Since I married a nurse's wife, I finally know why I can't just marry a nurse and go home. It turns out that the profession of nurse not only requires hard work, but also bears huge psychological pressure. And this kind of pressure tends to gradually manifest itself in married life, making our lives disharmonious. Hahaha, this is really a reality that makes people laugh and cry.
My wife is a young nurse who has to deal with a variety of patients every day. Sometimes, she will encounter some vexatious patients, and she will even be scolded and beaten by them. This makes her worry and heavy every day. And I, as her husband, can't share the pressure for her. could only look at her silently from the sidelines, with mixed feelings in his heart.
One day, I stumbled upon a news story about a nurse who was violently assaulted by a patient's family in a hospital. After reading the news, I couldn't help but sigh: There is such a thing happening in this world? Should we turn a blind eye to these brave nurses? No, I want to speak up for my wife!
So, I started to pay attention to nurses as a group and understand the unfair treatment they suffer at work. I have found that the job of a nurse is not only to take care of the patient's body, but also to bear their psychological stress. Sometimes, they even have to endure grievances for the sake of a patient's words. This reminds me of the saying: "The farthest distance in the world is not life and death, but when I stand in front of you, and you don't know that I love you." ”
My wife told me that one of her colleagues chose to leave her job because she couldn't stand the violence of the patient's family. And after I listened to it, I had mixed feelings. I know that my wife is a very kind and caring person. She was reluctant to leave the nursing career she loved, and even more reluctant to let go of the patients who needed her help. However, I was also worried that she would be crushed by such a life.
So, I began to try to understand her work and support her decision. Whenever she came home from work, I would give her a warm hug and tell her, "Honey, you've worked hard." And she will give me a sweet smile when I am tired. This is our love, full of twists and turns, but still strong.
However, disharmony in life is always unavoidable. Sometimes, we encounter patients and families who are difficult to communicate with. They are full of misunderstandings, mistrust, and even vexatiousness about our work. This made my wife feel aggrieved and even began to doubt her own worth. And I couldn't do anything but comfort her silently on the sidelines.
The respect and care for nurses in this society is far from enough. Many people's understanding of nurses is limited to the role of "injection and infusion", and they ignore the great contributions they have made in patient care and psychological counseling. This made me feel very angry and helpless. I hope that this society can give more care and support to our nurses, so that they can live a happy life in this land.
Today, my nurse wife and I have gone through many ups and downs. Although our lives are not perfect, we all know how to cherish each other's company. I wanted to say to her, "Thank you, my dear, for being with me so far. No matter how many difficulties and challenges we will encounter in the future, I am willing to face them with you forever. ”