Professor Li Meijin said this in the program "Chunni's Weekend Time":
Many families are working hard to train girls in the direction of everyone's ladies. But a beautiful girl, once she marries a hooligan, has no ability to protect herself at all!
I deeply believe that as parents, we can't protect her for the rest of our lives, and the future road has to be on her own.
So I have always believed that it is better to teach her a thorn than to let him be like a sheep.
It turns out that prickly girls are more competitive in their future growth:
First of all: prickly girls have a sense of self-protection. She is able to respond more vigilantly and confidently in the face of potential dangers and difficulties, reducing the likelihood of being harmed. This sense of self-protection helps with my daughter's mental health and safety
Secondly, girls with have stronger self-confidence and independence. Wearing thorns on the body allows girls to cope better with life's challenges and difficulties without giving up or relying on others easily. This self-confidence and independence has helped her grow and develop.
Thirdly, having a thorn on the body can reduce the distress of the victim. If a girl is too "sheep-like", she may develop a victim mentality, believing that she is powerless to change or vulnerable to being controlled and harmed by others. This kind of mentality is not conducive to her daughter's mental health and growth, and it is easy for her to fall into a passive predicament.
Finally, having a tattoo on the body can promote mental toughness. Teaching a girl a thorn can develop her mental toughness. In the face of setbacks and difficulties, she is able to cope with them stronger, learn from them and continue to grow. Resilience is an important quality in personal development that helps girls better cope with challenges in their future lives.
We all know that there is no shortage of malice in this society, so what we can do as parents is to make her a little stronger, a little stronger!
So I often instilled the following 10 sentences in her, intentionally or unintentionally, and I just shared them today:
◆ My dear, life can be a little prickly at times, but that's the opportunity to make us stronger.
◆ Don't be afraid of failure, every setback is to make you more indestructible. ️
◆ Mom believes that you are an independent little lady who can solve your problems by herself
◆ Learn to say no, because knowing that refusal is a way to protect yourself♀️
◆ Don't be afraid to face criticism, that's a way to make you better.
◆ Have your own ideas and don't just go with the flow, because you are a unique little star. ✨
◆ The world is not always fair, but learn to face it with wisdom.
◆ Learn to think independently and don't always listen to other people's opinions.
◆ Baby, you have to be like a little hedgehog, have a strong heart, but also keep warm and kind.
◆ It is important not to give up on something you really like, because that is your unique light.
Finally, I hope that our daughters will be tougher and more resolute in the future, dare to say "no" to things they are not used to, and dare to challenge unknown difficulties~