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The hot search of the recently popular "Queen of Chinese Sex Toys" is very interesting.
Her story exploded on Weibo, and even a number of big Vs, including the CEO of Weibo, reposted her video, which caused a lot of netizens to exclaim and praise.
What do you think a 66-year-old lady would look like?
You may have in mind a kind grandmother who teases her grandson, a spiritual old lady who dances a square dance, or an old-fashioned and stubborn old man.
But if I say that there is such a 66-year-old lady from Northeast China, who is a world-renowned "Queen of Chinese Sex Toys", will your jaw drop?
The picture is from a piece
Her name is Lisa, she is from the Northeast, and she is a full-fledged sex toy designer.
In 2015, the world-famous movie "Fifty Shades of Grey" appeared in various sex props, all of which came from her handwriting.
Lisa took a photo with the original author of the novel "Fifty Shades of Grey", source: one
Many people can't imagine that a 66-year-old lady can set foot in a "gray field" that only young people seem to understand, and even become a hot search on Weibo.
In fact, Lisa, who was born in Tohoku, has been working in a hospital since graduating from school.
Getting married, having children, working in a hospital, and living a good life of husband and children, she also thought that her life was the life of most ordinary housewives.
However, by chance, she was called to help in a sex toy factory.
There, she met a sex toy designer who had returned from studying abroad, and the gears of fate began to turn anew.
She immediately became interested in this job, pestering other designers, wanting to learn Xi from him.
At first, the master refused to teach, so she brought apples to others, helped with cooking, and grinded hard until she succeeded.
As a middle-aged woman, quit her job in the hospital in the eyes of others as an "iron rice bowl" and changed her career to become a "sex toy designer", is this a big joke?
The family was strongly opposed.
In fact, not only her family, but even she herself has fallen into suspicion:
Is it right or wrong to choose this path for yourself?
Is it a shame in the eyes of the world to do this job?
But she quickly dispelled her doubts, began to face up to people's needs for sex toys, and threw herself into her work.
From the beginning to the present, she has been standing by her beliefs:
Sex toys, it's not violent, it's not dirty, it's just an expression and release of love.
She goes to bed at twelve o'clock every day, gets up at five o'clock, and is always the first to rush to the factory.
Even when she was hospitalized with diabetes and high blood pressure, she had to design from her hospital bed or direct it remotely.
Soon, her straightforward and straightforward personality and meticulous approach to her work brought her a flood of orders.
In the past, there were only 8 or 9 people in the small factory, under her leadership the scale is getting bigger and bigger, often going abroad to participate in exhibitions, and her brand has also become a "golden signboard" in the industry.
The 66-year-old Northeast grandmother and the queen of sex toy design, two identities that seemed to be incompatible, but they overlapped in her.
Many netizens are exclaiming:
"It was actually designed by a Chinese grandmother, and your grandma is still your grandmother. ”
"I never expected it to be Chinese. ”
However, what impressed me the most was the one that stood out to me the most upvoted comment:
Compared with those who "talk about erotic changes", or "pretend to be a criminal" who knows a little about the skin and disrespects their partners, this 66-year-old lady has a more avant-garde and free and easy point of view.
That alone is amazing enough.
We almost never imagined that there would be such a brave, free and maverick soul in the group of middle-aged and elderly women who are not followed by us and who are almost speechless on the Internet.
They can not be defined and compromised by simple and crude "labels", they stick to the cause or hobby they love, and live a brilliant and enthusiastic life.
No matter what age she is, once a woman's inner seed begins to awaken, the energy and magnetic field emitted are unimaginable.
After Lisa's grandmother became popular, a netizen said:
"The Chinese lady is famous in North America, a big gold chain, a big leather whip. ”
The latter refers to Grandma Lisa, while the former refers to another "legendary old woman" - Eva Sam, a Chinese granny who is regarded as the "godmother" by countless American hip-hop singers.
She was born in Guangdong, and like most women of that era, she has always lived a life of husband and children, without any waves.
Immigrating to the United States did not make any changes in her life, she dragged her children without a job, and could only temporarily live in her mother's house for 6 months.
The twist of fate came one morning, when she suddenly looked at herself in the mirror as she washed—a haggard, unkempt woman.
At that moment, there seemed to be something in her mind, and she suddenly woke up, and she realized that she could no longer go on like this.
At that time, hip-hop culture was budding in the United States, so Eva Sam immediately invested a lot of money and put a bet on her own well-established life.
As it turned out, she was right.
With her unique skill, the "big gold chain" she designed swept the United States like a tide.
Until now, countless superstars in the American rap industry, including "Wu-Tang Clan", Drake, and Beyoncé, have regarded her small shop and design as a guideline.
It's not just Lisa and Eva, I've been pleasantly surprised by what I've found over the years:
More and more middle-aged and elderly women, they have the courage to break free from the shackles of "husband and child, husband and wife", and re-open the door that calls me self, and the power and charm they exude are fascinating.
For example, Aunt Su Min, who left her lazy husband at the age of 56 and drove a car to "run away" around the country.
Now that she is divorced, she has endorsed luxury, appeared in the New York Times, and has become a well-known travel vlog.
For example, the cleaning aunt in Xinhua County, Hunan Province, who cleans the toilet during the day and immerses herself in her painting world at night.
Her smart and interesting brushes have also conquered countless people, and she has handed over another answer to life in the strange eyes of others.
In the eyes of many people, a woman should play the role of a wife and a mother.
They should work hard from a flower-like girl to a white-haired old lady, dedicate their lives to the family without regrets, and must not have any "out-of-the-ordinary" thoughts or dreams.
Because that's how all women have been for a long time, it's only natural that you should do the same.
However, few people ask them if you want this kind of life, and if you are willing to accept it.
However, what I want to say is:
Women are willing to sacrifice their lives and dreams for the sake of their families and for the sake of the world's eyes, that is their choice, not their obligation.
Their lives should not be limited by age and gender, and they never need to be defined by others.
They can be "sex queens", rapper godmothers, travel bloggers, soul painters, fitness experts, and popping drummers......
These women who are out of the circle have all broken people's stereotypes of women's middle-aged and elderly life, and have their own love and pursuit.
In them, we see that a woman, no matter how old she is, can live freely on her own.
A hundred years ago, Coco Chanel, the founder of the Chanel brand, said to all women:
"You can't afford to wear Chanel, you don't have many clothes to choose from, but never forget the most important piece of clothing, which is called self. ”
Each of us comes to this world to complete our "self".
So, no matter how despised by others, no matter how difficult the reality is, you should always put yourself on top, affirm yourself, believe in yourself, and always love yourself.
It doesn't matter if you're in your twenties or thirties, or fifty or sixty, you don't have to give up on growing up, but you have to seize every opportunity.
Build a strong spiritual core for yourself and strive to become a better person.