Buying a car is a major event in many people's lives, and someone once said, "A life without a car is incomplete like a homeless homeless man." ”
However, Wang Zhiwen said: After buying a car, I found out that there is a car. Indeed, the pursuit of the dream of a famous car, after the purchase often find the so-called "driving pleasure", may quickly be dispelled by the pressure of loan repayment and urban congestion, not to mention those potholes and potholes that make your chassis full of sin. When driving a vehicle struggling on a crowded road, you may not help but think of how worry-free the subway is after a long absence! Therefore, after the pleasure of buying a car, the ensuing mediocrity and helplessness also make Wang Zhiwen feel that in this world, it may not be the car that makes him on the road, but the mood on the road that makes him find the car.
Buying a house is a big dream for the middle class, however, once you enter this circle, you find that it is not as glamorous as expected. Wang Zhiwen said: When you buy a house, it is not uncommon to find that everyone has a house. In the hot property market, we continue to look at houses, compare houses, buy houses, and finally have a place to live, but in the process, we are not only tired of accumulating not only property, but also many lost good times. When you move into a new home, you don't have a moment of joy, but a succession of decorations, materials, and furniture. The location of each socket and the selection of materials for each window make people hesitate, and when the renovation is completed, they will have to face the new troubles of water leakage upstairs and power outages in the community. The responsibility of buying a house is heavier than imagination, and making choices about space and materials every day makes people tired, which is really a feeling of "wind and snow" with just a ray of sunshine.
After a day of gathering with friends, Wang Zhiwen changed his words: "You finally became the boss, only to find that the employees are more angry than the boss." "Becoming a boss is a dream for many people in the workplace, but after the dream comes true, they find that this job is not as good as it seems. The boss not only has to face the success or failure of the company, but also has to deal with cumbersome management and the emotions of employees, and constantly inject new vitality into the company. However, the employees who stay in the company may be the real heroes behind the scenes. They are willing to work hard and contribute wisdom to create wealth for the company, so that the boss is full of confidence, the boss finally smiled, can only rely on you, and the employees have played again; Therefore, after becoming the boss, Wang Zhiwen felt that the "cows" should be those employees who paid silently and disappeared on the surface.
"Employee rights" is a problem for many bosses. After becoming an employee, I realized that the power of the individual is limited, but the power of the collective is unlimited. Seemingly ordinary employees, but they are indispensable promoters in the operation of the company. With their own labor, they support the development of the company, or work silently, or reform the old and bring forth the new. They are far more aware of the actual situation of the company than the boss, and are more creative and take ownership in practice. And this kind of power is deep, long-lasting, and intently sticking to oneself. In this process, the employees who are silently dedicated have become the most solid backing of each company.
Buying a car or a house seems to have changed your life on the surface, but in fact it is just an external material fulfillment. But if you really want to measure the happiness of life, maybe we should look at the most authentic shopping list in our hearts. There may not be priceless items on this shopping list, but there are heartwarming moments that can ignite the heart. A cup of hot tea, a pot of light wine, a good book, a wonderful trip...... This is where happiness is the most true and close to happiness in our daily lives.
Wang Zhiwen's words are really good: "When you buy a car, it's just like that when you find that you have a car; when you buy a house, it's not uncommon to find that everyone has a house; you finally become the boss, only to find that the employees are more angry than the boss." "In this struggle, we are more or less looking for the positioning of happiness. Perhaps, true happiness is already around us, just because we can't see it for a while. Sharing happiness, cherishing friendship, warming family affection, and being grateful for love are the truest happiness in our lives.