In the long river of life, each stage has its own unique perception and experience. And when we enter the age of 56, we may look back on the past and may find some subtleties that we have not noticed. Today, I would like to share with you my feelings after the age of 56: why is it better for ordinary families not to have two sons?
First of all, I want to emphasize that this is not to say that having two sons will necessarily bring bad consequences, but from the perspective of real life, analyze some of the problems that ordinary families may face in the process of raising two sons. Of course, everyone's situation is different, and the discussion here is for informational purposes only.
The story takes place in an ordinary Chinese family, where the father is a hard-working farmer and the mother is a virtuous housewife. They have two sons, the eldest son is called Xiao Ming, and the younger son is called Xiao Qiang. From an early age, their parents taught them to be filial to their elders, to care for their younger brothers, and to help each other. However, as the children grow older, problems arise one after another.
First of all, the economic conditions of ordinary families are limited. In rural areas, the family's income is mainly dependent on farming and odd jobs. In order to provide for the education of their two children, the parents worked day and night to save money. However, even so, they struggled to afford the cost of going to college with their two children. In the end, the eldest son Xiao Ming was admitted to university, while the younger son Xiao Qiang was unable to continue his studies due to family financial reasons. This made Xiaoqiang's heart full of regret and inferiority.
Secondly, parents in ordinary families often lack scientific methods of education. In the process of Xiao Ming and Xiao Qiang's growth, although their parents tried their best to educate them to be filial and sensible, they were unable to cultivate their independence and sense of responsibility. This makes Xiao Ming and Xiao Qiang not only face economic pressure but also psychological distress in the process of growing up.
Thirdly, children from ordinary families often face more social pressure when they grow up. In rural areas, the traditional belief is that boys should take on the responsibility of providing for their families. Therefore, Xiao Ming and Xiao Qiang have been instilled with the concept of working hard and earning money to support their families when they grow up. However, when they step out of the house and enter society, they find that the reality is far more cruel than they imagined. Not only do they have to face stiff competition, but they also have to endure pressure from their families and society. This makes them grow up, not only to face their own confusion and confusion, but also to bear the expectations of their families and society.
Finally, children from ordinary families tend to face more interpersonal problems when they grow up. In the process of Xiao Ming and Xiao Qiang's growth, they not only have to face the contradictions and conflicts between siblings, but also deal with the relationship with relatives and friends. This allows them to grow up not only to learn how to handle interpersonal relationships, but also how to maintain their independence and individuality in complex social relationships.
Through this story, we can see that ordinary families may face many problems when they have two sons. However, this does not mean that we should give up the idea of having two sons. Instead, we should learn from it and strive to improve our own education and create a better environment for our children to grow up. At the same time, we should also pay attention to the development of society, and strive to change those unreasonable traditional concepts, so that every child can thrive in a fair and just environment.
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