, all she can do is to straighten her waist and continue to struggle.