There are some things that you don't understand until you're married.
You have to look away when you encounter problems, especially emotionally, there is no absolute loyalty.
After getting married, you must have a job! No matter how much you earn! Don't work full-time!
Close relatives and estranged couples, there must still be a distance.
If you can find good conditions, you can find good conditions, and the basis of marriage is economic conditions.
Don't be in a hurry to have children, don't have children when you don't see a person clearly.
At first, I wanted to find someone to shelter you from the wind and rain, but later I found out that he gave all the wind and rain.
He will really think that you don't make money after marriage.
Never think you can change a man.
When you want to get married, think about whether you have the confidence to divorce.
Marriage is not a safe haven, but sometimes it is marriage that brings wind and rain to life, only when you get married do you know that the house is not yours, the car is not yours, and how uncomfortable it is when you quarrel and are kicked out by the other party.
Getting married can only be the icing on the cake, if you yourself don't have the ability to live your own life, don't think that a person can pull you along. Don't give your happiness to others.
Just keep your eyes open before marriage, and just open one eye and close one eye after marriage. Find the disadvantages before marriage and the advantages after marriage.
It is more important to get rid of poverty before the age of 30 than to get rid of singles, first cultivate yourself and improve yourself, and then think about marriage. After getting married, I realized that it is not enough for two people to love each other, not for two people to live, and having children is the real beginning of marriage.
Don't look for happiness in others, happiness and security come from yourself. Be sure to put loving yourself first.
You must be self-centered, value your feelings, and value your pursuit of happiness and interests.
No one is worth their own internal friction, it is enough to worry about it properly, it hurts others and hurts oneself more, do oneself, improve oneself, work hard to make money, and make oneself happy The most important thing is to make oneself.
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