Today, I am 53 years old. In order to have a body that does not get sick, I have always adhered to these eight good Xi in the morning. Wake up early and start my workout routine when the birds are chirping in nature. Whether it's a morning jog or tai chi, it's a great way for me to keep my body healthy. Then, I would have a glass of warm water and go to my favorite chores. This state makes me feel fulfilled and free of any negativity. For me, such days are the happiest.
In such a state of life, I have gained a lot. I've always been very healthy, I don't need to go to the hospital as often and I haven't been bothered by some common ailments. This made me feel very satisfied and lucky, and it also strengthened my belief in sticking to my good Xi.
At the same time, my family is happy. My lover and I live in harmony and we often do meaningful things together. The children are all grown up, they have their own careers and families, and my wife and I don't have to worry too much about each other, and it seems easy to enjoy the world of the two of us.
However, not long ago, the conflict at home intensified, and my wife thought that my daily routine was too superstitious, and even left a string of mocking words in the circle of friends. This made me feel extremely disappointed and frustrated, I thought that we had been living a happy life, but I did not expect that my lover would disdain the good Xi I insisted on in my heart.
"Lover, why are you so disgusted by my good Xi?" I asked aloud at my lover.
"The days you have now are just asking for hardship, and there is no need to be so superstitious. My lover replied coldly.
I listened to my lover's words and felt even more angry. I feel like I've been working hard for my family all these years without getting the understanding and support I need to do so. I've been thinking about this for a long time and trying to find a solution, but it's been bothering me.
I was so frustrated by this incident that I didn't know how to resolve it.
"Can't you just be considerate of me? These are all good Xi that I stick to for the sake of my family and my own health!" I retorted emotionally.
"Can't you just listen to my advice? Such superstitious Xi will only make you stubborn and ignorant!" the lover still insisted on his opinion.
Our arguments were out of control, and tension was rife in our home. I felt that my good Xi habits were being questioned, and I felt helpless and unfair, and I couldn't understand why my lover was so disdainful of me for sticking to good Xi habits.
It also caused conflict between me and my parents. I told my parents about my troubles and hoped that they would come forward to mediate the conflict. However, my parents thought that I should follow my lover's wishes and stop sticking to these so-called superstitious Xi. Their attitude made me feel even more isolated and lost, I thought they would support me, but I didn't expect them to stand on the opposite side of my lover.
During this time, the conflicts at home have left me exhausted and lost my persistence in Xi. It made me feel very miserable and helpless, and I didn't know how to deal with these interpersonal conflicts.
Now, I am in a state of confusion and pain. How to resolve this conflict and bring the family back to a state of harmony and happiness has become my biggest problem. I hope to be able to find a solution and regain the understanding and support of my family.
I was very frustrated by this incident and it has been bothering me for a long time, and I don't know how to resolve this conflict and find a solution.
"Can't you support a little bit of my faith?" I couldn't help but shout at my lover.
The attitude of my lover made me feel disappointed and hopeless. I don't understand why the good Xi I have been sticking to has become what he calls superstitions. It really cut my heart apart.
One day, I went to my good friend Wang Li and confided in her about my troubles. After listening to my words, Wang Li smiled and said to me: "Actually, I think you are right to stick to your good Xi, but maybe you emphasize too much, which makes others have a bias in their opinions." Perhaps, you can try to change the way and integrate your good Xi into your daily life, rather than making it a maverick in the eyes of others. In this way, you may be able to achieve better results. ”
Wang Li's suggestion made me pause. Perhaps, I could try to change my approach by following her advice. I decided not to emphasize my good Xi for a while, but to quietly do my own thing.
Soon, a small incident occurred in my family, and I discovered some secrets that my family did not know, which shocked and saddened me. I don't know how to deal with this situation, so I can only choose to remain silent for the time being.
My lover noticed my strangeness and asked me with concern, "What's wrong? ”
"It's nothing, it's just a little thing. I forced a smile.
I thought, maybe this secret is not what I should know, and I chose to keep it deep in my heart. The discovery of this secret gave me a new perspective on things at home. I began to wonder if we knew each other well enough in the family, and if there were any secrets and misunderstandings. This problem, which has been bothering me for a long time, has become even more serious.
For a moment, I was immersed in pain and entanglement, and I didn't know what to do. Physical discomfort began to plague me, and good Xi became lost. I realized that the conflict in my family was not really resolved. At this time, I felt depressed and helpless, and I didn't know how to face the rest of my life.
Now, I'm in a state of confusion. During this time, I have been wandering in the conflict of my family, and I don't know what to do. My good Xi also seemed to have become meaningless, and I was a little overwhelmed by this perplexing problem.
I tried to have a rational communication with my lover and explain that my good Xi was not superstition, but for the sake of good health and family happiness. However, my lover did not understand and still felt that it was superfluous for me to adhere to these Xi. This argument left me feeling very tired and frustrated, and I didn't know what to do to get us back together.
Feeling down, I went to my grandfather's house, hoping to get some comfort and advice from him. My grandfather took me into the house, and when he saw me, he immediately sensed my mood fluctuations.
"Child, do you have anything bothering you?" said Grandpa's voice full of concern.
So, I told my grandfather about the conflict between me and my lover. Grandpa listened attentively, and then he began to tell me some of his own experiences about family relationships. He told me that conflicts and disputes in the family are common, but the key to solving problems is to understand and respect each other.
After my grandfather's enlightenment, my mood gradually calmed down. I decided that I wanted to communicate with my lover again and express my thoughts and persistence more rationally. During this time, I seriously thought about my own behavior and tried to understand my lover's position. I hope that in the coming time, we will be able to re-examine each other and find a way to resolve the conflict.
On the way home, I was looking forward to the future. I know that this family still needs me to maintain, and I also believe that the relationship between my lover and me has not been weakened by conflict. I look forward to finding a balanced way that will allow us to live together in greater harmony.
I felt upset that it was no longer just a fight, but that would deeply affect our lives and relationships. Maybe this quarrel was just a manifestation of my lover's deep concern for me, but I also began to question our relationship and communication.
Soon after, I received a job offer to come to another city to participate in a healthy living sharing session. It's a great opportunity for me to share my life experiences and understanding of health, and also to get away from the arguments that have been bothering me lately.
Before leaving, I said to my lover, "I'm going to this sharing session, maybe it will help our relationship." ”
The lover didn't say anything, just nodded silently. That was the last response she gave me before leaving, and I knew that she didn't completely disagree with my notions in her heart.
Coming to another city, I actively participated in this sharing session on healthy living. At the meeting, I shared my daily Xi and some experiences on diet and health. Of course, I also explained in detail the importance of good Xi such as early exercise, fresh air, and warm water drinking to the body. During this time, I met an expert from the medical field who was very interested in my sharing and expressed his strong agreement. In the communication with him, I have a deeper understanding of the concept of healthy living and also re-examine my own lifestyle.
However, I didn't realize that the impact of this sharing session was not limited to the outside. I'm going to need time to sort out what is going to happen and where our relationship is going.
Soon, our contradictions took a new turn. Grandpa suddenly had a serious illness, and the cost of the hospital doubled the financial pressure on the family. My wife and I are very worried, but we don't know how to deal with each other's conflicts. In this difficult time, we have also exposed more family problems. The children are busy with their own lives and rarely go home to visit, which also makes me feel a sense of loss and helplessness.
During this time, my lover and I also had more communication because of my grandfather's illness. In the hospital room, we suddenly became more intimate, and we became more tolerant and understanding in the face of the difficulties at home. I have found that the contradictions between us are not unresolved. In this special atmosphere, we slowly began to rethink the relationship between life and family.
After a period of adjustment, Grandpa's condition gradually improved, and the atmosphere at home was refreshed. During this time, my lover also began to adopt some good Xi of focusing on physical health with me, and we also had more resonance and affection for it. Conflicts in the family are gradually decreasing, and we understand the importance of family affection.
Perhaps, this is a special touch, but also a new opportunity. My wife and I began to pay more attention to our bodies and cherish the relationship between our families more. This contradictory experience has also made us more tolerant and understanding of each other. Conflicts in the family are not terrible, and with common face and efforts, we can also find solutions to conflicts.
Family relationships are delicate and complex, and they are always accompanied by contradictions. This conflicting experience may also be an opportunity for our family to further mature and stabilize. Looking forward to the time to come, it also makes us look forward to it.