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I approached my mother-in-law to discuss this issue, and I was very disappointed by her attitude. She insisted that her son should take his father's last name, and she said something that made me uncomfortable. This made me doubt my mother-in-law's attitude towards me. However, I will not change my decision in any case.
The conflict between me and my mother-in-law intensified, and even my husband was involved. We often quarrel with each other over this issue, and even have a long cold war. I was very tired and distraught from all this.
"Mom, why are you so stubborn?" my son saw the anxiety in my heart, and he began to persuade me to give up. But I said to him with a strong will: "When I gave birth to you, I bore all the pain and effort alone. I don't want you to call someone else's mom in the future, they will think you're someone else's child. ”
"But Mom, this is in the past, we are all family. The son still stuck to his ideas. I can understand his position, but I still can't accept it.
At the award ceremony for the birth of a daughter, the mother-in-law once again mentioned the issue of her son's surname. I felt very angry and uncomfortable. I decided to go and explain it to her myself.
"Mother-in-law, I want to talk to you about my son's surname. "I tried to stay calm.
"You're here again, I've said a long time ago, the son should take his father's surname. My mother-in-law interrupted me without saying anything.
"But my son is my flesh and blood, and I had no one to help me when I gave birth to him, and I don't want him to be ostracized by others in the future. "I tried to control my emotions.
"You woman, you know selfishness, why can't you think about the whole family?"
I felt like I couldn't communicate anymore. I understand that there are some problems that cannot be solved with words. Family relationships are very complex, and sometimes, no matter how hard we try, we may not be understood and supported.
I decided to get away from it all for a while. I left the hustle and bustle of the city with my son and came to a quiet countryside. There are no quarrels and strife, only peace and tranquility. I started doing farm work in the fields with my son, and every day was calm and fulfilling.
"Mom, are you really sure you want to do this?" the son was a little worried.
"Son, this is the peace and tranquility we need now. I smiled and comforted him.
In this quiet countryside, I slowly let go of the baggage and contradictions in my heart. My relationship with my son has also become more harmonious. I gradually admitted my stubbornness and impulsiveness, and understood the demands of my mother-in-law and husband.
Now, I will no longer cling to that unswerving obsession. I understand that family affection is not fixed, but requires constant adjustment and communication. Only with an inclusive and tolerant mindset can we truly appreciate the warmth and beauty of family affection.
"Son, life here is simpler than in the city, but it's also more real. I patted my son on the shoulder.
"Yes, Mom. I think it's a lot of fun to live here. The son replied with a smile.
I smiled, a hint of relief. In this idyllic area, my son finally let go of his attachment to the city, and I gradually learned to accept his choice.
"Mom, although I don't know much about farming, I will try my best to learn. The son said.
"Okay, that's a great start. Together, we work together and life is bound to change for the better. I encouraged.
Gradually, we found happiness in coarse tea and light rice. Without the glitz and bustle of the city, my heart has become calmer. The son has also become more sensible and mature. We worked in the sun every day and enjoyed the fun of farming.
Gradually, I understood that family affection is not just a name to belong to, but the care and companionship embodied in ordinary days. In this land, I reinvented my values and taught my son about growing up.
"Mom, I love you. "My son suddenly came up to me and hugged me tightly.
"I love you too, and no matter what happens, you are my most beloved child. I stroked his hair, my eyes filled with warm tears.
At this moment, on this green field, I finally experienced the warmth of real home.
This is my journey, a journey full of challenges and difficulties. But it is these challenges that have taught me to grow and make me cherish and understand family affection more. Life is not always as we wish, but as long as we treat it with our hearts, the sun in our hearts will always bloom.
This land has experienced many vicissitudes of life, but it also nurtures our deep emotions. The thick and long time flowing on this field has touched us and made us closer to nature and each other.
My son looked at me with gratitude and understanding in his eyes: "Mom, thank you for bringing me here. Here, I learned a lot of things and experienced the beauty of life. ”
I smiled and nodded, "Yes, son, this land has given us more strength and taught us more truths. ”
"Mom, I want to make some changes. The son said suddenly.
"Oh, what change?" I asked, a little curious.
"I want to set up a small farm to make the land here more valuable and also provide high-quality produce to people nearby. The son said wistfully.
"Kid, that's a good idea. If you are willing to work hard, your mother will always support you. I looked at him with encouraging eyes, and my heart was filled with joy.
Since then, we have started a new journey. My son is actively involved in his dreams and carefully manages a farmland, and I also silently support him and accompany him to work hard. In this land, we have rediscovered our place and savored the ups and downs of life.
Time passes at your fingertips. The son's small farm is thriving, bringing not only good returns for himself, but also fresh produce to the people around him. We are so proud and satisfied because we have created our own happiness with our hearts.
It's a land where we find reflection and understanding, a land where we release emotions and realize shared dreams. With a kind heart, we let family affection take root in this land and bloom into gorgeous flowers.
Now, I look at my son's busy figure, smile and sigh: family affection comes from the sincerity of the heart, without any material proof, as long as there is a heart, the love between each other will become the eternity of life. This is my mental journey, and it is an indescribable family time. My son and I grew up together on this land and shared it together until the end of the world.
Since then, my relationship with my son has become more harmonious. His small farm has become increasingly successful and has become a supplier of high-quality produce by word of mouth among the surrounding residents. Whenever I see the sense of accomplishment on my son's face, I feel that all the effort has been worth it.
I took the report, looked at the numbers carefully, and couldn't help but smile: "Kid, you're doing a great job. It is the result of your hard work and perseverance. ”
"Yes, Mom. I feel like I have a direction and a greater motivation to work hard. The son's eyes were full of determination.
"You've really grown up. I gently patted him on the shoulder.
In this land, we discover a new meaning in life. My heart was filled with emotion and relief. Family affection is like this, there is no need to say too much, as long as a subtle care and understanding is enough to achieve a deep love.
"Mom, I'm going to treat you to a great dinner to celebrate the smooth running of the small farm. My son looked at me expectantly.
"Okay, let's go prepare dinner together. I said with a smile.
We packed up the fruits and vegetables we picked together, decorated the table, enjoyed the fresh food grown by our own family, and tasted the sweet taste of family and reunion.
Sowing the seeds of family affection on this land, I found inner peace and contentment. It is a beautiful and precious harvest, an indescribable happiness. My family affection has gradually matured, just like this land, the fertile soil nourishes life, and family affection nourishes our hearts.
In this land, we have rediscovered our own meaning, and in this meaning, we show the care and affection of family. Every fruitful fruit interprets the endless respect and true feelings in our hearts.
"Son, we have to work harder to create a better tomorrow for the future of the small farm. I looked at my son and said what I wanted.
"Yes, Mom. I will always be by your side and work together to create a green home in our hearts. The son replied confidently.
Yes, from now on, we will always work hand in hand to protect the deep and precious affection of family in this land.
"Mom, I have good news for you. My son looked at me excitedly and said.
"What's the good news?" I asked curiously.
"My small farm was selected by an organic food supermarket chain and they were willing to introduce my produce to their chain. The son said with a look of surprise on his face.
Tears of joy gleamed in my eyes: "This is amazing, kid!
"Yes, Mom, this means that our products will go to a wider market, and it also represents the recognition of my efforts. The son said happily.
This news seems to be the answer I was looking for. I am grateful to God for giving me such an excellent son, whose courage and determination to live such a beautiful life. His hard work and dedication have finally paid off.
On the small farm, I looked at my son and felt the warmth of family affection. This land nurtures our feelings, nurtures our growth, and is also a testimony of our common struggle.
"Son, this is our common victory and the fruit of love. I said excitedly.
"Yes, Mom. We have always been by each other's side, supporting and accompaniing, and this is the deepest family affection. The son responded gently.
At that moment, I understood that in this land, the bits and pieces we experienced together were the preciousness of family affection, and the sweat we worked together on this land was the strength of family affection.
In the future, I know that my son will go further and bring happiness and warmth to more people. And I, who will always be behind him, cheering for his dreams and future.
This land has witnessed our growth and the depth of family affection. Our hearts are intertwined here, and our eyes are shining with cherishing and affection for each other.
Family affection is endless, like this vast land, which will never fade.
"Mom, the small farm has been running smoothly and I wanted to make some upgrades to our product to make it more distinctive. My son consulted with me earnestly.
"What are you going to do?" I asked, curious.
"I plan to introduce some new planting techniques, as well as improve some product packaging and marketing strategies, which I believe will bring us better sales. The son said confidently.
"Kid, it's good that you have this idea, I fully support you. These changes may change our lives for the better. I encouraged him.
From that day on, the son began a new round of efforts. He devotes more time and energy to small farms, leading the team to improve and innovate. I watched my son standing in the middle of the farmland and I felt proud.
The changes in the small farm are pleasantly surprised. The new planting techniques have resulted in a much higher crop yield and a better taste and feel. The improved packaging and marketing strategy has made our products more aware of our products, and sales have increased accordingly.
"Mom, look how beautiful and vibrant our little farm is right now. My son said excitedly.
"Yes, kid. Everything has changed for the better. I responded with a smile.
This is a testimony of the warm flow of the light of family affection on the small farm. This land is lush with foliage and reflects the emotions between our mother and son, as well as our dreams and struggles.
"Mom, all this is inseparable from your support and companionship, and I will always be grateful to you. My son shook my hand hard.
"Child, as long as you are happy and happy, I am very satisfied. Tears of happiness glistened in my eyes.
In this land, we work hard all the way and grow all the way. Family affection is like the sunshine and rain on this land, moistening our hearts and illuminating our way forward.