Huang Qishan: A late-blooming singer.
Huang Qishan, a singer born in Guangzhou in 1981, her musical talent was officially displayed in front of the public at the age of 45 with her appearance in the Hunan Satellite TV program "I Am a Singer", which made this female singer who went relatively late in the music industry famous overnight and gained the love of the audience. As a late-blooming musical talent, Huang Qishan has deeply touched the hearts of many music lovers with her beautiful and warm voice and legendary life story.
Childhood background and marital experience
The fact that Huang Qishan grew up in a family environment that lacked family affection left a deep shadow on her. From an early age, she longed for a perfect family, which influenced her perception of later marriage. Marriage was an important and difficult topic in her life. Her first marriage unfortunately ended in divorce, which left her deeply traumatized. Not wanting to be bound by the past, she decided to leave Guangzhou and start a new life. She then experienced two more marriages, but neither of them lasted long. These three failed marriages have tempered her perseverance and determination in the face of difficulties.
The beginning of his music career and the experience of the Butong 100 band
As a teenager, Wong was introduced to the stage in a dance company and began to understand and love the path of stage performance. After that, she joined the popular band Butong 100 in Guangzhou, where she not only improved her acting skills, but also began to compose her own original music under the influence of rock style. During her time at Butong 100, Wong grew step by step into a musician with independent thinking skills and fearless in the face of difficulties. This experience shaped her tenacity and expressiveness as a solo singer later on.
The first marriage and leaving Guangzhou
The first marriage, which ended in a breakup, was obviously a heavy blow to Huang Qishan. In order to get out of her amnesia, she decided to leave Guangzhou, where she had lived for more than 30 years, and start over in a new environment. Arriving in a new place, Wong realizes that marriage is not the whole story of life, and she needs to reinvent herself and examine the true meaning of life. This change strengthened her strength to face difficulties independently, and also allowed her to face her second marriage with a more mature attitude. The second marriage and the estrangement of music
After Wong and her second husband got together, the pressure of life and busy social activities gradually distanced her from music, the career she knew and relied on the most. As a singer, music is an important way for her to express herself and gain happiness, but in this newlywed life, Wong has spent too much time and energy on various occasions and life challenges, and it is difficult for her to focus on practicing Xi and creating music.
Whenever she stayed late at various drinking parties, Huang Qishan had to cancel the scheduled music rehearsal time, which put a lot of pressure on her music Xi. At the same time, the trivial things in life and the hustle and bustle of family also make it difficult for her to maintain a calm mood, which is a huge obstacle for music creation. Gradually, Wong discovered that it had been a long time since she had practiced Xi and completed a song in its entirety, and music was no longer the most important thing in her life.
At this time, Huang Qishan began to ask herself whether she should completely put aside other priorities in life and devote herself to the music career. However, as a wife, she also does not want to be neglected and left out of her family life. This put her in a dilemma. Wong realised that if she couldn't find a balance, she would lose the chance to continue winning on the music stage, and it could also affect the stability of her existing intimate relationships.
The turnaround and re-emergence of "I Am a Singer".
In 2013, before the start of the second season of "I Am a Singer", Huang Qishan's music career was at a low point. Past social friction and musical estrangement left her confused about her musical prowess and prospects. However, when she focused on the news of winning this award to participate in the reality show, Huang Qishan decided to see it as a new opportunity for transformation.
In the show, Huang Qishan perfectly interpreted a series of classic songs of different eras with perseverance. From folk to rock, her rich interpreting ability and emotional investment have brought a strong visual and psychological impact to live audiences and TV viewers. The fiery response to the show also ignited her renewed passion for the music career.
After winning the award for "I Am a Singer", Wong began to step up the arrangement of live concerts and the creation of new original music. Interactions with fans are also more frequent and intimate. Music has once again become an integral part of her life. With the support of fans and the reproduction of artistic strength, Huang Qishan ushered in the second spring of her music career.
The third marriage and the end
In 2015, Huang Qishan announced her official divorce from her second husband. After ending this relationship that lasted for more than a decade, she decided to turn to music again, setting up her own music studio, looking for musicians who really resonated with her.
Less than a year later, Huang Qishan started a third romantic relationship with musician Zhou Yunhan, who has known each other for many years. The two have a deep understanding of each other musically, and they also maintain enough freedom and respect in their feelings. In 2018, Huang Qishan and Zhou Yunhan got married.
According to Wong Yee Shan herself, her third marriage gave her the thoughtfulness and support that she had lacked in the first two marriages, which allowed him to devote himself to music creation without worries. Her 15-year relationship with Zhou Yunhan also convinced her that choosing a partner who understands and supports each other is an extremely valuable asset for any art creator.
The regret of having no children and accepting a new identity
The long-term inability to have children once caused Huang Qishan to fall into deep inferiority complex and pain. Facing society's default expectations of women and doubts from relatives and friends, this brought her great psychological pressure.
However, as she grew older and more experienced, Wong gradually found a new self-orientation to accept this fact. She began to devote more motherly love to her fans, surrounding and inspiring them with her singing.
In public performances one after another, Huang Qishan is not afraid of difficulties to reveal her difficulties to the outside world, which allows more women who are unable to have children to find a window to confide. She uses her own growth as an example to teach others how to find new motivation in disappointment.