Lejia's life story from ordinary to successful
In 1994, at the age of 20, Le Jia felt that bank work was too boring. Tired of repeating a single work pattern all day long, he finally mustered up the courage to quit.
Leaving a stable but monotonous position, Lejia began to find a life path that truly belongs to him.
At first, Lejia tried a variety of different jobs. He has worked in real estate sales and cosmetics sales, and with his outstanding eloquence and excellent sales skills, he quickly made a name for himself in the sales industry.
Later, Lejia was promoted to sales training instructor by the company. In the process of training, he found that he has a strong charisma and appeal for speech. The students also liked his lively and humorous explanations.
This became the motivation for Lejia to decide to switch careers to become a full-time speaker.
Since 1995, in order to make himself stand out among other speakers, Lejia has been studying hard and researching how to build a personalized speaking style. He shaved his hair and spoke sharply and bluntly when he came to stage, and he was quickly recognized.
By 2001, Le Jia had become famous, and he proposed his own theory of character color and founded a research center. In 2010, Jiangsu Satellite TV invited him to serve as a mentor for star emotional programs due to his maverick personality.
The show received an enthusiastic response, and Le Jia became a well-known star for a while.
It can be said that with his amazing perseverance and talent, Lejia has grown step by step from an ordinary bank clerk to a well-known speaker and emotional expert. His success story is inspiring, and it goes through the hard work and process of achieving one's dreams.
Lejia's ex-wife Tao Hong has been battling cancer for 8 years
In 2014, Le Jia and Tao Hong divorced and broke up by agreement. Not long after, Tao Hong was diagnosed with cancer by a doctor during a routine physical examination. Alone in the empty hospital room to accept this sudden bad news, Tao Hong only felt that the world was spinning, and the shadow of death seemed to be shrouded.
Her heart was filled with great fear, despair, and pain.
However, Tao Hong, who was only 40 years old, quickly picked herself up. She realizes that only by facing it positively and positively can we respect life best. So Tao Hong chose to take on the heavy responsibility of fighting the disease, and only sought a good turn on the road to healing.
In the long and boundless 8 years, Tao Hong has undergone countless chemotherapy, surgery and recovery. The gradual thinning of herself in the mirror did not break her will, and she taught herself to learn to smile and face all the pain.
After each chemotherapy treatment, her weakened body still did not give up her desire for recovery, and Tao Hong completed every step of the prayer with hope.
In the difficult journey of fighting cancer, Tao Hong is not alone. Her ex-husband Le Jia often comes to visit with her lovely daughter and strongly supports her work. Tao Hong is pleased to see her daughter grow up healthy and happy, which has become an important motivation for her to regain her confidence and defeat the disease.
Eight years later, the 48-year-old Tao Hong still failed to defeat the disease. She left this world in Los Angeles in June 2022, but the quality of her struggling spirit is something to learn from and admirable for everyone.
Tao Hong's death brought great pain to Le Jia and her daughter
Early one morning in June 2022, Lejia drove her 10-year-old daughter Ling'er to school as usual. Just a few meters away from the school gate, his mobile phone suddenly rang.
Le Jia looked grim and turned sideways to listen to the phone. However, after just a few words of conversation, his face had turned as pale as death. Hanging up the phone, Lejia stopped on the side of the road with a sudden brake.
He took a deep breath and turned his face to Ling'er.
"Baby...... Mom, she's gone. ”
Hearing this news, Ling'er only felt that the world was spinning. Tears instantly flooded her eyes, and she couldn't say anything, so she could only kneel down in her seat and cry silently. The girl's slender shoulders trembled, and her hands clenched her chest, like a ruined boat in the wind.
Le Jia also felt unprecedented grief, he hugged his daughter hard and let her cry bitterly in his arms. The father and daughter hugged silently in the car, sharing the sudden sadness and blow.
In order to fulfill Tao Hong's last wish, and to help her daughter get out of her pain, Le Jia decided to take Ling'er on a trip to Tibet. I hope that this favorite place of Tao Hong can soothe the wounds in her daughter's heart.
Along the way, under the sky and clouds of the plateau, the father and daughter found great comfort. Ling'er finally opened her heart again and chatted with Le Jia about her mother.
In the good memories, Tao Hong's bright smile seems to be alive in front of him. This journey healed their wounds and taught Ling'er to slowly accept her mother's departure.
It also makes the relationship between father and daughter deeper and becomes the strongest spiritual sustenance in this life.
Lejia shows calmness and responsibility in the face of adversity
Many people believe that once the marriage comes to an end, the ex will often be incompatible with each other, and breaking off friendship is the norm. But Lejia did not choose to forget and escape.
Despite his divorce from Tao Hong, Le Jia still tried his best to achieve a harmonious relationship between the two and care for each other. He always pays attention to Tao Hong's condition, and often personally drives his daughter to the hospital to visit her in the hospital.
This sincere companionship has become an important spiritual sustenance on Tao Hong's lonely road to fight cancer, and it has also allowed the former couple to maintain a deeper friendship than anyone else.
In June 2022, the news of Tao Hong's unfortunate death due to illness is undoubtedly the heaviest blow in Le Jia's life. But instead of running away from this fact, he summoned up great courage to bring it up in front of his daughter.
Thinking of her 10-year-old daughter having to endure the pain of losing her mother's love at this age, Le Jia's heart was full of endless sorrow and self-blame. But he endured his grief and gently comforted his daughter with the most calm, tolerant, and responsible posture of a father, giving her the strength to face reality.
In order to fulfill Tao Hong's last wish, and to help her daughter get out of her pain, Le Jia took her on a trip to Tibet. This is not only a spiritual journey to find solace, but also a way for Lejia to protect this home.
He did not give up being a qualified father because of the departure of his wife, but took on double the responsibility, allowing people to see his mature and steady inner qualities. It can be said that in the face of major life events such as illness and death, Lejia showed rare composure and tolerance, and perfectly interpreted the true meaning of being a man.