Text: Xia Rong
I am Hubei Yuan married in Anhui countryside, my husband and I met when we were working in Zhejiang, he is a small supervisor in the workshop, I am the team leader, because there is an intersection at work, he also takes care of me, and after a long time, we are together.
However, Hubei is too far away from Anhui, and my parents don't want me to marry far away, so I have always been worried that the two of us will not be able to get together, and I don't want to tell my parents about my relationship with him.
My husband is a delicate man, and after knowing my concerns, he decided to take me to his hometown. The first time I went back to my hometown in the countryside with him, to be honest, I was a little nervous. But the thought of being able to go home with him and see where he grew up filled my heart with anticipation.
We took a six-hour train ride, a change of car, and three jumpers to reach their village. As soon as we arrived at the entrance of the village, I saw a middle-aged woman waiting for us on the side of the road, she was wearing a plain short-sleeved dress with a smile on her face when she saw us.
"Mom, this is the girlfriend I told you about. My husband happily introduced.
"Oh, it's good to come, come in and sit. My mother-in-law greeted me warmly as she took my luggage.
My husband's hometown is similar to mine, both are two-story small buildings with a very simple appearance. My husband said that the conditions of their family were not very good, and it cost about 100,000 yuan to build a house, and there was no money to decorate it too well, so they simply arranged it. I found that although his house was simply furnished, it was spotlessly clean and looked particularly clean and tidy. There are several large landscape paintings hanging on the walls, which are quite beautiful.
"Come, drink water. The mother-in-law brought a cup of warm boiled water, "I heard Wendong say that you don't like to drink sweet drinks, you like to drink flower tea, I don't understand, so I made you rose tea, you can see if you can drink Xi." ”
"Thank you, Auntie. "I took a sip from the glass and found that the water temperature was just right, and the taste had a faint fragrance. Seeing my mother-in-law so careful, at that moment, my heart warmed.
At noon, my father-in-law came back from the field. He wears a shabby overalls and carries a basket of fresh vegetables in his hand. Seeing me, my father-in-law smiled honestly: "I heard Wendong say that you are coming, I have deliberately planted some vegetables during this time, all of which are grown by my own family, without chemical fertilizers and pesticides, and let your aunt make them for you at noon." ”
Before I came, my mother-in-law had prepared chicken, duck and fish, although only the four of us ate, but the meal was full of a large table, and my husband said that he did not eat so much when he came home.
At lunchtime, my in-laws kept putting food on me and asked me to eat more. I found that there were a few stir-fried dishes with bacon in them, and my mother-in-law said that Wendong told her that I like to eat bacon, and she went to the market to buy it, but I don't know if it tastes the same as the bacon in our hometown?
I tasted a few bites and found that although the taste was not as delicious as in my own hometown, my mother-in-law was so attentive and thoughtful, cooked so many meals, and was so attentive, which shows that their family still values me. I'm in a good mood and naturally eat with relish.
After the meal, my mother-in-law took my hand and began to talk about family life, most of them are a few people in my family, how are my parents? Are you usually tired from work? If you are tired, let Wendong help me share some of it.
We came back once and stayed at home for a few days.
Every morning, my mother-in-law would get up early to make breakfast, my husband liked to drink noodles, I liked to eat cakes, my mother-in-law would make two breakfasts, she was worried that I would not be used to eating Xi, and she would ask my father-in-law to go to the street to buy some and come back early. I lived at my husband's house for 3 days, I didn't do housework, and my mother-in-law didn't count me, she said that I usually work very hard, and I should relax more when I finally rest.
To be honest, my in-laws' attitude towards me added a lot of points to my husband, and I went home to tell my parents about this experience, and my parents agreed to our marriage.
Half a year before I got married, my father-in-law had an illness and spent more than 20,000 yuan, so the bride price was reduced from 60,000 to 40,000. But my in-laws always feel sorry for me, and they have been making up for me since marriage.
My husband and I work in other places, we both rent a house, we are usually busy with work, we call home, and only go home for a period of time during the Chinese New Year. But every time I go home, no matter how late it is, my in-laws will prepare hot water for me to take a comfortable hot bath. Our room will be cleaned in advance, the four-piece set on the bed is washed and changed, and the quilt is also sun-dried and very warm.
When I went back to my own home, my parents probably didn't care so much about me. Because my in-laws are good to me, I also do some housework and help them with some small favors. My in-laws were so happy, they praised me for my filial piety and ability, and I listened to the beautiful ones.
A few years ago, the child was three years old, and I wanted the child to study in the city, and my husband and I planned to buy a house in the county seat. But we still have some money in our hands, and after my in-laws found out, they helped others pick chili peppers every day, and there were more than 300 yuan a day, but they were very tired and their hands were swollen.
They picked it up for more than two months, took out some savings, and scraped together 50,000 yuan for me. 50,000 yuan may not seem like much, but for me, it is a heavy heart.
Now, we have bought a house in the city and life is getting better and better. I invited my in-laws to live in the city, but they always said that they Xi were not used to living in the city, and that they would only come to the city for one night if they missed their grandchildren. When I came, I would bring a lot of home-grown vegetables, as well as chicken and duck that my mother-in-law had made for me in advance.
My mother-in-law has a heart condition, and she will pant for breath when she walks for a long time, and most of the time her father-in-law comes alone on weekends with things. Because on weekends he can play with his children and take them out to buy clothes and shoes. I didn't want my father-in-law to spend money, and my father-in-law couldn't help it, so I had to tell my son not to choose the expensive one.
On the morning before the New Year's Day holiday, my father-in-law sent five catties of sausages early in the morning. The father-in-law explained that the mother-in-law had prepared ten catties of sausages, and the other five catties were a little too salty, so she only brought these five catties. My mother-in-law knew that I liked to eat it, so she asked him to bring it.
It was freezing outside that day, and my father-in-law was freezing red with his hands. I quickly let him into the house to warm up, poured him a cup of tea, and cut a plate of fruit.
There was a bus from my hometown to the county seat at half past five in the morning, and when I saw my father-in-law yawning twice, I knew that he had gotten up early in the morning. I told him that he didn't have to run back and forth all the time, he was too tired, and if I wanted to eat, I would go home and get it. My father-in-law explained with a smile: You have to go to work and take care of the children, you are too busy, I just run errands, and I can't get tired.
I left my father-in-law at home for dinner, and my father-in-law hurriedly waved his hand, he wanted to catch the car back at nine o'clock, and there was still work to be done at home, and he didn't worry about his mother-in-law being at home alone. I had to drive my father-in-law to the station, and he insisted on taking the bus by himself.
After my father-in-law left, I cleaned up the house briefly, and when I went to the kitchen to tidy up the sausages, I opened the black plastic bag and saw a blue cloth bag inside. I opened the bag and was dumbfounded.
There was a stack of cash in it, and I counted it, and there were 2,000 dollars. Then I understood why my father-in-law was in a hurry to go back, and he knew that I wouldn't ask for the money he gave me, so he hurried home so that I didn't have to pay it back to him.
I couldn't help but redden, and when I rode out, my father-in-law was already on the bus. I had to call my husband and ask him to take leave on New Year's Day, and we would go back to our hometown together.
After the New Year's Day holiday, our family of three stayed at home for two days, and my in-laws happily couldn't close their mouths, and they were all full of energy when cooking. That day, I took my in-laws to the market to buy a dress for each of them, but my in-laws refused to ask for it, and my husband persuaded them for a while before they agreed.
When I left my hometown, I left 5,000 yuan under my pillow for my mother-in-law, so that they could buy whatever they wanted to eat and not be reluctant to spend it. My husband said that I lost money, my in-laws gave me 2000, and I posted 3000 upside down, but I was happy in my heart. People get along with others, the most important thing is to compare the heart with the heart, my in-laws treat me well, I naturally want to repay this kindness, there are contacts, family and everything is prosperous!
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