One day, I was attending a networking event with a few friends. During the event, I noticed a striking lady with a very powerful aura, as if the whole room was lit up.
I couldn't help but walk over and say a few words to her, and found that she was a professional woman with a successful career, a confident smile and sharp words. Our conversation quickly became more and more speculative, and she was not only well-informed, but also comfortable discussing a variety of topics.
In a conversation, she revealed her unique insight into human nature, she said: "To see a person clearly, it is more accurate than physiognomy to eat." When a person eats, they will show their true side, whether it is the attitude towards food or the way they eat with others, it can reflect their character and behavior. ”
This remark piqued my interest and I couldn't wait to ask her to share more. She smiled and began to tell a story of her own.
"Once, I had lunch with a potential partner. I was slightly upset by his attitude towards the waiter when ordering, but I chose to continue. When the food was served, he feasted on it without being polite at all, and he didn't notice the people around him. This scene made a big impression of him, and in the end we couldn't work together. ”
She added: "And really powerful women, they not only have achievements in their careers, but also know how to get along with people. They not only pay attention to their own manners when eating, but also care about the feelings of the people around them. They know how to share, they know how to listen, and they know how to be graceful in interpersonal interactions. ”
I was so impressed by her insights that we participated in several group activities together. In the event, she behaved with ease, both insisting on her own point of view and skillfully resolving conflicts, giving people a sense of both firmness and empathy.
After the event, I couldn't help but praise her: "She is really an admirable woman, and your insight and cultivation are admirable." ”
She responded with a smile: "In modern society, a woman must be really powerful, not only focus on her own career, but also know how to communicate with others and know how to care about the people around her." Such a woman is the real strong. ”