On the road of life, the most terrible thing is not not not to get, but to have it. This is also the reason why as they grow older and their youth is gone, the more age anxiety of women cannot be stopped.
The vicissitudes of old age replaced the youth in the prime of life, the green hair turned into a silver hair, and the smooth forehead was full of wrinkles overnight...... Who is not anxious about this, but some people have lived an elegant life in aging, such as Ye Qianwen and Fang Shu~
(1) Ye Qianwen: White hair after age that is more amazing than black hair
When she was young, Ye Qianwen was an urban beauty, with fashionable perms, casually tied with two strands of feather hair rope, a proper heroine of the rivers and lakes~
Time flies, and now decades have passed, and the white hair has become Ye Qianwen's new "business card". The slightly curly hair + delicate blue gauze skirt is extremely romantic, and the sparkling appearance on the stage is still the queen who sang "Go Away in Style" at the beginning!
(2) Fang Shu: From "the first beauty in the inland" to "aunt", he is not afraid
Like Ye Qianwen, Fang Shu is also facing aging calmly. Don't look at Fang Shu's dull complexion and wrinkled face now, but who hasn't had a youthful temperament and a flower-like jade?
Fang Shu was the "first beauty in the inland" when she was young, in the face of aging, she chose to age naturally, the appearance is no different from that of an ordinary aunt, her hair is elegant and capable, and her suit is neat and stylish, which is so cool!
>> after watching Ye Qianwen and Fang Shu, I realized that old age anxiety was too unnecessary
From the former "queen of the music world" to a full head of white hair, from the "first beauty in the inland" to the appearance of an aunt with wrinkles on her face, Ye Qianwen and Fang Shu, who were 60+, realized that aging is not a big deal.
Aging is a natural law, and the way for women to interpret beauty is not only young, but also natural aging like Ye Qianwen and Fang Shu, with a calm heart and elegant temperament, which is more beautiful than forcibly pretending to be tender~
Mentality 1: Accept aging, and getting old naturally is cooler than deliberately pretending to be young
When aging comes suddenly, it is normal to have age anxiety, so how do Fang Shu and Ye Qianwen alleviate the anxiety of old age? Everything starts from the heart, and developing a mentality that can calmly face aging is the key.
In the view of Ye Qianwen and Fang Shu, natural aging and conforming to the laws of nature are better than deliberately pretending to be tender. The elderly still have cute bangs and double ponytails and floral skirts, which will only be full of disobedience.
Mentality 2: Don't set limits for yourself, you can have a changeable image when you are old
Most importantly, don't limit yourself just because you're aging. In the inherent impression, most middle-aged and elderly women are permed with aunt rolls, tied colorful silk scarves, and wore elderly clothes, which is really too greasy.
But Ye Qianwen doesn't dress in a conventional way, and at the age of 62, she still perms curly hair, wears a handsome suit, and wears a personalized letter necklace. It seems that as long as you wear it correctly, you can try your favorite fashionable style even when you are old!
Mentality 3: Have the confidence to grow old slowly, and have a sense of relaxation to be more beautiful
And Fang Shu and Ye Qianwen can age naturally, not only because of their calm mentality, but also because they have the confidence to grow old slowly. The years have left not only gray hair and wrinkles on people, but also shining points such as manners, talents, and knowledge.
From Ye Qianwen, Fang Shu, to the elegant grandmother Wu Yanshu, and Dong Qing, who has poetry and books, what is more attractive than their appearance is their temperament and talent, which can become more elegant the older they get~
<白发篇>With the right styling, gray hair is the best fashion item
Tip (1). Add local bright color blocks to gray hair for more stunning contrast
A calm attitude is only one of the reasons why Ye Qianwen and Fang Shu eliminate the anxiety of old age, and by learning from their dress, they can also get the temperament of not being afraid of aging. For example, Ye Qianwen, who is full of white hair, is the styling template of the "silver-haired family"!
Adding local bright color blocks such as red and blue to the gray hair creates a contrast, and the gray hair instantly becomes the best fashion item. But the bright color blocks are too messy, too many of them, and too large an area will make the collocation vulgar~
Secret (2). White hair + slightly curly perm, full of gray hair is still temperamental
Ye Qianwen can turn her gray hair into the best fashion item, and there is a big secret - micro-curly perm. Choose a C-shaped large arc for the hair roots, small curls for the hair ends, and neck length for the hair length, who said that gray hair is not damp?
And a small curly head, wool curls with white hair is a full "grandma head", don't choose. If you want to use bangs to modify your forehead and hairline, don't choose full bangs and thick bangs, use S-shaped bangs and side hair to make it more atmospheric.
Tip (3). Full of gray hair is suitable for exaggerated accessories and clothing
As the saying goes, people rely on clothes and horses rely on saddles, and it is inseparable from suitable clothing and accessories to "change" gray hair. The white hair itself has the meaning of challenging the world's aesthetics, and the exaggerated color scheme is more eye-catching.
Ye Qianwen loves to wear exaggerated earrings such as beaded earrings and large-volume geometric metal earrings, and then wear artist-style clothes that echo the accessories elements and have a gorgeous design, which is simply too romantic!
<皱纹篇>Treat wrinkles in the right way, wrinkles are not scary
Method1.皱纹越明显,越需在面部"做减法"
Even if you are full of wrinkles when you are old, you don't have to be overly anxious, although Fang Shu's face is full of wrinkles when he is old, every wrinkle is stretched and atmospheric, and the overall look is clean and tidy.
This is thanks to her preference for "subtraction" on her face, refusing cumbersome hair curls, flaming red lips, and complicated decorations on her neck, and light makeup + simple hairstyle is the right solution.
Method2.合理护肤多补水,也能弱化老年感
Of course, although wrinkles are irreversible, reasonable skin care and good hydration can also weaken wrinkles to a certain extent. It is recommended to do a deep cleanse on a regular basis and choose a hydrating product that has strong fluidity and absorbs quickly.
Once the skin is dehydrated, it will begin to have fine lines and burst skin, making wrinkles more obvious!
<仪态篇>As long as the demeanor is dignified enough, aging can hardly hide elegance
More often, women's anxiety about old age comes from "not having enough temperament". Poor demeanor + wrinkles, gray hair and other aging characteristics are obvious, which is completely the standard combination of greasy aunts.
Ye Qianwen is gray-haired and full of energy, the key is to have a tall and dignified demeanor. Straighten the spine, open the shoulders back, tighten the core, behave generously and neatly, and be an elegant grandma~
<穿搭篇>Both Ye Qianwen and Fang Shu follow two major rules of dressing:
Rule 1: One of the colors, lines, and styles should be simple
The atmospheric and attractive outfits are also the confidence of Ye Qianwen and Fang Shu to face aging calmly. Whether it is a gorgeous dress on the stage or a low-key plain dress every day, the element of "simplicity" must not be missing.
Like the one on the left, complex perm + cumbersome bright silk scarf, heavy makeup that is easy to appear dirty + fancy full-bottom print, and the complex dress from head to toe is simply greasy! Ensure that the color, line and clothing style are simple on the one hand, and the matching is not redundant.
Rule 2: Reduce the appearance of cheap elements and wear more textured fabrics
Of course, the sense of cheapness will also make the life of middle-aged and elderly people "worse". Fang Shu and Ye Qianwen can accept natural aging, but they will not touch chiffon, lace, acrylic and other elements and fabrics that are easy to produce a sense of cheapness.
When a woman is old, she can wear a plain cashmere sweater, gorgeous fur, a fashionable checkerboard knit sweater, and jewelry full of textured metal and gemstones, but she has to touch less light and wrinkled cheap materials!
Although youth is precious, there is no need to be anxious because youth is no longer there. Looking at Ye Qianwen, who is still shining on the stage with white hair, and Fang Shu, who is full of wrinkles but complacent, will know: temperament is more important than the skin of youth!
The hairstyle is fashionable, the makeup is elegant, the outfit is atmospheric, the demeanor is dignified, and the most important thing is to have a peaceful mind, like Fang Shu and Ye Qianwen, you can face aging calmly, and you will find that old age is not a big deal......