Recently, Xu Ruoxuan decided to give up the custody of her son because of her dedication and consideration for the growth of her children. Since she needs to focus on her career, she worries that she will not be able to give her children enough attention and companionship. At the same time, her ex-husband Li Yunfeng is very caring for her two stepdaughters, which also makes her feel at ease to hand over her son to him to raise.
Xu Ruoxuan and Li Yunfeng's marriage lasted for nine years, and the division of marital property has always attracted much attention. However, Xu Ruoxuan did not disclose the specific division. According to Taiwan media reports, Xu Ruoxuan's decision to give up custody of her son was not because she didn't love her children, but because she needed to work hard to earn money and didn't have enough time to take care of her children.
Considering Li Yunfeng's love and care for his two stepdaughters, Xu Ruoxuan believes that he will also treat his son well. Moreover, Xu Ruoxuan's stepdaughter and son have established a deep relationship, they grow up together and take care of each other. For Xu Ruoxuan, it is a wise choice to hand over the child to her ex-husband to raise, so that the child can not only get enough love, but also grow up with her half-sister.
Xu Ruoxuan's decision sparked a discussion about child custody after the divorce. In real life, many women will fight for custody of their children after divorce, but some people will give up custody for various considerations, like Xu Ruoxuan. Whether you choose to fight for or give up custody, you should fully consider the interests and future development of the child. Xu Ruoxuan, an independent and thoughtful woman, makes an unexpected decision when faced with the issue of raising her son. It may seem puzzling that she gave up custody, but in fact there are her own considerations behind it.
First of all, Xu Ruoxuan understands that Li Yunfeng is a conscientious father, he loves his daughter deeply, and he will not treat his son badly. She trusts her ex-husband's parenting ability and believes that her children will be well taken care of by their father.
Secondly, Xu Ruoxuan hopes that her son can be accompanied by someone when he grows up. The son has a deep relationship with his two half-sisters, and such an environment of growth is extremely beneficial for the son. An only child may face loneliness when growing up, but Li Yunfeng's two daughters bring warmth and companionship to his son.
Moreover, Xu Ruoxuan took into account her current situation. She is busy with her career and does not have enough time and energy to take care of her son. She didn't want her son to grow up without enough love. Therefore, she chose to keep her son with his father and be cared for by his father and sisters.
In the end, Xu Ruoxuan's decision may also have been influenced by her plans for her future life. She is working hard for her career, which requires a lot of time and energy. Even if custody was granted, she would not be able to take care of her son herself. In this way, the son's growth environment may not be as good as that of the father.
To sum up, Xu Ruoxuan's waiver of custody was not a hasty move. She made a deliberate decision based on her deep love for her son. She understands that sometimes letting go is also for the better growth of children. For ordinary women, if they do not have their own careers, they may need to rely on the man's child support, and naturally they dare not give up custody easily. But Xu Ruoxuan has her own uniqueness, she interprets the deep love of a mother in her own way.