Unexpectedly, the first "breakup scene" in 2024 will come from the queen Sun Yanzi.
A few days ago, Sun Yanzi's sister Sun Yanmei officially announced on Weibo that she had severed her relationship with her sister.
sprinkled a small essay, shook out the family affairs, and instantly detonated the hot search.
Sun Yanmei said that the relationship with her sister has weakened since 2019, and the most direct reason is that she has "lived in the shadows for 20+ years".
Then it was announced, "I'm no longer sisters with so-and-so." ”
The words directly pointed to Yanzi Sun, "making small moves." ”
Stefanie Sun, who has always been low-key, has not responded, but netizens have made a lot of noise.
Those who support my sister wish her the life she wants in the future.
Standing on Sun Yanzi, I think my sister is not doing well, and what is the matter with my sister.
In any case, this kind of "biological sister" becomes "so-and-so", and family disputes are put on the stage.
It's quite a bit of pure yuan and suitable for cultivation.
Let's start with Stefanie Sun's family.
The Sun family is actually a typical Kochi family, Sun's father is a professor at Nanyang Technological University in Singapore, and Sun's mother is also a teacher.
When Sun Dad was extremely strict, when he was a child, Stefanie Sun and her sister didn't take the bus and walked to school every day in order to save pocket money to buy CDs.
The three sisters of the Sun family did not live up to the pressure of their parents.
The eldest sister, Sun Yanjia, is a vice president of an investment bank.
The second sister, Stefanie Sun, was discovered by her parents when she was a child, and let her learn piano at the age of 5, participate in singing competitions, and finally be admitted to Nanyang Technological University.
However, her voice is really good, and she was discovered by her mentor Li Weixiang when she was in college, and she has been a diva in the Chinese music scene since then.
The younger sister Sun Yanmei, who is 6 years old behind Sun Yanzi, was admitted to the National University of Singapore for a master's degree in medicine, and later a master's degree in economics to study law.
The Kochi atmosphere of the Sun family is absolutely amazing.
The most amazing thing is that my sister and Stefanie Sun are carved out of the same mold.
The sisters appeared together, not to mention the fans, it is said that Jay Chou has missed it, so whoever sees it will be blind......
But Stefanie Sun's relationship with her sisters is good, at least it used to be.
A few years ago, she also posted a childhood photo with her sister on Weibo, describing the two sisters as "like shadows." ”
After Stefanie Sun became famous, her sister often followed her sister everywhere to publicize.
The two sisters traveled together, and Stefanie Sun also encouraged her sister to swim naked in Switzerland, and the relationship can be said to be very close.
According to her sister, the relationship between the two began to deteriorate in 2019, but in 2020, Stefanie Sun also posted a photo on Weibo to celebrate her sister's birthday.
Copywriting is also a spoiling and slapstick without barriers between family members.
And when Sun Yanmei opened a Weibo account, many fans also followed her for the title of Sun Yanzi's sister.
At that time, the content shared by Sun Yanmei was quite daily.
But from Sun Yanmei's point of view, it seems to be another story.
The thorn she can't pull out is the aura of Yanzi Sun.
After being on the hot search, some netizens turned out screenshots of her chat, in her life narrative, she was very popular when she was a child, and after her sister became popular, she was obviously isolated by the social circle.
She left Singapore and started studying law, but she couldn't make friends or find a job.
At the same time, Yanzi Sun praised her sister on Weibo for being very powerful, and also helped her advertise the trench coat she designed.
And Sun Yanmei began to post some more negative content, such as accusing herself of not being a celebrity, but not living like a private person.
The second thorn comes from the parents.
Sun Yanmei is the youngest child in the family, and she used to receive more attention, but later Sun Yanzi became a big star, and she began to mind that her parents "favored" her sister.
The year before last, she posted a Weibo content that she was envious of her sister having her father to work with.
Someone asked her if she had any contact with her sister, and her answer was meaningful.
then alluded to her sister who sent ins but didn't reply to her messages. (But in fact, ins is most likely operated by the artist's work team.) ）
And another Weibo alluded to the fact that my sister has "power." ”
Some fans of Yanzi Sun explained that in fact, Yanmei Sun had a falling out with her family in 2019 and left Australia, and she has almost cut off contact with her family in the past few years.
On the contrary, Stefanie Sun, who is in Singapore, often takes care of her parents and travels with her family.
Her parents also hoped that she could go home to solve the problem many times, but Sun Yanmei avoided it, so she had today's situation.
In short, everyone can only see one side of this family "Rashomon".
The reason for this is probably only understood by the parties concerned, and it is difficult for outsiders to evaluate.
Strict family education, unbalanced mentality, and the level of achievement between sisters, each of which is a thorn.
Is there a solution to Sun Yanmei's dilemma?
In fact, celebrity families are actually the same as ordinary families, and it is difficult to hide the problems on the surface.
And the celebrity sisters are facing huge fame and fortune, and the gains and losses are far beyond the imagination of ordinary people.
On the other hand, the vast majority of artists in the entertainment industry have brothers or sisters, and it is still relatively rare to tear them like this.
Gigi agrees that there are more mature solutions to good relationships.
The sisters in the celebrity family, the first thing that comes to my mind is the size S.
In fact, the script taken by the S family is more typical than that of Yanzi Sun's family: three daughters with different looks and personalities, but there are two big stars, and the eldest sister Xu Xixian, who is rarely mentioned.
But in their family, there is no accusation of "shadow" and "favoritism".
As the eldest sister of a single-parent family, Xu Xixian has helped her mother take care of her younger sister and take care of housework since she was a child. Da S, who wanted to be an artist back then, went to audition, and the eldest sister accompanied her.
The scout fell in love with the eldest sister and wanted her to form a girl group with Big S, but the introverted eldest sister politely refused and recommended her sister Xiao S, which is the most famous sister flower in the entertainment industry.
Big S will complain about his sisters and sisters in the show, and they can't find them in the crowd, but they care for their sisters in private.
My sister was afraid of society, and her sisters did their best to protect her private life, so that she lived in seclusion for so many years, and never relied on her sisters' fame;
Big S gave birth to a child, and the eldest sister would help take care of it;
Little S had a difficult birth, and Big S even said that he was betting on his future child and hoped that his sister would be healthy;
Xiao S is bold and uninhibited on the surface, but he is very sensitive to family affection.
Aside from the drama of the family bloody drama, S's mother and her three daughters get along with each other as a model, they are also mothers and friends, take care of each other, and can also hate each other.
This mode of getting along and emotional intelligence is naturally difficult to Xi, but we can also get a glimpse of how family affection is maintained and developed.
In families in the entertainment industry, the model of "star + amateur" is the norm.
It stands to reason that Chen Feiyu's elder brother Chen Yuang is also easy to live in the shadow of his younger brother, many people say that he has lost a lot of appearance, but he has become "an elder brother in the eyes of others." ”
praised his younger brother for his cuteness, and backed his younger brother, he also graduated from college, specialized in finance step by step, and became an investment banking elite.
One of the brothers is doing behind-the-scenes capital operation, and the other is a star in front of the stage, well, this cooperation model is not too cool.
Where does "shadow" and "preference" come from?
Moreover, there are not too many brothers and sisters in the entertainment industry who join forces to engage in careers, Li Bingbing and Na Ying's former agents are their sisters, and Zhang Ziyi's previous agent is also his brother Zhang Zinan.
Isn't it a win-win situation for your family to reach the pinnacle of your career?
Jia Jingwen also has a younger brother named Jia Pengli, who is also in the entertainment industry, but he has taken the road of music, although there is no improvement, but when his sister and her ex-husband are unhappy, he is the first to hold grievances for his sister.
Zhang Huimei also has a younger sister Zhang Huichun, who loves music since she was a child, and she doesn't have her sister's strength against the sky, so she relies on herself step by step, participates in singing competitions, releases albums, and never takes the initiative to rub her sister's fame.
At the concert, Zhang Huimei will definitely be there to support no matter how busy she is.
Therefore, back to the very beginning of the question, what Sun Yanmei can't accept is the gap with her sister.
has a similar appearance, but the current situation is very different, and it is impossible to catch up with it.
But since you can't smooth out this gap, it's better to work hard to adjust your life.
Repair family relationships, communicate sensibly, and act like an adult.
Take 10,000 steps back, in a celebrity family, even being yourself has more solid capital.
Sun Yanmei's dilemma is that there are a thousand solutions, but she still chooses the most useless one.
I can't help but think that in 2017, when my sister reported that she couldn't find a job and designed a trench coat, Stefanie Sun released an album with a song "Trench Coat" that sang like this:
Calendars flying by one by one
Patchwork a trench coat
Growing up is a game
Turning the past into the present