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In November 2003, Anita Mui was diagnosed with cancer, but she resolutely appeared on the stage of the Red Pavilion and presented the audience with the last concert of her life, called "Anita Mui's Classic Golden Melody Concert".
In that performance, Anita Mui, who is already 40 years old, wore a beautiful wedding dress for the first time.
Although she was terminally ill with cancer, and perhaps she had felt that this concert might be the farewell of her life, she did not expect death to come so quickly and catch her lovers off guard.
Anita Mui died of cervical cancer in the early morning of December 30 at the age of 40.
Jacky Cheung and Mrs. Lo Meiwei (Lo Meiwei is Anita Mui's closest friend) and her guardian Andy Lau are waiting in front of her hospital bed. The entire ward and corridor were crowded with people, all of whom were friends and juniors who had come to see them off.
Her life is full of struggle and inspiration, and she has become a symbol of the spirit of Hong Kong people to forge ahead and persevere, so she is known as "the daughter of Hong Kong".
In addition, it is worth mentioning that Anita Mui became the second Hong Kong artist to erect a bronze statue on the Avenue of Stars in Tsim Sha Tsui after the late kung fu superstar Bruce Lee.
However, to this day, many people are still puzzled, why this woman who has been brilliant in the Hong Kong entertainment industry all her life has never been able to achieve her wish in love?
In fact, Anita Mui's emotional experience has been reported by the media many times, but the real situation may only be known to her, who is the person she loves, and who loves her deeply?
Perhaps, we can find the answer in her stage performance and final video.
Since the mid-80s, Andy Lau and Anita Mui have collaborated on many films, such as "91 Edition of the Condor Heroes", "The Legend of the God of War" and "Love is Like a Dream" and many other films as couples.
Due to the fame of the two, their relationship has also become the focus of the company's hype. They participate in variety shows together, go shopping hand in hand, and are often seen as inseparable partners. Sometimes even showing intimate gestures, such rumors often make headlines.
Anita Mui once said that if you want to get married, you must marry Andy Lau.
Why is Andy Lau particularly favored by Andy Lau alone among many male friends? Anita Mui commented on Andy Lau in an interview: "He is very kind to people, very considerate, very loyal to his friends, and has a firm sense of family. ”
Anita Mui is full of righteousness, likes to speak for friends, and has many friends in the entertainment industry, but they often regard Anita Mui as a "brother" and ignore her weak side as a woman, but Andy Lau can give her warmth and care.
Whether it is friendship or love, Anita Mui and Andy Lau have known each other for more than 20 years, and it no longer matters how their relationship is defined. The important thing is that among the many male friends, only Andy Lau knows her best.
In 1985, Anita Mui released a new album "Bad Girl", and she traveled to Japan with the company to promote it, and it was there that she experienced an unexpected love.
At that time, Anita Mui's Huaxing Company jointly held a drinking party in Japan to promote the "Bad Girl" album. The Japanese side invited many popular artists to participate, including Kondo Masahiko. The two met at this drinking party.
But this acquaintance was only a glimpse, and their real friendship was in 1986. That year, Kondo's Genesys Company planned to expand his high-profile Japanese idol to the Hong Kong market, so he arranged for him to go to Hong Kong for a concert.
There, Kondo was chased and intercepted by the paparazzi. Unlike Japan's mild-mannered entertainment scene, Hong Kong's paparazzi always show up unexpectedly, ask unexpected questions, and report some unexpected news.
This situation made Kondo feel quite uncomfortable, and in just a few days, he had a bad relationship with the Hong Kong media and was frequently attacked.
This led to a depressed mood throughout Kondo's entire trip to Hong Kong, even at the celebration reception. However, Anita Mui's appearance changed everything. Someone introduced Anita Mui to him, just a quick glance, Kondo suddenly said: "We met last year." ”
Even this brief acquaintance made Kondo instantly interested. Anita Mui's temperament and beauty are very different from those of Oriental women, and immediately attracted the attention of Kondo Masahiko. Of course, despite only one brief encounter, Kondo was impressed.
At the drinking party, they danced together, made eye contact, and emotions spread, until Kondo suddenly asked Anita Mui, "Can I kiss you?"
At the end of the ball, Kondo took off the tie pin on his chest and gave it to Anita Mui as a welcome gift. Anita Mui was very happy.
The next day, Kondo invited Anita Mui to go shopping, and although she was busy at the time, she finally agreed.
Upon arriving, Kondo gave her another diamond brooch. As a return gift, Anita Mui bought a small photo frame like an agate spirit stone at Cartier and gave it to Kondo, and another one was left for the two of them.
At that time, Anita Mui found out that Kondo was not single, and had a girlfriend named Akina Nakamori in Japan. She called Kondo to confront him, but he never confessed.
Anita Mui went to ask her friend Liu Peiji: "I really love Kondo, but I don't know what to do." Liu Peiji had never seen Anita Mui like this, and comforted: "There is only one life in life, and sometimes you can be selfish once." ”
After listening to her friend's words, she immediately flew to Japan to find Kondo. Later, Liu Peiji also went to see her, and found Anita Mui squatting on the ground, the house was full of things, and he asked her, "What are you doing?" Anita Mui said, "I'm washing the toilet." ”
Liu Peiji sighed: "No matter how strong and proud a woman is, it is inevitable to hesitate in the face of feelings. Anita Mui smiled: "I just want to have a home." ”
But at that time, Kondo Masahiko already had a girlfriend Akina Nakamori.
Not long after, the news came that Akina Nakamori had committed suicide at Kondo's house.
According to the report, Akina Nakamori once cut her wrists with a razor at Kondo's house, and the wound was 8 centimeters long and 2 centimeters deep, injuring muscles and nerves, and even cutting bones.
Fortunately, someone found her in time, and she was rushed to the hospital, where she was rescued after 6 hours of emergency rescue. But since then, she has stayed away from the stage and has not been seen in public.
Later, Anita Mui went to Japan 7 times. Soon after, she and Kondo broke up. It is said that Kondo said to her when they broke up, "Akina Nakamori can't live without me." But I could go on with my life without you. ”
In 2003, Anita Mui's condition worsened, but in order to celebrate Kondo's birthday, she deliberately concealed her illness and flew to Japan.
In Anita Mui's opinion, Kondo is her true love, and even thinks that the two have developed to the point where they can meet their parents. But Kondo sees Anita Mui as a spare tire, just a backup option for him.
Then Anita Mui had a relationship, and the object was Zhao Wenzhuo, who was 9 years younger than her.
In 1995, Zhao Wenzhuo and Leslie Cheung became good friends, and they filmed the movie "Full of Gold and Jade" at that time. Leslie Cheung invited Zhao Wenzhuo to Zhong Zhentao's family party, and it was at that party that Zhao Wenzhuo met Anita Mui.
Zhao Wenzhuo became Anita Mui's personal trainer, and they came into contact every day and gradually developed feelings.
On May 5, 1995, the media exposed photos of Zhao Wenzhuo and Anita Mui traveling to Malaysia together, and the relationship between sisters and brothers was also exposed. At that time, Zhao Wenzhuo was only 23 years old and a newcomer to the entertainment industry, while Anita Mui was 32 years old and the eldest sister in the Hong Kong entertainment industry, and her career was at its peak.
After the relationship was exposed, Anita Mui took Zhao Wenzhuo to various public occasions and met with her parents. However, some media questioned whether Zhao Wenzhuo "used" Anita Mui's fame, believing that his success was due to Anita Mui rather than personal efforts, which gave him a lot of psychological pressure.
When someone asked when they would get married, Zhao Wenzhuo was confused, he felt that he was not able to support his family now.
"Anita Mui is rich, don't worry. ”
These words deeply hurt Zhao Wenzhuo's self-esteem. Coupled with the fact that several of his films made in Hong Kong did not do well at the box office, the gap between them was even more prominent, so the relationship had an unequal identity problem from the beginning.
A year later, they broke up because of a big misunderstanding.
Anita Mui once said: "If I could go back to the past, I would definitely explain the misunderstanding that led to our breakup, and I would definitely save our relationship." If I could explain it at that time, I must have been Zhao Wenzhuo's wife by now. ”
This shows how reluctant Anita Mui is to this relationship, and it also proves that Zhao Wenzhuo is the person Anita Mui wants to marry the most in this life.
When Anita Mui celebrated her 38th birthday, she celebrated her birthday on a yacht with her new Thai boyfriend, but unfortunately she was caught by the paparazzi.
THE NEW BOYFRIEND, AFFECTIONATELY KNOWN AS SHUMSHUM BY ANITA MUI, IS SAID TO BE A BARTENDER SHE MET AT A BAR WHILE VISITING THAILAND HALF A YEAR AGO, AND THE TWO FELL IN LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT.
Since the start of dating, Anita Mui has flown to Thailand every month to meet her boyfriend.
ON ANITA MUI'S BIRTHDAY, SHUMSHUM CAME TO HONG KONG TO SPEND TIME WITH HIS GIRLFRIEND, AND HE ONCE PRETENDED TO BE A FAN AND APPEARED AT THE BIRTHDAY PARTY OF ANITA MUI AND OTHER FANS, BUT NO ONE KNEW HIS IDENTITY AT THE TIME.
In order to avoid the media discovering him, Anita Mui planned to hold a party on October 8 in advance, and announced that she would not celebrate with great fanfare on his birthday, hoping to live a low-key life.
She arranged for her godmother, Mrs. Ho Koon-cheong, and a few close friends to go to a temple on Lantau Island to pray for blessings and have fasting, in an attempt to divert the attention of the media.
However, the paparazzi were not to be outdone and launched a man-marking tactic. SHUMSHU WENT OUT WITH HER, JOINED MRS. HO, FRIENDS AND ASSISTANTS AND SET SAIL ON A LUXURY YACHT WORTH 40 MILLION HONG KONG DOLLARS.
Every move of the "old and young" pair was filmed by the paparazzi.
On the same day, Anita Mui, her godmother and boyfriend had a fast meal after praying at the temple, and then drove a yacht out to sea to play, and did not return to the vicinity of Aberdeen until the evening, and did not return home until more than 11 o'clock in the evening.
When they were at the temple, in order to avoid attracting attention, Anita Mui and her boyfriend just got very close and did not have too many intimate actions. But when they sat on the sofa at the rear of the cabin and watched the sea and talked, their hands never parted, and the other friends sensibly avoided them.
It's a pity that Anita Mui died prematurely.
Zeng Zhiwei recalled: "At that time, Anita Mui's condition took a turn for the worse, but she was still very strong, and she did not leave with a smile until she finally met with each of her friends and received their last blessings. ”