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Zhu Xun was born in a scholarly family in Jinghua, and he should have a comfortable and worry-free life. However, the screenwriter of life seems to be deliberately playing tricks on her, and plays a bad joke on her from the beginning.
What's special is that the moment she came to the world, as the third daughter in the family, was like shattering the last glimmer of hope that her parents had for their son.
When it comes to Zhu Xun, her mother prefers to call her "San'er" rather than her real name, which not only includes her ranking position in the family, but also seems to reveal a deep regret for not being able to have a son.
However, the deeper reason may be due to her mother's indifference and coldness towards her.
Zhu Xun's name was originally carefully chosen by his mother for her long-awaited son, but providence made people, and it was a daughter who was finally born. In Zhu Xun's childhood memories, her mother's attention to her is almost negligible.
Whether it was in her studies or in the trivial matters of life, the mother always behaved carelessly and ignored this poor daughter.
When Zhu Xun was still in junior high school, her father suddenly received an order to be sent by his unit to work in Japan. Without hesitation, the mother chose to follow in her husband's footsteps and embarked on a journey to a foreign land.
However, this parting turned out to be a permanent farewell, and since then, Zhu Xun has only one relative left in the city of Beijing.
It was this background that made Zhu Xun firm in his determination to go to Japan to find his parents. In order to realize this wish, she studied hard day and night, knowing that only by being good enough can she achieve her wish.
Zhu Xun has not only achieved remarkable results in the academic field, but also showed amazing talent in art, at the age of 14, she appeared on the stage of CCTV, as the host of children's programs, her speech and demeanor are full of confidence, won the high praise of many directors.
Although Zhu Xun has already made a name for herself in China, in the hot summer of 1990, at the age of 17, she still bravely embarked on the road of studying in Japan alone. After a lot of hardship, she finally found a place where her parents worked.
However, what she never expected was that she had gone through hardships just to reunite with her parents, but her mother behaved so indifferently and ruthlessly towards her at this moment, tears were like a flood that burst the embankment, uncontrollably gushing out of her eyes and sliding down her cheeks.
Despite the deep disappointment in his heart, Zhu Xun has already embarked on the journey, determined to stay in Japan to continue his studies, and at the same time hope to share a good time with his parents.
However, just after she expressed her thoughts, her mother poured cold water on her without mercy: "As long as you decide not to return to China, then we and your father will stop supporting all your tuition fees."
Faced with such a resolute choice by his parents, Zhu Xun still firmly chose to stick to it. However, it is true that her parents have never given her any financial assistance since. In such a predicament, Zhu Xun can only rely on part-time work to earn living needs.
In this strange and challenging foreign land, she was originally a well-known artist, but she had to struggle to survive in the lowest cleaning position.
The language barrier has become the biggest obstacle for Zhu Xun on the road to finding a job in Japan. In order to earn more money, she always takes the initiative to take on the task of cleaning the area of the company's bathroom, and cleaning the trash cans and toilets has become the main part of her daily work.
Even though those pungent smells made her almost unbearable, Zhu Xun still gritted her teeth and persevered.
In addition to hard work, Zhu Xun also has to go all out to prepare for the highest level of Japanese language exams held by the Japanese Ministry of Education, Culture, Sports, and Culture. Only by passing this exam will she have a chance to qualify for university in Japan.
After unremitting efforts, Zhu Xun finally received the admission letter from Asia University.
Interlude: Zhu Xun has fought to the death against cancer twice in his life, the first of which was when he was studying in Japan. At that time, she often felt chest tightness and shortness of breath, and even had a bruised lump on her body that was obvious to the touch.
At first, Zhu Xun didn't pay too much attention to this, probably due to excessive work pressure. However, as time went on, this inexplicable condition became more and more frequent, and even at its worst, it had seriously interfered with her normal life.
After careful consideration, Zhu Xun finally decided to go to the hospital for a comprehensive examination. When the examination report came out, she was stunned and stunned -- the diagnosis turned out to be vascular cancer! As we all know, cancer is a frightening disease, but fortunately, Zhu Xun is still young, and the condition was discovered in time, and he has not yet reached a desperate situation.
The hospital immediately arranged surgery for her to remove the tumor, and the whole process went smoothly and perfectly. However, the postoperative recovery period made Zhu Xun tormented and painful.
Just when she was desperate for her relatives to be by her side, her mother could not stay by her side for a long time, so she could only stay for half an hour, and when they parted, there was no other gift of care except for leaving a cold watermelon.
However, fate brought Zhu Xun a second cancer challenge. This challenge has occurred at the peak of Zhu Xun's return to the motherland and the brilliant development of his career. At that time, during a routine physical examination organized by the unit, doctors found an abnormal papilloma on her vocal cords.
The only way to cure the disease is to remove the vocal cords. For a presenter, the loss of voice is undoubtedly a heavy blow to life.
However, the god of luck does not seem to have given up on Zhu Xun. Although she underwent surgery again, the whole process went very smoothly. Just a year later, she regained her health and returned to the stage, once again overcoming the pain with her determination.
Shortly after the Spring Festival in 2000, Zhu Xun successfully joined CCTV's "Zhengda Variety Show" column group with outstanding performance, starting a new chapter in her career. It was here that she met the other half of her life - Wang Zhi.
When they met for the first time, Zhu Xun was attracted by Wang Zhi's mature and steady temperament. This man, who is eight years older than her, has been working hard in the highly competitive field of CCTV for many years, has accumulated rich experience, and acts cautiously and calmly.
The two shared the same ideals and pursuits, and soon met each other, as close as old friends.
Zhu Xun's first impression of Wang Zhi was: This is a man who can withstand any wind and rain and shoulder any responsibility. Facts have proved that when Zhu Xun went through the most difficult stage of his life - his father was terminally ill, it was Wang Zhi who stepped forward and selflessly gave full support.
He did not hesitate to put down his work and rushed back to Beijing to accompany Zhu Xun; he ran around, trying his best to find a famous doctor for Zhu Xun's father; every subtle move was deeply imprinted in Zhu Xun's heart and became her most solid support.
Although Zhu Xun's father eventually passed away due to his deteriorating condition, Wang Zhi gave her endless spiritual strength when she needed it most.
Just when Zhu Xun was moved to tears, the love story of the two was also quietly staged. With the blessings of relatives and friends, they walked into the palace of marriage hand in hand in January 2004.
Soon after the newlywed, the family was blessed with a noble son, which undoubtedly brought endless laughter and joy to the family. However, good times are always short-lived, and before the first anniversary of the wedding, Zhu Xun suffered another heavy blow in his life - his father-in-law died of a sudden cerebral hemorrhage and could only be paralyzed in bed all day long.
In view of her husband Wang Zhi's busy career and her mother-in-law's weak physique, the burden of taking care of her father-in-law naturally fell on Zhu Xun's shoulders.
In this difficult and difficult environment, it is difficult for any ordinary person to bear it, but Zhu Xun has never complained. In her eyes, in the face of family affection, regardless of men, women and children, blood connection is the most important thing.
Therefore, Zhu Xun began to take care of his bedridden father-in-law wholeheartedly, changing diapers, feeding, bathing and so on for him every day.
Although the process was full of bitterness, Zhu Xun never complained. Under her careful care, although my father-in-law could not fully recover, he could at least achieve basic self-care.
It wasn't until 2009 that my father-in-law's condition deteriorated and he finally passed away.
When he saw that the once familiar bed was now empty, Zhu Xun couldn't help but burst into tears. After the death of her father-in-law, Zhu Xun devoted more time and energy to taking care of her mother-in-law's daily life.
In her mother-in-law, she regained the long-lost maternal love and warmth.
With the deepening of his love for his mother-in-law, Zhu Xun's longing for his mother has become stronger and stronger. Just as Zhu Xun's career was booming, in 2003, her father was unfortunately diagnosed with a terminal illness - colon cancer.
A critical illness notice shattered Zhu Xun's heart like a thunderbolt from the sky, and she experienced unprecedented helplessness and fear for the first time.
This father, who had been absent for a long time in her life, was ruthlessly taken away by death like this. Zhu Xun froze in place, her mind was blank, she felt at a loss, unable to accept this cruel reality.
Fortunately, at this time, her husband Wang Zhi immediately put down all the affairs in his hands and rushed back to Beijing from other places without hesitation, accompanied by Zhu Xun, he ran around, trying his best to find a famous doctor and the best treatment plan for Zhu Xun's father, and provide all possible assistance to save lives.
Watching every movement of her husband Wang Zhi, Zhu Xun felt a deep emotion in her heart.
With the affectionate encouragement and support of her husband, Zhu Xun deeply experienced the perseverance and faith to fight against fate, and rekindled the courage and hope of life. However, the tricks of fate always catch people off guard, and despite their best efforts, Zhu Xun's father died of illness after all.
Facing the last journey of his father's life, Zhu Xun's heart was full of endless grief. However, in this most difficult moment, her husband Wang Zhi gave her unprecedented strength and support, and this deep kindness will always be engraved in her heart.
The absence of his mother has undoubtedly become the biggest regret in Zhu Xun's life. After her mother's eyes were healed, she moved with her family to a nursing home overseas and has never returned to her homeland since.
Although Zhu Xun has always maintained his respect for his mother, and has sincerely invited his mother to return to China to live many times, his mother always refuses for various reasons. It was not until the beginning of 2023 that the 86-year-old mother reluctantly agreed to return to China to visit, but who would have predicted that this brief reunion would be an eternal parting.
It turned out that her mother had already suffered from illness in a foreign country, and her return to China before her death was just to say her final goodbye to Zhu Xun. On April 27, 2023, Zhu Xun wore a black mourning dress and stood solemnly in front of his mother's mourning hall with his head bowed to hold the final farewell ceremony for this extremely strange relative in his life.
Recalling his mother's indifference and ruthlessness to him before his death, Zhu Xun's heart couldn't help but have mixed feelings. She had painfully asked for countless nights: Why is her mother always so cold to her? Even the most basic care has not been given? Now, Zhu Xun finally understands that this woman who is as ethereal as a cloud has also borne too much pain.
Staring at his mother's last photo, Zhu Xun's tears welled up in his eyes again. She hopes that her mother in heaven can embrace her again and warm her loneliness in the world with that unquenchable filial piety.
Mother gradually left like this, leaving Zhu Xun's life, but the trauma and regret in her heart will become indelible scars in her life.