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A North Korean girl married a Chinese post-90s guy, no bride price, no house, just a ton of rice. After seeing the girl's appearance, words and deeds, netizens said: I am willing to pay 100 tons of rice to marry such a woman.
Oh, this news really opened my eyes! We have an old Chinese saying, "scarce things are precious," and it seems that this North Korean girl knows this very well. She doesn't want a bride price, she doesn't want a house, just a ton of rice, which really subverts the traditional concept of marriage. Think about how many young people are now burdened with heavy financial pressure in order to get married, but this girl has done the opposite, which is really admirable for her courage and unique vision.
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The highlight of this news is not only the girl's request, but also those enthusiastic netizens. They all expressed their willingness to pay 100 tons of rice to marry this girl, which is not a small amount. It seems that either these netizens are really rich, or they are moved by the simplicity and sincerity of the girl. However, this also reflects the openness and tolerance of our society towards marriage, and people have begun to pay more attention to personal feelings and choices, rather than blindly pursuing material conditions.
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At this point, I can't help but ask the question: If this girl asked not for a ton of rice, but a ton of gold, or something more expensive, would everyone still be so enthusiastic? Is it that we sometimes focus too much on material values and neglect the more important things in marriage, such as affection, understanding, and respect?
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This news also reminds me of a point that challenges common sense: in modern society, do we place too much emphasis on material conditions and ignore people's emotional and spiritual pursuits? Should marriage pay more attention to whether two people love each other and whether they can spend their lives together, rather than simply relying on external material conditions such as bride price and house?
When it comes to domestic bride price, it is really a topic that people love and hate. In some areas, especially Jiangxi, the amount of the bride price is simply staggering. Let's first take a look at the bride price situation in Jiangxi, and then compare it with other places to see what the problem of excessive bride price is.
In Jiangxi, the amount of bride price is generally high, and in some places it can even reach hundreds of thousands. This is undoubtedly a huge burden for many ordinary families. Why is the bride price so high in Jiangxi? On the one hand, it may have something to do with the level of local economic development. Although Jiangxi is not particularly wealthy, with the development of the economy, people's living standards have improved, and the amount of bride price has also risen. On the other hand, it may be related to local marriage Xi. In Jiangxi, the bride price is seen as a sign of respect and gratitude from the man to the woman's family, so the larger the amount, the better.
Let's take a look at the rest of the world. For example, in Guangdong, the amount of the bride price is relatively low, and in some places it is even only symbolically given. This is because in Guangdong, people are more practical, believing that marriage is a matter of two people and that money should not be a burden. In some northern regions, the bride price is not low, but it is usually returned with a dowry, so that a balance is formed.
In contrast, we can see that the problem of excessive bride price does not exist everywhere. In fact, the amount of the bride price is often closely related to factors such as the level of local economic development, cultural traditions, and marriage customs and Xi. It is true that an excessively high bride price can put a lot of pressure on young people and even affect their marriage choices. However, we should also realize that different regions have different cultural backgrounds and Xi customs, and cannot be generalized.
The bride price is only one part of the marriage, not the whole story. We should pay more attention to the relationship and future life of the two people, rather than the amount of the bride price. I hope that with the development of society, we can gradually change the phenomenon of excessive bride price and return marriage to its most essential state. Feel free to leave a message in the comment section to share your views and experiences on the issue of excessive bride price. Let's explore how to make marriage better and happier.
Finally, I would like to invite you to discuss with us, what do you think of this news? Do you think this North Korean girl's request is reasonable? Do you think that netizens are willing to pay 100 tons of rice to marry her, is it a bit excessive? Feel free to leave a message in the comment area to express your views and ideas. Let's share and communicate together to find our own way to happiness! After all, marriage is a major event in life, and we all hope to find the right person and walk through life hand in hand.
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