After the man opens his mind, there are nine manifestations, which are very real!
No more reliance on connections
Networking is the result of success, not your path to success.
Let yourself continue to grow, you are your biggest connection.
The essence of social networking is an exchange of resources. Connections are not something you want, you want to attract.
No more overestimating relationships
Most of the conflicts between people come from overestimating their own status in each other's hearts.
For the rest of your life, be yourself, be close and follow fate, your happiness will depend on yourself to achieve sometimes, sincerity may not be able to exchange for sincerity, and efforts may not be rewarded.
I don't want to change people anymore
Changing oneself is God, changing others is psychosis.
Change what you can change, accept what you can't.
Only screen, don't change, don't try to change anyone, respect others' choices, and reduce the complex of helping others.
No more complaining about frustration
The road of life is like an electrocardiogram, and it is not a good thing not to have twists and turns.
There is no road in vain in this world, and every step is a piece of the puzzle to build a life. Take hardship as a stepping stone, turn grievances into the driving force, and the future you want will come as promised.
No more complaining
Uncover the wound to others, others will see the excitement, but it is yourself who is in pain.
Knowing that you are on your own, you will be able to swallow your tears silently and swim to the other side with all your might. There is no empathy in this world, only you know the warmth and coldness of human feelings, and the hot and cold state of the world is the daily life.
I don't care what others think
Life is something that belongs to each person's own feelings, not to anyone else's opinion. After all, life is one's own, and only oneself knows how to live.
Live your life the way you like, and even if it's not fulfilling, you won't have regrets.
Make reading a habit
It's not that reading books is useless, it's that the little books you read are useless.
Reading is like our outstretched tentacles, helping us perceive the world. Make reading a daily routine that gives you the strength to rise in any moment of stuckness.
Put your health first
You can hire someone to cook, drive, and work for you, but you can't hire someone to help you with your illness.
When I was young, I relied on my good health, stayed up all night, and got drunk. When you get older, all kinds of problems will come in.
Regularize your own work and habits, and when you are healthy, you can go longer and longer for the rest of your life.
Save more money when you have time
I didn't understand the hardships of life before, and I always felt that it was easy to buy myself a big brand. As a result, the monthly salary is only a hand, and it is glamorous on the surface, but in fact it is empty. Lack of money once will make you understand that there is nothing more desperate than not having money, and nothing is more heart-wrenching than the regret caused by lack of money.
The gap between people does not come from age, or even from experience, but from the ability to summarize, reflect and sublimate experience!