Tao Hong's growth process
Tao Hong was born in an ordinary rural family, the third in the family, and has two older brothers and an older sister. My parents made a living by farming, and their lives were poor.
When she was a child, Tao Hong was extremely lively and cute, and often played behind the eldest and second brothers with a smile. Despite the poverty of her family, Tao Hong's childhood was still happy. She likes to listen to her mother's stories about costume dramas, and often imagines that she is also a strong martial arts woman.
Tao Hong has been smart and studious since she was a child, and she especially likes Chinese classes. Whenever the Chinese teacher talks about ancient poems, she always listens attentively and can recite them. Her classmates said that she was a "little language expert".
After entering high school, Tao Hong's musical talent began to show. She joined the campus folk choir and has a high-pitched and pure singing voice. The music teacher discovered her talent and deliberately tutored her individually in her spare time.
When participating in the provincial music competition, Tao Hong's solo folk song "Jasmine" touched the judges and the audience present and won the gold medal in one fell swoop. This became the starting point of her singing career.
After the college entrance examination, Tao Hong was admitted to the vocal music major of the Conservatory of Music. In the systematic Xi, her singing voice has been improved to a higher level. In her sophomore year, Tao Hong represented the school in the National College Student Singing Contest and won the second place.
After graduating from university, Tao Hong officially became a professional singer, performing in bars and dance halls. Her live singing was deeply moving, and she gradually emerged in the music world and accumulated a group of loyal fans.
Tao Hong later signed a contract with an entertainment company and released a solo album. She became famous for her unique ethnic style singing voice and became one of the popular singers. The clear and magnetic singing voice has touched the hearts of countless people.
Meet Lejia and get married
In 2011, Tao Hong participated in a large-scale music festival performance. Sitting in the audience was a man named Le Jia, a well-known host who worked at a television station.
The two fell in love at first sight and had a pleasant conversation. After the festival, they exchanged contact details.
However, they did not date any further, and Tao Hong later married Ma Dahua, a packer at a local winery. She thought she had found a partner who could be entrusted for life, but she didn't expect Ma Dahua to have a problem with alcoholism, and he was often rude to her after marriage.
For the sake of the children, Tao Hong reluctantly decided to divorce. When she broke up, Ma Dahua was furious and smashed everything in the house. Tao Hong sat helplessly in a mess with her newborn daughter Ling'er in her arms.
At this time, Le Jia's love life was not satisfactory, and he broke up with his girlfriend Lin Xiaomei, who had been dating for three years. Because of their disagreement, the two finally chose to break up peacefully.
Coincidentally, after separation, Tao Hong moved to the opposite door of Le Jia's house. The two seem to have changed their fate and started a second encounter. Seeing Tao Hong raising her daughter alone, Le Jia felt pity and took the initiative to help her solve the problems in her life.
Two hearts that have experienced emotional pain are getting closer and closer in getting along. Lejia gave Tao Hong warmth and support, and Tao Hong also encouraged Lejia to start again. They support each other and are the ones who understand each other best.
After a year of getting along, the two established a relationship. Le Jia officially confessed to Tao Hong and asked to be a suitable companion with her. Tao Hong was moved to tears and agreed to his marriage proposal.
In 2011, the two tied the knot in the presence of relatives and friends.
Low-key married life
The wedding of Le Jia and Tao Hong was held in a small church, and only two families and friends were invited to attend, which was low-key and solemn.
After marriage, Tao Hong withdrew from the entertainment industry and concentrated on her husband and children. She learns to cook all kinds of food and take care of the daily life of Lejia and her daughter. Le Jia is busy with work, and Tao Hong tries her best to share his pressure.
On weekdays, a family of three lives a simple and warm life. On weekends, they often take their daughter to the park and watch TV movies together in the evening. Whenever their daughter smiles like a flower, Tao Hong and Le Jia feel that there is no happier thing in the world.
For the sake of their children, the two chose to live a low-key life and did not deliberately show affection in public. Their lives are not noisy or public, and only their families know this sweetness.
In the second year after marriage, Tao Hong gave birth to a little daughter, named Lele. The life of a family of four has become busier and more joyful.
Tao Hong and Le Jia both give their greatest love to their two children. Every bit of the child's growth is firmly cherished in the hearts of the two. These three years have been the most comfortable and dull time in their lives.
The Truth About Divorce
After three years of marriage, there was a rift in the married life of Le Jia and Tao Hong. In 2014, the two suddenly announced that they had divorced, which caused a sensation.
Public opinion speculated about the reasons for their divorce, and even fabricated that Tao Hong had cheated on him. However, the two explained that there is no third party and that divorce is a completely voluntary choice.
In fact, the two chose to break up because of differences in personality and lifestyle. Tao Hong is more enthusiastic about teaching her husband and children, while Le Jia wants to go back to the mountains to develop her career. After careful consideration, the two decided to end this marriage and start their lives anew.
In the divorce agreement, the two agreed that the custody of their daughter belonged to Tao Hong, and Le Jia had the right to visit. The property is divided equally without any monetary disputes. The divorce process was very smooth, and the attitude of both parties was mature and rational, reflecting the equality and autonomy of civil subjects.
After public opinion gradually subsided, Le Jia returned to the entertainment industry, and Tao Hong would occasionally take on some performance work. The two will attend their daughters' parent-teacher conferences and holiday activities together, and communicate with each other about their daughters' education.
There is no such thing as a forever in life, and the same is true for feelings. But the two still chose to understand and bless. This positive attitude towards life has also become the motivation for them to inspire themselves to start anew.
Caring for a sick wife
A year after the divorce, Tao Hong's body suddenly had problems, and it was diagnosed as advanced breast cancer. In order not to worry her parents, she did not tell her family the bad news.
Tao Hong was alone in the hospital undergoing chemotherapy, her hair fell out, and her face was pale. Daughter Ling'er is still young and can't tell the truth, Tao Hong only said that her mother went on a trip. Every day, she gives her daughter a video and hides her pain with a smile.
At this time, Le Jia learned of Tao Hong's condition. Although the two were divorced, he still went to the hospital on time to visit, buy medicine, make soup, and listen to Tao Hong talk about uncomfortable symptoms.
Tao Hong is very grateful, and it is already a great comfort to have him by his side.
Looking at her lover-like ex-husband, Tao Hong couldn't help but think of the bits and pieces of the past. She asked Le Jia: "Am I too hypocritical to cause the failure of the marriage?" Le Jia comforted softly, it was his inability to give her the life she wanted, and it was not her fault.
When Tao Hong's condition worsened, Le Jia put down her work and took care of her every step. He helps Tao Hong take a walk, buy the food she likes to eat, and try to fulfill the mission of a "perfect" ex-husband.
Before dying, Tao Hong asked to see her daughter for the last time. Le Jia couldn't bear it, but still agreed. He came to the ward with Ling'er in his arms, Tao Hong choked up and hugged his daughter, and the attachment for the rest of his life was all at this moment.
A month later, Tao Hong passed away peacefully in the company of Le Jia. Before leaving, she smiled and said to Lejia: "Thank you, I am very happy." Lejia was overwhelmed with grief and tears.
Keep your promises and ask the heavens
Tao Hong's sudden death was a huge blow to Le Jia. He was so grief-stricken that he sat numbly in Tao Hong's room all day, looking at the objects she had left behind.
Two months later, Le Jia decided to cheer up, and the first step was to fulfill her promise to Tao Hong - to take her daughter on a pilgrimage to Tibet to fulfill her wish.
He began to carefully plan all the details of the trip, booking flights, routes, and measures to prevent altitude sickness. He knew that Tao Hong would watch all this in the Heavenly Spirit, and he couldn't let her down.
Finally, the father and daughter embarked on a long journey. When the plane arrived in Lhasa, Lejia took a deep breath in the thin air here, as if he felt Tao Hong beside him.
They visited the Jokhang Temple and the Potala Palace, praying for the blessing of Tao Hong's well-being. Although 9-year-old Ling'er didn't understand, she still prayed sincerely and hoped that her mother would be safe.
In the Gurkha Temple, Lejia offered incense to Tao Hong, kneeling on the ground and praying sincerely. He choked up and confessed to the Bodhisattva that he had failed to fulfill his responsibilities as a husband and had failed to cure Tao Hong's illness.
After the last bow, a sense of tranquility rose in Le Jia's heart. He knew that Tao Hong would not blame herself, she would watch her daughter grow up happily in another world.
This pilgrimage healed the wounds in Lejia's heart, allowing him to regain his strength and give more love to his daughter. He kept his promise and fulfilled Tao Hong's last wish, and he was relieved of this ill-fated marriage.
Life is like this, there is always a beginning and an end. He will always miss Tao Hong, but he will also open a new chapter. Lega is determined to face the long journey of life with a positive attitude.
Out of the haze, long future
After completing the pilgrimage, Lejia returned to work and took over the host of the next parent-child program. He gave more time and love to his daughter Ling'er, trying his best to make up for her regret of losing her mother's love.
In his spare time, Lejia often takes Ling'er out to play, and always dedicates weekends to her daughter. He learned to braid his daughter, take her to watch animated movies, and do handicrafts together.
When her daughter smiled like a flower, Le Jia saw it in her eyes and thought with relief that Tao Hong's spirit in the sky would also be gratified by Ling'er's happy growth.
However, when Ling'er asked where her mother was, Le Jia still couldn't hide her sadness. He whispered to his daughter that mom has gone to heaven far away and will keep an eye on you.
In the past three years, Lejia has actively devoted herself to work and given more love to her daughter. But in his heart, he still cares about Tao Hong's bits and pieces. That love has become a story of time, forever cherished in the long river of memory.
The journey of life continues, and Lejia understands that happiness and pain are forever intertwined. He must move forward bravely and live up to Tao Hong's expectations of him.
When her daughter grows up, Lejia will also grow old. And Tao Hong will always stay at that bright 48 years old. Life is in a hurry, and he must cherish this moment even more.
No matter what kind of difficulties lie ahead, Lejia will smile and live positively. He believed that Tao Hong would also wish him happiness, and her love would always exist in his heart.
Revelation and reflection
The story of Tao Hong and Le Jia is embarrassing and gives people deep thoughts.
Life is fragile and beautiful, we should cherish time and give priority to those who care for us. Tao Hong's death reminds us that we should often go home to visit the elderly and tell our relatives that I love you.
Relationships need to be managed by both parties, and eternity cannot be forced. Feelings are precious to once had. Tao Hong and Le Jia can still be friends after breaking up, and they will continue their lives with a positive attitude, which is admirable.
In the face of illness, we must be stronger, and we cannot give up easily. Tao Hong precipice to fight against the disease, and use life to interpret what courage is. Her optimism makes us feel better.
Birth, old age, sickness and death are the only ways to go through life. We must learn to face loss and cherish every moment of life. Tao Hong's death reminds us to say "I love you" to the people we love in time.
Be grateful for what we have, be grateful for the mystery of creation, and be grateful for having love in our hearts. Tao Hong's story tells us that the most important thing to be born as a human is love. On the way forward, the more love we pass on, the more meaningful our lives will be.