Lin Chiling and Yan Chengxu are a couple who have attracted much attention in the entertainment industry, and the two of them have a high degree of compatibility in terms of appearance, personality and career development.
Lin Chiling, she is a famous actor and host in Taiwan, China, with her tall figure and delicate facial features, she has always been a goddess in the minds of many people. Her influence in the entertainment industry cannot be ignored, with her excellent acting skills and unique charm, Lin Chiling has achieved many excellent results in the entertainment industry. Yan Chengxu, he is a famous idol star in South Korea, he has a handsome face and good acting skills, whether in South Korea or China, Yan Chengxu has a very high reputation.
His influence is not only limited to the film and television industry, but also involved in music, fashion and other fields, both of whom are leaders in the entertainment industry, with their own efforts and talents, they have achieved good results in their respective fields, and have been loved and supported by the audience.
Not only are these two outstanding in terms of looks, but they have also achieved great success in their careers, so in the eyes of the outside world, they can be regarded as a perfect match for "golden boys and girls".
As early as many years ago, the two became familiar because of their collaboration on the variety show. The interactive variables in the show have far outweighed the friendly relationship between colleagues, and the subtle and ambiguous atmosphere between them has made the audience think about it, sparking a lot of speculation and speculation about the relationship between the two.
Their behavior is like showing the whole world their special relationship, which undoubtedly strengthens the outside world's belief that their relationship is absolutely extraordinary.
Just recently, the scandal between Lin Chiling and Yan Chengxu has been spreading, which has undoubtedly become the focus of attention in the entertainment industry and fandom. However, despite numerous evidence and clues, neither side has made any official response to the scandal. Therefore, the relationship between them remains a mystery.
They are high-profile stars in the entertainment industry, and they are very high in terms of appearance, acting skills and popularity. They have made a lot of achievements in their acting careers, and they also have many excellent works that are loved by the audience. Therefore, if they can be together, it will definitely be a legendary story in the entertainment industry, and it will become a topic of concern and heated discussion among many fans.
However, when two people come to this step of breaking up, everyone is caught off guard and difficult to accept. The outside world had high hopes for this pair of beautiful people and sent blessings one after another, but in the end, it was the end of fate. This result is really regrettable. Although the two are deeply in love, they did not expect to come to this point. The direction of this relationship has always attracted much attention, let's wait and see how it breaks down later to see what has become a stumbling block to the relationship between the two.
Yan Chengxu has always been an eye-catching figure, and his talent and charm have given him a place in the entertainment industry. Yan Seung-wook is extremely attractive in appearance, his handsome appearance, tall figure, and his elegant temperament make him look like a natural star.
However, under the glamorous appearance, Yan Chengxu has a weakness that cannot be explained to the outside world, that is, the inferiority complex in his heart. Yan Chengxu has been discriminated against and ostracized by the outside world because of his family's poverty since he was a child, which filled his heart with a sense of insecurity and inferiority.
Yan Chengxu has always struggled to overcome his inferiority complex, and he tries to prove his worth through his efforts and talents. He continues to work hard in the entertainment industry and constantly improve his acting skills, hoping to be recognized and loved by the audience.
Although Yan Chengxu's inferiority complex has always existed, he has successfully overcome this weakness through his own efforts and persistence. His life experience tells us that everyone has their own weaknesses, but as long as we face our weaknesses bravely and overcome them through our own efforts, we can become stronger and more confident.
This deep inferiority complex comes from his family background, because his father left home, and he grew up in a single-parent family since he was a child, which also made him have a certain misunderstanding of the concept of family, and feel that family is a kind of regret. In such a family background, he has been very sensible since he was a child, and has taken on a lot of heavy responsibilities, which also makes his character gradually show a deep sense of inferiority, because he feels that he can't have a complete family like other children, which also makes him encounter a lot of setbacks and difficulties in the process of growing up.
Although Yan Chengxu has gone through many years of hard work and struggle, and has also achieved a certain status and fame in the entertainment industry, his heart is still full of insecurity and instability. He always thinks about his origins and background, and feels that this can be an obstacle in his pursuit of success. He is always on his toes, not forgetting where he came from, not forgetting what he has been through, and not forgetting his goals and dreams.
This sense of insecurity and instability makes him always show himself very hard and diligent in work and life, because he knows that only in this way can he be more determined to succeed, and he can also make his heart more calm and stable.
When the scandal with Lin Chiling spread, Yan Chengxu was tormented in his heart. Lin Chiling has a prominent family background, and he is just an ordinary boy from an ordinary background. Such an identity background made him have a deep sense of inferiority and felt that he was very different from Lin Chiling. Although Lin Chiling gave Yan Chengxu many opportunities to show her favor and express her good impression of him, Yan Chengxu chose to retreat again and again because of his inferiority complex.
He has always been very aware of his family background in his heart, he knows that his parents are working-class, but Lin Chiling is from a wealthy family, which makes him feel inferior, thinking that he cannot match Lin Chiling, so he missed the opportunity to actively pursue Lin Chiling.
On the surface, Yan Chengxu is a rather modest and introverted person, but in fact he lacks self-confidence, and this self-blame often hinders the development between him and Lin Chiling. As time passed, Lin Chiling also gradually became disappointed with Yan Chengxu's negative personality, and she believed that Yan Chengxu should become more confident and independent so that they could face life's challenges together.
She tried her best to help Yan Chengxu build self-confidence, but Yan Chengxu's inferiority complex always appeared in their relationship, making the foundation of this relationship even more unstable.
With Lin Chiling's continuous encouragement, Yan Chengxu finally mustered up the courage and the two came together. However, the development of the relationship is not as Lin Chiling wants, and Yan Chengxu's passive personality is still the biggest obstacle in their relationship.
Lin Chiling is a warm and generous woman who likes to express her feelings directly and never hides her preferences and thoughts. Therefore, when she communicates with Yan Chengxu, she will take the initiative to greet his work and life, and even send cute emojis to provoke the topic, so that Yan Chengxu can feel her sincerity and care. In addition, Lin Chiling also hopes that the communication between the two can be more proactive, not just Yan Chengxu's unilateral output, but more interaction and communication, so that the relationship between the two can be more intimate.
Yan Chengxu has always been in a passive state in this relationship, he never seems to take the initiative to contact Lin Chiling, and every invitation and every confiding in Lin Chiling can only be exchanged for his polite but slightly indifferent response. His reply is always only a few words, and it feels like there isn't much fluctuation in his heart. Lin Chiling once invited him to go out to play, but he was always noncommittal, neither agreeing nor objecting, which made Lin Chiling feel a little confused and helpless.
And when Lin Chiling confided in him about his troubles, he only simply comforted her, and did not really enter her heart and give her substantial help and support.
However, in Lin Chiling's eyes, Yan Chengxu's coldness made her unable to feel his enthusiasm and concern. What she needs is Yan Chengxu's active participation, not just simple companionship, because it will make her feel like she is waiting for an unknown response. Lin Chiling hopes that Yan Chengxu can express his feelings more actively, instead of just letting her guess his thoughts by herself.
She is looking forward to getting more expressions of love from Yan Chengxu, being able to feel his deep emotions in words and actions, not just facing an indifferent sculpture, not being able to feel Yan Chengxu's heart from it, and not allowing him to really enter her heart.
Lin Chiling has been trying to communicate with Yan Chengxu, but Yan Chengxu doesn't seem to be able to understand her inner needs. Lin Chiling hoped that Yan Chengxu would take the initiative to care about her, but Yan Chengxu always remained silent, which made Lin Chiling feel very disappointed. This frustration builds between the two of them, causing their relationship to drift apart.
It is difficult to maintain in this state, and if Yan Chengxu can't change his passive character, they are destined to be difficult to last long.
Seeing that Yan Chengxu was still in a passive position in the relationship between the two, Lin Chiling decided to take action to make Yan Chengxu change. She tried to test Yan Chengxu by creating various situations, expecting Yan Chengxu to take the initiative to express her position and give her more security.
For example, Lin Chiling was hospitalized while falling while riding a horse, and she hoped that Yan Chengxu could take a leave of absence to take care of her in the ward, even if it was for a short time. But Yan Chengxu didn't do this, he was still busy with work, so he only came to visit Lin Chiling at night for a short time and left.
For another example, when the two met a media reporter by chance, Lin Chiling immediately said "everything is possible" to hint at the relationship between the two, hoping that Yan Chengxu could respond positively to the reporter's questions and clarify their relationship.
However, Yan Chengxu only smiled politely and left the scene without responding to any questions.
After these several temptations, Lin Chiling found that Yan Chengxu still couldn't give her the sense of security she wanted. She needs Yeon Seung-wook to be able to express their relationship openly and not hesitate to stand up and support her when she needs help.
However, Lin Chiling felt that he could not be her support because of Yan Chengxu's passivity.
Lin Chiling was disappointed, she found that Yan Chengxu's personality was difficult to change in a short period of time. If he keeps doing this, there may not be a strong foundation between them to maintain a long-term relationship.
Maybe the breakup is good for both of them, and it can also allow Yan Chengxu to enjoy his single life as he wants.
After the breakup, Lin Chiling deeply reflected on the lessons of this relationship. She believes that Yan Chengxu's problem is mainly that he is not good at taking the initiative to express his love for Lin Chiling.
The longevity of a relationship is closely related to whether both parties are proactive. Love should not be limited to verbal promises, but should be demonstrated through deeds. Such as active greetings, companionship, understanding, support, etc., are all manifestations of love.
Lin Chiling believes that in fact, these can be obtained through learning and practice. Skills such as confession, dating tricks, and interactive speech can all be mastered through proactive practice.
It is not appropriate to blame passivity simply on the environment in which you grew up, what really matters is the determination to change.
Everyone needs to be responsible for their own feelings. If you lack the ability to actively express love, you need to have the courage to break through the limitations instead of passively waiting. Waiting and doing nothing will only miss out on precious love in the end.
This reminded Lin Chiling to be more proactive in facing her feelings, not to be depressed and aggrieved because of the other party's passivity, and to learn to break the deadlock and create a romantic atmosphere by herself.
This process requires two people to work together, and one person's initiative is enough to change the big picture.
The story of Lin Chiling and Yan Chengxu makes us understand the importance of initiative. Love requires both parties to actively participate in the maintenance, and cannot be passive and complain. Only by being self-reliant and having the courage to change can we achieve the happiness we want.
The breakup of Lin Chiling and Yan Chengxu has a major revelation for us. Feelings need to be maintained by both parties, and they cannot be unilaterally passive and complaining.
Yan Chengxu's low self-esteem and passivity are important reasons for the breakdown of this relationship. He retreated into the framework of self-imposed limitations and missed the opportunity to pursue it on his own initiative. And Lin Chiling expects him to change his passive attitude and give her more care, which also became the direct fuse for the final breakup of the two.
Like Yan Chengxu, we often have all kinds of preconceived prejudices, so we are afraid to pursue happiness. Waiting passively and not actively acting will only end up missing out on your own happiness.
In fact, expressing love and communicating and understanding are not innate, they need to be learned and practiced. We should not be limited by a certain framework, but should take the initiative to pursue the life we want. With the determination to change the passive state, it is possible for anyone to achieve their goals.
This reminds us to be more involved in our feelings, to take the initiative to express love and be considerate of the other person, and to persevere even if the other person does not respond for a while.
The power of love is like a trickle soaked in stagnant water, which will eventually bring two hearts closer together.
The story of Lin Chiling and Yan Chengxu tells us that passivity will miss out on precious love. Only when both parties take the initiative to invest and water the flowers of affection with active love, can the flowers of happiness bloom to the end.
Let us draw strength from their lessons and actively create our own happy life.