Zhu Dan was born in an ordinary family in 1981, and although his life was poor since he was a child, he was also full of smiling faces. She has a lively and cheerful personality and longs for a complete and harmonious home when she grows up.
Zhu Dan's first love happened at the home of his parents' colleagues. The boy was her childhood friend from childhood to adulthood, and the two were often joked about as a couple by the adults around them.
As they grew older, they slowly developed love from their initial pure friendship. When he was in college, Zhu Dan finally confirmed his relationship with the boy. That period of campus time was very sweet and beautiful, but perhaps because of their youth, the friendship between the two was still the mainstay.
So this first love didn't come to fruition, and they still became ordinary friends after graduating from college.
The first marriage began when Zhu Dan first entered society. After graduating from university in 2002, she joined a local TV station as a Xi reporter. At work, Zhu Dan met the cameraman Lin Han.
The two are not only newcomers to the TV station, but also happen to be alumni of the university. So after getting acquainted with each other, they gradually developed into lovers. In 2005, when Zhu Dan's career was at the beginning, she and Lin Han received a marriage certificate at the instigation of a friend and began their married life.
However, the good times did not last long, and two years later, this "flash marriage" ended in a "flash divorce". Zhu Dan later said that the rapid rise of her career brought great pressure to Lin Han, and there was also disharmony in the lives of the two, and finally this youthful and vigorous love broke down.
The first marriage ended hastily, but Zhu Dan's yearning for true love and a happy family has never changed.
In 2013, Zhu Dan starred in the action movie "Embroidered Spring Knife". In order to play the role of playing, she trains hard every day. One day after training late at night, Zhu Dan still couldn't meet the director's requirements, and ran to the side to cry bitterly after an emotional breakdown.
At this time, he happened to be seen by the male lead Zhou Wei. On weekdays, Zhu Dan works very hard in the crew, and Zhou Yiwei has also seen her not simple. At this time, seeing her extremely fragile side, the urge to protect Zhou Zhouwei rose in his heart.
He took the initiative to comfort her and invited her to supper, which successfully made Zhu Dan laugh.
Since then, Zhou Yiwei will take the initiative to care about Zhu Dan, and the relationship between the two has become closer. After work, he would invite her to go to the movies, eat, and take a walk, and Zhu Dan happily accepted.
Once when the two were watching a movie, the sleepy Zhu Dan fell asleep unconsciously, and her head rested on Zhou Zhouwei's shoulder. Zhou Zhouwei naturally held her head in his arms, and Zhu Dan felt his warm embrace, and his heartbeat couldn't help but accelerate...... Since that day, the feelings between them have quietly sprouted.
Soon after, the relationship between the two was exposed by the media, and they also took the opportunity to make their relationship public. After 4 years of dating, in 2017, Zhu Dan entered the marriage hall for the third time and officially married Zhou Yiwei.
After that, they welcomed two children one after another, and Zhu Dan finally realized the wish of being a wife and a mother.
The reason why Zhu Dan unconditionally worships her current husband Zhou Yiwei is mainly due to the influence of her mother. Her mother married an excellent and handsome biological father despite the opposition of her family for love.
It's a pity that the good times didn't last long, his biological father died of illness, his mother was widowed with a baby, and she was also burdened with huge debts. In order to make a living, her mother took Zhu Dan to the city to work and make a living.
In the factory, my mother met a widowed colleague with a gentle personality, and the two had similar experiences, and soon came together to form a new family. Although this stepfather is in average condition, he is very good to his wife and Zhu Dan.
His mother openly expressed her admiration and love for him, which left a deep impression on her daughter Zhu Dan.
Zhu Dan witnessed her mother's attitude towards her two husbands since she was a child, and she slowly developed the Xi of playing a vulnerable woman in front of successful men. I like the feeling of being protected and cared for by a "big man".
Her current husband, Zhou Yiwei, not only has a successful career, but also reached out to help when she was down. This is exactly what Zhu Dan wants, and she is willing to play a fragile girl who needs to be cared for.
And Zhou Zhouwei also prefers this type of woman. Therefore, Zhu Dan will unconditionally obey and praise her husband, which is her willing choice.
Although in the eyes of outsiders, Zhu Dan made concessions to her husband everywhere in this sister-brother marriage, showing some "humility". But as it turned out, their relationship is still stable to this day, having spent 5 years of marriage.
Among them, Zhu Dan also gave a lot of understanding and tolerance. For example, in the face of Zhou Zhouwei's intimate behavior with a female assistant, she chose to believe that her husband did not cross the line. For example, if Zhou Zhouwei openly ignores her, she will also defend him.
It can be seen that Zhu Dan sincerely believes in this marriage and is willing to pay for it.
Now that they have two lovely children, Zhu Dan will post photos of the family's happy outing on social media. The family of four is living the life of their choice and is doing their best to raise the next generation.
We are not in a position to easily criticize this family, whose marriage can be 100% perfect? As long as both parties have the same mind, even if there are daily stumbles, as long as they enjoy it, this is their happiness.
We should look at the couple of Zhu Dan and Zhou Yiwei with a blessing and enlightened attitude.