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"Give birth to a broken granddaughter, whoever gives birth will raise it. This sentence, like a sharp blade, is deeply embedded in my heart. My name is Xiaoxue and I am an ordinary girl, and like many others, I also want to be able to have a complete family and not be sneered at by my relatives.
When I was a child, there were not many conflicts in my family, my parents were harmonious, and my brother loved me. However, everything changed when I was 12 years old.
"Look at you, you look like a giant baby. My sister-in-law scoffed.
At that time, because I was growing and gaining weight, I became the object of her teasing. And my daughter-in-law actually stood on her side and said, "Indeed, Xiaoxue, you have to pay attention to your diet and exercise, otherwise you will become a joke of others." ”
I felt a blow to my heart, and it felt as if the whole world was laughing at me. I couldn't let go of the pain in my heart, I began to feel less and less inferior, I didn't dare to go to any meetings, and I began to gradually distance myself from my family.
"Xiaoxue, what's wrong with you? Why did you become so afraid of groups?" asked my best friend, Xiaomei.
"It's nothing, you leave me alone. "I pushed her away, reluctant to let her see my vulnerability, and I chose to face it alone.
At school, I had heard and witnessed many similar ridicules, and the chattering of my classmates pierced my heart like a sharp blade. Especially my sister-in-law, she always shows off herself in front of me, with a smug smile in her eyes. Her words were like a needle that pierced my heart and made my whole body wooden.
At that time, I didn't know why, I didn't know what to do, only that my status in the family seemed to be getting lower and lower. My daughter-in-law often gets angry at me at home, and even if I sometimes do nothing wrong, she will still be angry with me, "You are crying and crying again, there is no end, what a giant baby." "After listening to my daughter-in-law kicking my sister-in-law out of the door, I seemed to see a glimmer of hope, whether this is a little redemption for me, I don't know.
Time passed, and I slowly understood many things. The sister-in-law who often teased me just wanted to cover up her inferiority complex by insulting others. I can't help but think of that lively and cheerful sister-in-law when I was a child, and now, she has become a person with a mouth full of negative energy. I should cherish myself, strengthen my heart, and no longer let other people's words control me.
That night, I finally picked myself up and walked to my sister-in-law's room.
"Sister, I'll talk to you, okay?" I knocked softly on her door.
"Come in. The sister-in-law's voice was a little low.
I walked in and saw her sitting alone on the bed in a daze.
"Sister, you know what? Actually, you don't need to hurt others to alleviate your pain. You've always been a lively and cheerful person, why did you become the way you are?"
The sister-in-law listened silently, with a complicated expression in her eyes.
"Xiaoxue, you're right, I know I'm not good now, but I'm also sad. I know I've always been the darling of my family, but now I feel upset when I see someone else taking my place away from me. ”
"Sister, in fact, each of us will go through such a stage, but we can't give up on ourselves and run away from life because of this. ”
The sister-in-law nodded silently, and a glimmer of light began to appear in her eyes.
I know that I can't just think from my own point of view, I should understand and help others. Instead of closing myself off to the surface of laughter, I started to pay attention to and help those in need.
The atmosphere at home has gradually improved, my parents have become more tolerant of me, and my sister-in-law has begun to become the same as before, although her temper is still not good, but at least she is no longer angry with me. When my daughter-in-law saw that I was stunned, she patted me on the shoulder with a gentle expression.
By chance, I met a group of people in need, and I started to take the initiative to chat with them and help them solve their problems, and I found that while paying attention to others, I also gained a lot of growth. The people around me also saw the change in me, and they began to slowly open up to me.
"Give birth to a broken granddaughter, whoever gives birth will raise it. This sentence no longer affects my heart, because I know how to understand others in my own way and help others. Every time I think about that adversity, I can suddenly see that I am no longer stuck in the past, but moving towards a better future.
"Xiaoxue, I have something to say to you. My sister-in-law patted me lightly on the shoulder, and there was a hint of gratitude and apology in her eyes.
"Sister, what's the matter with you?" I looked at her and asked with a smile.
"Some time ago, I said to you that it was really too much, and I regret it. The sister-in-law's voice began to tremble a little.
"Sister, don't be like this, let the past pass. I'm relieved that we're back in harmony and I'm very satisfied. I squeezed her hand and smiled.
The sister-in-law's eyes were filled with tears, and she suddenly took me in her arms, hugged me hard, and said incoherently, "I'm sorry, I'm really sorry." ”
I also responded to her hug vigorously, and my heart was full of warmth. I understand that this hug is not only an apology for her, but also a symbol of the renewed bond between us. At this moment, the pain in my heart seemed to become insignificant in an instant.
Soon after, my parents noticed that the atmosphere in the house had noticeably improved, and they began to be more tolerant of me and stopped nagging me about everything. My daughter-in-law also began to become gentle and no longer critical of me. I feel blessed by my family's love and understanding, and I have learned to be more tolerant of life.
"Xiaoxue, you have really changed a lot and now you look more confident and strong. Xiaomei took my hand and said with a smile.
"Yes, actually, I have also experienced a lot of things before I slowly learned how to face life. I slowly talked about what I had been through.
After listening to my experience, Xiaomei also hugged me silently. At this moment, I suddenly felt that the inferiority complex and pain I used to have become so insignificant, because I faced life with a more mature and open-minded attitude.
This experience taught me tolerance and understanding, and also made me understand that only by growing up can I have true strength. Every setback and difficulty in life is on the way to sharpening yourself. I am no longer afraid of challenges because of my inner growth, which makes me stronger.
Today, I live a full and happy life. I'm not perfect, but I know I'm moving in a better direction. Whenever I see those who need help, I cherish everything I have even more, because all of them are precious resources for my growth. And that period of sadness has become an invaluable part of my life, because it has made me more mature and rich.
Soon after, I met a girl named Kobayashi during a volunteer activity at school. She is a lively and lovely girl, but every time she talks about family, she becomes a little silent.
"Kobayashi, don't you want to talk about your family?" I asked with concern.
The corners of Xiao Lin's mouth raised slightly: "It's nothing, you know, some words are inconvenient to say." ”
I patted her on the shoulder and encouraged her, "If you have any difficulties, you can talk to me." Sometimes, a little talk makes you feel better. ”
Xiao Lin was silent for a moment, and finally spoke: "Actually, I also have a lot of problems in my family, my mother is often harsh on me, she always asks me to do my best, but I feel so tired. ”
I shook Xiaolin's hand and comforted her vigorously: "I understand your feelings, family difficulties can indeed be very heavy, but we can work together and believe that the future will be better." ”
Xiao Lin raised his head, looked at me and smiled and said, "Thank you, Xiao Xue, your words make me feel very warm." ”
Gradually, I joined the school's counselling group to help students who were struggling. Once, I met a girl named Xiaohua, who also had an unhappy family experience.
"Xiaohua, would you like to talk to me? Maybe I can help you share some of the burden. I asked gently.
Xiaohua lowered his head and whispered, "My father is often harsh on me, he always asks me to do my best, but I feel as if I can't do it. ”
I took Xiaohua's hand and looked at her with a firm gaze: "Trust me, you can definitely do it." Your efforts will never be in vain, and I will always support you. ”
Xiaohua raised his head with gratitude in his eyes: "Thank you, Xiaoxue, your encouragement has made me more confident to face life." ”
During this time, I gradually found my direction in life. I realized that I wanted to dedicate my life to more people in need. I will continue to walk on the path of helping others, and convey warmth and strength with my practical actions.
Now, I move forward to the future with confidence. I am no longer afraid of challenges, I am no longer afraid of difficulties, because I know that as long as we are strong in our hearts, we can go steadily and far on the road of life. And let me use my own strength to pass on the warmth to more people in need, so that everyone can feel the beauty and warmth of life.
After communicating with Xiaolin and Xiaohua, I have strengthened my determination to use my own strength to help others. I realized that despite the spiritual struggles I went through, these struggles were part of my growth and taught me more about how to support and understand others.
One day, I met a boy on campus who looked a little troubled, he was Wang Yu in the first grade.
"Wang Yu, you don't look very happy, is there anything unpleasant?" I walked up to him and asked softly.
Wang Yu raised his head, his eyes were a little confused: "Alas, I have indeed had some trouble recently, the teacher's expectations for me are so high, I feel as if I can no longer achieve them." ”
I pulled Wang Yu to sit down and patiently listened to him: "Everyone has a low period, don't be too yourself, relax, take your time, just take your time." ”
Wang Yu was silent for a moment, and finally smiled: "Thank you, Xiaoxue, I will take what you said to heart." ”
During this time, I have also met many younger students like Wang Yu. And I'm glad that I have the ability to help them and make them feel warm and cared for. Every time I see their eyes full of anticipation, I feel fulfilled and happy inside.
Today, although I am maturing step by step, I still have a warm and pure heart in my heart, and I am willing to use my strength to help others who are full of expectations. I firmly believe that no matter how challenging it is, with a kind heart, you can make this world a better place.
The setbacks and troughs in the past have taught me to understand and warm, and also made me understand that only by facing life positively and perceiving the world with our hearts can we go further and live a more real life. Perhaps, this is the original intention and belief that I have always adhered to, and I am willing to be a person who helps others, and becomes the warmth and hope in life. Every change is born from the heart, making the world more beautiful, and making one's life more fulfilling and meaningful. May this warmth and love be passed on forever and warm everyone in need.
The low self-esteem and frustration that I used to have had have been resolved and grown in my heart. I realized that these experiences were not my fetters, but a source of strength and nourishment for my growth. Every time my heart collides, I am more determined to use my own hands to help others and make others feel warm and caring.
Working in the counseling group, I have made many like-minded friends who, like me, have a heart that loves and cares about others. Together, we organized some psychological counseling and caring activities to help those students in need to get out of their predicament, and also sent them warmth and care.
"Xiaoxue, thank you, it was you who made me regain my confidence and courage. A classmate named Xiao Ming hugged me and said excitedly.
"It's okay, Xiao Ming, it's what I should do to help you. I smiled and patted him on the shoulder.
In our counseling team, every student is patient and caring. We use our actions to empower others and make them feel warm and cared for in life. All of this makes me feel extremely satisfied and happy, because it is an incomparable happiness to be able to use my own strength to help others.
During this time, my soul has grown and been enriched, and the gloom of the past has now vanished. The low self-esteem that I used to have has become more mature and stronger has become more and more calm. I firmly believe that the light and strength in my heart can allow me to go further and make more people feel the beauty of life.
Today, although I am still on the road of growth, I am more confident and more determined to use my own strength to warm the world, so that everyone can feel the warmth and care of life. I hope that this warmth and love can continue to be passed on, warm everyone in need, and make their lives full of hope and challenges.
Today, I face life with a more mature and determined mindset. Every time I communicate with others and help others, I feel full of warmth and hope. Not long ago, something happened on campus that I will never forget.
One day, I found a lonely boy in the playground who was sitting alone on a bench looking a little depressed. I walked over and sat down beside him, and asked gently, "What's wrong with you?"
The boy raised his head and looked at me, his eyes full of loss: "I...... I felt useless and unable to face the pressure my family gave me. ”
I took his hand and whispered, "Don't worry, everyone has a low point, the important thing is that we keep going." You're not alone in this, we can work together. ”
He nodded silently, a hint of gratitude in his eyes.
"If you need help, I'm willing to stay by your side all the time. I said to him firmly.
In the following period, I took the initiative to care for him, accompany him, and give him encouragement and support. He gradually became stronger and more confident, and was finally able to face his heart and face the pressures of life.
This experience made me more aware that everyone needs care and understanding. When others need help, we should reach out and give support and encouragement. This kind of warmth and care can not only help others get out of trouble, but also make us feel the beauty and sincerity of life.
Looking back on that experience today, I am filled with joy and satisfaction. I know that every time I accompany and encourage, I am stronger, and I also inject more strength and wisdom into my own growth. May I always carry this warm and loving heart to create more beauty and hope for myself and others. This sincere care and strength will always shine in my heart, blooming more light and warmth for more people's lives.