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When I went home to visit my relatives in the third year, I bought a sewing machine for my first love, and my parents urged me to get married

author:Clever Linlin tells a story

In the warm winter of 1973, I ended my three-year military career in the service of the motherland, and finally returned to this hometown, which carried my happy childhood and the love of my relatives. At that time, my relationship with my first love was like that precious bottle of wine, which has become more mellow after the precipitation of time. Every time I see her, it seems that I see the passage of time and the good times we spend together.

In the anticipation of my family and the desire of my first love, I decided to propose an engagement to her. I deeply understand that engagement for me is a commitment to our relationship, and a testimony to her deep affection and determination. Therefore, I did not hesitate to buy a sewing machine, which was extremely expensive at the time, as an engagement gift. This gift is not only because I want to satisfy her desire for a sewing machine, but also because I want to tell her through this gift that I am willing to give everything for our future and am willing to create a better life with her.

When I went home to visit my relatives in the third year, I bought a sewing machine for my first love, and my parents urged me to get married

At that time, the general pursuit of the public was to be able to "three turns and one listen" life, that is, to have three transfer houses, one car these three things, but I was not swayed by this social atmosphere, I chose my own path with a firm attitude, and decided to use my savings to buy a sewing machine. This move not only shows my ability to think independently, but also shows my determination to stick to my own values.

I believe that owning a sewing machine can make my life more colorful, rather than just chasing those seemingly high-end and high-end material comforts just to meet the expectations of others.

When I went home to visit my relatives in the third year, I bought a sewing machine for my first love, and my parents urged me to get married

Although I didn't have a rich life at that time, I knew exactly what my life was focused on, and I also understood that material comforts were not the only pursuits. I am willing to put my savings into things that are meaningful to me rather than being driven by the pressures of life and blindly pursuing material comforts. This steady and mature attitude was not common in those days, but I firmly believe that it was my respect and commitment to my first love.

According to the data of 2023, the values of modern society have changed dramatically, the influence of social atmosphere on individuals is relatively weakened, people pay more attention to personal independence and independent choice, and the awakening of self-consciousness makes people start to think about their own meaning and value of existence, instead of blindly following social customs. To some extent, people have gradually stepped out of the shackles of tradition and entered a new era.

When I went home to visit my relatives in the third year, I bought a sewing machine for my first love, and my parents urged me to get married

In such a social context, more and more people have begun to re-examine the importance of family, and pay more attention to the warmth and happiness of family. People are more aware that in this world, family members are the ones who can best support and love them. Family is an important platform for a person's growth and development, and its warmth and happiness are of great significance to a person's life journey.

Compared with the accumulation of material things, people pay more attention to emotional communication and interaction with family members, so as to obtain spiritual satisfaction and happiness.

When I went home to visit my relatives in the third year, I bought a sewing machine for my first love, and my parents urged me to get married

Personally, my actions may have been seen as irrational in the past, but with the passage of time and the development of society, these behaviors of mine have gradually become accepted by people and even regarded as precious qualities. I have come to understand that in the pursuit of self-realization and personal worth, we need to have the courage to face challenges and difficulties, and always maintain our beliefs and principles.

At the same time, we also need to respect the views and opinions of others, and achieve common goals and ideals through cooperation and communication.

When I went home to visit my relatives in the third year, I bought a sewing machine for my first love, and my parents urged me to get married

In general, the values of modern society have changed dramatically, and people pay more attention to the independence and autonomous choices of individuals, and pay more attention to the warmth and happiness of the family. I believe that in such a social context, each of us can contribute to the development and progress of society and create a better future together.

In addition to the commitment to my first love, my love and yearning for family life is also one of the reasons why I bought a sewing machine. Even though I was in the military, I still cherished and loved family life. In 2023, I have turned from my military career and integrated into ordinary professional life. My pursuit of independent thinking and self-determination has always been the same.

When I went home to visit my relatives in the third year, I bought a sewing machine for my first love, and my parents urged me to get married

For example, in a team project, although everyone generally preferred to adopt plan A, after careful consideration, I firmly proposed plan B, although there were some doubts and objections, but in the end my plan proved to be more effective and feasible, this example once again confirmed my ability to think independently and stick to my own quality.

I attach great importance to family life, and my love and yearning for family life is fully reflected in 2023. Despite my busy schedule, I always put my family first, I try to leave work early every day so that I can go home to spend time with my wife and children, we can have dinner together, go for a walk together, and it is the most relaxing and enjoyable time of my day.

When I went home to visit my relatives in the third year, I bought a sewing machine for my first love, and my parents urged me to get married

I will take the initiative to participate in household chores and help my wife share the burden of the family, I will help her cook, wash dishes, Mopping the floor, etc., I hope that my wife can have more time and energy to pay attention to her work and hobbies, instead of spending all her time on housework, I will also organize family activities regularly, such as going on outings together on weekends, or holding family dinners, which allows us to have more opportunities to communicate and communicate, and at the same time let us enjoy the beauty of family life more, I hope that through my actions and efforts, I can make my family happier and better.

In the coming 2023, my love and yearning for family life will be supported and recognized more, which is a gratifying and joyful thing. And the reasons and reasons for my love and yearning for family life are also worth exploring and understanding, I believe that in the hearts of many people, family life is very important, an important part of a person's life.

When I went home to visit my relatives in the third year, I bought a sewing machine for my first love, and my parents urged me to get married

Family life not only brings us a sense of security and belonging, but also warmth and happiness, so I have always loved family life very much, and I attach great importance to family life.

According to the latest survey data, more and more young people are beginning to attach importance to family life and put family before career, which is very worthy of our appreciation and affirmation. The rise of this trend further proves that my love and yearning for family life is in line with the trend of the times, and it is also very far-sighted and forward-looking.

When I went home to visit my relatives in the third year, I bought a sewing machine for my first love, and my parents urged me to get married

|||In 2023, I chose to say goodbye to my military career, which was a rather difficult decision. I left the army and returned to my hometown. It was there that I started a whole new life and work. I cherished this time so much because I realized that it was a family life that I could barely experience in my military career. Family has always been very important to me, and my parents have always been role models in my life, and they taught me how to be a responsible and caring person.

They have always encouraged me to pursue my dreams and to stick to my beliefs and values whenever and wherever I left home to join the army I did not realize the importance of family because I always thought that my duty was to defend the country and the people However, when I returned home from the army, I found that family was more important to me, and I decided to give up my position and honor in the army and choose to go home to accompany my family.

When I went home to visit my relatives in the third year, I bought a sewing machine for my first love, and my parents urged me to get married

|||When I returned home, I found my family very welcoming of my return. They prepared a grand welcome for me, which made me feel very warm and touched. My parents told me that they had been waiting for my return and that they missed me so much. I realized that family was an important part of my life and a safe haven I could rely on.

|||In 2023, I realized that the importance of family life is becoming more and more important. More and more people are starting to pay attention to family life, they are beginning to pay attention to their family and care about their feelings. This is a very positive phenomenon, because the family is the most important part of our lives and the foundation of our growth and development. We should pay more attention to family life, establish good family relationships, and make our family the center of gravity of our lives.

When I went home to visit my relatives in the third year, I bought a sewing machine for my first love, and my parents urged me to get married

|||In family life, I have found that the most important thing is to respect and care for the family. My family has always respected me very much, they have always supported my decision and understood my feelings. They encouraged me to pursue my dreams and I felt very warm and touched. I also have a lot of respect for my family, and I have always tried my best to meet their needs and care about their feelings.

I know that only by respecting and caring for our family can our family be harmonious and happy.

When I went home to visit my relatives in the third year, I bought a sewing machine for my first love, and my parents urged me to get married

Recent research shows that most people are becoming aware of the importance of family to personal well-being. In this fast-paced social environment, many people often ignore the warmth and companionship brought by family and ignore the emotional communication between family members because they are busy with work, Xi, social activities and other things. But I always believe that family is our most important support and support, and it plays an irreplaceable role in personal growth and development.

Therefore, after I changed careers, I was always looking for a stable job so that I could have more time and energy to care for my family and provide more support and help to them.

When I went home to visit my relatives in the third year, I bought a sewing machine for my first love, and my parents urged me to get married

According to the latest data, people nowadays are paying more and more attention to the establishment and maintenance of family relationships. With the age of information explosion, people tend to neglect communication and communication with their families. But I firmly believe that good family relationships are the cornerstone of a happy family. Therefore, I take time out every day to communicate with my family and share our joys and sorrows to keep the family relationship close and harmonious.

The latest survey data shows that with the changing times, people are paying more and more attention to the quality and well-being of family life. In this materialistic age, people often ignore the beauty and happiness of family life. I firmly believe that the quality and well-being of family life is an important indicator of a happy family. Therefore, I strive to create a warm and happy family atmosphere every day.

When I went home to visit my relatives in the third year, I bought a sewing machine for my first love, and my parents urged me to get married

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