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I believe that many friends are very interested in how to get along with their siblings. For no other reason, in today's materialistic society, it is already very good to be able to maintain the friendship between brothers and sisters based on blood relations.
After all, in real life, there are many people who can be desperate for money, and even to the extent of waving a knife at their parents. Although this kind of behavior is unfilial and despised, it still can't stand the posture of people who die for money.
From the perspective of the current cost-of-living pressures, there is nothing wrong with becoming selfish. Because there is a reason for this, and it is not an inherent evil. However, it must not be whitewashed, because the concept of seeing money is wrong and one-sided.
From the stressful life can be glimpsed that people's thirst for money is beyond the abnormal, but it is definitely not to exonerate it. After all, no matter what, you can't break through the bottom line of human ethics and morality for the sake of money, and treat your parents like this. The same is true for your siblings.
However, there are often many friends who do not know how to get along with their siblings, and because of this, they feel very troubled. In fact, as long as you grasp the nature of sibling relationship, you can generalize. No more blindly following the trend and falling into partying, shopping and eating.
So what is the nature of sibling relationships? The answer is parents and their attitudes towards their children. When parents are present, siblings have a foothold and a foothold, and parents must maintain unity and friendship with their children.
Putting parents at the core
In fact, if the relationship between brothers and sisters wants to get along very well and get along, it is necessary to trace the roots and find the source of its formation. We all know that the reproduction and inheritance of human beings is sexual reproduction, so the source of this is the blood inheritance of the parental relationship.
In other words, without the union between parents and parents, there would be no many children and children would not be called brothers and sisters of each other. Therefore, if you want to get along well with each other and not get tired, it is natural that you need to communicate and interact around your parents.
After all, parents are the essence and core of the sibling relationship. Therefore, in daily life, we can see that most of the siblings of those who only talk about their parents are not compatible, because no one is a fool and will not be used in vain.
On the other hand, those who rarely talk about it and act very frequently also have a very good relationship with their siblings. When it comes to taking care of the elderly, you can rest assured that no matter which family you live in or which family will take care of you.
It is worth mentioning that other forms of external interaction in daily life, such as eating, partying, and shopping, are not suitable for people who are related by blood. Because these processes are used to get to know and develop friends. In short, they are not outsiders.
Don't fight for profit
Some friends may have a certain misconception: for example, the relationship between siblings must be implemented. Actually, it is not, because the degree of one-sidedness of this view is very prominent. It's already a thing of the past and a clichéd way of dealing with it.
In the era when modern network technology is so developed, the convenience of real life has greatly improved. What this means is that it's very easy to get along with people and put them into practice, let alone our own brothers and sisters?
It is necessary to reverse the wrong ideas in the way of thinking, so as to know what kind of way to get along with each other is the most suitable. Of course, it is also very easy to change the focus of this thinking, that is, the conflict of interests. In the legal texts relating to inheritance, siblings are in the same order.
That is, they are all heirs in the second order. What does that mean? The legal meaning is that siblings are equal in relation to each other, and their status before their parents is also equal to each other. This reflects from the side that the key to solving the problem is the conflict of interests.
If there is always fairness in the competition of interests, then the relationship between brothers and sisters will not be said to be fair, and if someone can be humble to each other in the face of competing interests, then the relationship between brothers and sisters will only get better and better.
What is the attitude of the parents
In the colloquial culture, we can often hear such a sentence called: the upper beam is not right, the lower beam is crooked. The meaning of this sentence must be very clear to many friends: that is, it is natural for parents to play the role of role models and humans to imitate each other.
The latter does not say much; Because the attitude of parents towards the children determines how well these children get along with each other. If parents favor only one child, then the relationship with that child will not be very good.
There may even be cases where other siblings in the family see them as strangers. On the contrary, everyone is in a harmonious atmosphere of unity and friendship, and needless to say, brothers and sisters will also be humble and empathetic to each other.
If the parents are spoiling on one child, the other siblings are fine enough to bring it up. If the parents do not change, then the bitter fruit will definitely be eaten by the parents themselves, and the others do not have to worry about it at all.
To sum up, if you want to do a good job in the relationship between siblings, then the first starting point should be on your parents, and then you should be generous and tolerant and not fight for interests. Finally, we should try our best to play a certain role and form an atmosphere of friendship and unity.
Only in this way will the relationship between brothers and sisters get better and better, and they will get closer and closer. Otherwise, it may become more and more fierce and eventually become an enemy. And such a result is certainly not good.
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