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Since ancient times, there is a saying: A woman is a woman who pleases herself, and a man who is a confidant dies!
I don't know when the first gray hair sprouted or how it grew in the area.
Because I've always had a rough personality, I haven't looked in the mirror seriously for many years.
Until one day, I found out that I had gray hair, and not just one or two!
You know! My mother, she didn't have gray hair at the age of 50! Now she is 70 years old, and a small amount of white hair has been successfully hidden in most of the black hair, which has always been the proud capital of my mother. After all, she hadn't deliberately done any care or thought for her naturally curly hair.
Now, when I see the gray hair on my forehead and sideburns that I am only forty years old, I am faintly restless and anxious! There are also many villains in my heart who are fighting with various opinions: Is my body aging prematurely? Or is it the serious consequence of moderate anemia for many years? Or is it because I have not paid attention to migraines for many years, and I have begun to attack from the inside out...
That's when I started to act like a thief. When I come into contact with others every day, I more or less avoid my eyes, I dare not look at others, I don't feel confident in my heart, and I always feel that I am a little obscene between my gestures. Even I, who have always liked to talk everywhere, are reluctant to contact strangers because of this gray hair.
This handful of gray hair successfully caused me to look anxious. The perfectionist mentality that I had only when I was seventeen or eighteen years old regained the high ground of IQ! It succeeded in making me a little depressed...
Trying to look in the mirror on various occasions every day has also become a heart disease. Actually, if you look at it again, you can't change anything, but you just can't help but want to see it!
Looking in the mirror, the stubborn white hair, and helplessly found that every day on the ground is precious black hair!
I began to complain that it must be in the "dormitory" that those three men couldn't get along with me day by day!
Looking in the mirror, sighing, lamenting that I was forced to accept that I was no longer young ...
Just after a year of this inner torment, I finally reconciled with gray hair!
I don't like to look in the mirror anymore!
If aging must occur, it can only be accepted. After all, no one can live for a thousand years like that king!
It's a bit cruel for a woman to accept that she is not perfect. Although, I was not perfect, and my gray hair at this time deducted a few points for the first impression of my appearance.
In this society, I hope that we women can fight in all directions when we go home, and when we go home, we can help our mothers and children with filial piety, we can calm down family "rebellions", and we can appease the "princes" in various places. In the past, the traditional idea of "marrying a man, marrying a man, dressing and eating!" that women were looking forward to has been changed by the new idea that "women can hold up half the sky"!
Women holding up half the sky can also. It's just that children don't have to learn Xi so much, business doesn't have to be so curly and there is no bottom-line competition, and work doesn't have to work overtime to complete, I believe that many people's happiness index will be greatly improved!
Time is like a diligent coachman, driving a horse with four hooves and wind, leading our small family from the spring when everything is recovering to the winter when everything is quiet, tirelessly, and the cycle repeats. And what I am obsessed with is the happiness of the family that was exchanged for that little black hair, which was not easy to come by!
It's the depths of winter, and spring is definitely coming in the near future.
After this harsh winter, children will usher in the spring of growth and development. After all, we will grow old day by day like our parents, whether we accept it or not! As long as the children are healthy and safe, everything is worth it!