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It's been a week since my mom came to my house, and I feel like I'm in a strange world. She has been busy at home, cooking, cleaning, and taking care of the children every day, with hardly a moment of rest. My heart was full of guilt, after all, my mother was here to support the elderly, not to be a nanny for me. I wanted to say to her, "Mom, take a break, I'll do all the housework." But he couldn't say it. Whenever I see her face full of tiredness and helplessness, my heart is extremely distressed.
One morning, I was about to leave for work, and my mother was busy in the kitchen, and I said to her, "Mom, I'm taking the kids, you can take a break." My mother looked at me, shook her head slightly, and said, "Okay, you take the child, I'll go out to work." I was stunned, wondering why she would say that. Mom smiled and said to me, "Son, I'm not here to be a babysitter. I want to be with you and with my grandson. I know you're busy at work, I can take care of myself, you don't have to worry about me. ”
Hearing my mother say this, I felt a pang of guilt in my heart. It turned out that my mother was not complaining about me, but wanted to be with me and give me help and support. I quickly grabbed my mother's hand and said, "Mom, I'm sorry, I really didn't take good care of you before and made you hard." In the future, I will accompany you more and care more about you, so that you can have a good time here. My mother smiled and patted my hand and said, "Child, we take care of each other and accompany each other, this is what home looks like." ”
From that day on, I started doing housework and babysitting with my mother. My mother's cooking skills are very good, and I often watch her skillful movements, and my heart is full of admiration. When spending time with the child, the mother always takes out all kinds of toys to amuse the child, and the child also likes to be with her very much. I looked at her intimacy with the child, and my heart was full of gratitude and happiness.
My mom also often talks to me about her retirement plans, she says she wants to get a living expense card and save her pension so that she can manage her expenses without worry, and she also says that she wants to join some community interest groups to make some new friends and enrich her retirement life. Listening to her plan, I feel immense admiration, a person who retires, is still so fulfilling, this is my mother, always optimistic.
In addition to accompanying my mother, I also try to communicate with her and talk to her more about trivial matters in life, so that she feels that she is not isolated. Mom said that her greatest happiness is to be with her family, and she feels very happy to be with us. Every time I hear her say that, I feel so happy. No matter how wonderful the outside world is, family is the most important thing.
In getting along with my mother, I learned to be more tolerant and caring. I learned that as a member of the family, I should do my part to respect and care for every family member. I also learned that the company of my family is more important than any material thing. I will accompany my mother with my heart and let her live happily and happily here. Because, no matter where my mother is, she will always be the most important person in my life.
After a while, my relationship with my mom became more harmonious. Every night, I would walk with my mother and enjoy this rare family time. We talk about all kinds of things, sometimes it is the trivial things of life, sometimes it is the perception of the soul. During this time, I not only got to know my mother better, but also knew how to care for her.
One day, we were walking in the garden of the community, and the moonlight sprinkled on the ground, gently reflecting my mother's face. I suddenly remembered that when I was a child, my mother was always there when I was a child, she did many big and small things for me, and she has been silently paying behind my back. At that time, I always took it for granted, but I didn't appreciate and cherish it properly.
My mother seemed to feel my inner thoughts, and she patted my hand gently and said, "Child, I know that you have been working hard, and I am grateful. Actually, Mom enjoys being with you very much, which is my greatest happiness. When I heard this, my heart warmed, and I was only full of gratitude and guilt. Her selfless dedication and understanding of me filled my heart with warm touch.
"Mom, you really know me the most and love me the most. I held my mother's hand tightly, and my eyes were a little moist. My mother smiled and wiped away my tears, and said gently: "Child, mother's love is selfless, I only hope that you can grow up happily and become the best mother for your child in the future." Her words made me feel a burst of courage and motivation, and also made me cherish the warmth and happiness of this home in front of me even more.
Gradually, I began to share more with my mom the pressures of my life and work. My mom was always there to listen to me and give me the best advice. With her encouragement and guidance, I learned to handle some complex matters better and to be more positive about my work. After a dinner, I said to my mother, "Mom, with you by my side, I can be stronger and more courageous to face the challenges of life, thank you." ”
Mom blinked her eyes and said with a smile: "Child, we are all growing up children, and your strength is my greatest pride." "I deeply understand that the greatest love in this world is a mother's love. I am extremely touched and blessed by my mother's understanding and concern, which also makes our relationship even closer.
Now, I no longer worry that my mother will feel lonely, I try my best to accompany her, care for her, and give her more happiness and warmth. And my mother is also by my side, living a full and happy life. Whenever I see her smile with satisfaction, I am satisfied. Home is a warm harbor, where I have the most precious emotions and love. I would like to continue to grow with my love for my mother and bring more joy and happiness to her. Because, no matter where she is, there will always be one of the most important places in my heart.
"Mom, Happy New Year. "I came to my mother and handed her a beautiful red envelope. "This is what I have for you, I hope you enjoy it. Mom took the red envelope with a relieved smile on her face, "Thank you, child." I didn't need it, but I accepted it, which represents your heart for me. ”
"Happy Spring Festival, grandma!" the child ran over and hugged his mother, "I made you a Chinese New Year's Eve dinner with my mother, you can taste it." The child took his mother's hand and led her to the table. "This is our well-prepared New Year's meal and we hope you will enjoy it. I said to my mom with a smile.
Mom looked at the dishes on the table with a satisfied expression. "The meal looked very hearty. Thank you, kids. You guys are so sweet. As she spoke, the mother took out a pair of red envelopes and handed them to the child, "This is the New Year's money that grandma gave you, I wish you a happy new year and good health." ”
"Grandma, thank you for the red envelope. Happy New Year!" The child happily accepted the red envelope, "How does your meal taste?"
"It tastes really good!" said Mom as she tasted it, "and you're getting better at cooking." ”
"This family is happy, and the New Year is really happy. Sitting at the dinner table, my mother looked at our warm family and said with satisfaction. I think it was really the happiest moment. There are relatives, love, warmth, and happiness around you.
On the night of the Spring Festival, we sat together as a family and watched the Spring Festival Gala together. The child was coquettish and asked for his mother's hug, and I poured her a cup of hot tea. The tea is fragrant, surrounded by a warm stove, and the family is happy. At this moment, I felt extremely happy.
"Thank you, child, for being with me these days, I'm really happy. Mom patted my hand gently, "I feel your filial piety." Mom is happy. "My mother's words made me feel satisfied, and the family was happy, and this is the happy life I dreamed of.
"We are all a family, and we should spend more time with you. I took my mother's hand and smiled. "Your happiness is our greatest wish. "Now I understand her mood, her feelings. I will cherish the warmth of this home and the sincerity of this family affection.
In this Spring Festival, I hope to be able to give my mother a warm and festive New Year, and I also hope that this family relationship can continue. I hope that our family can always be happy and happy, and I wish us all good health and safety. Home is a happy harbor, and with the company of relatives, it is warm enough.