Preface
In 1990, she was diagnosed with brittle bone disease, and her height stopped at 68 centimeters, and now this seemingly unfair restriction of fate has produced an eye-popping miracle 23 years later - she actually married a handsome guy with a height of 1.68 meters! What kind of moving story is this, what power made her transcend the shackles of height and usher in the happiness of marriage?
In 1990, Jin Qingqing was diagnosed with brittle bone disease, a moment that changed her life
Five-year-old Jin Qingqing, like all little girls, was full of energy, infinite curiosity and imagination. She likes to bounce around the house in beautiful dresses and play games in the sun with her friends. However, one early morning, when her mother saw the lively little girl staggering more and more as she walked, frequently falling and getting injured, a huge uneasiness welled up deep inside.
Over the next few months, Jin Qingqing's falls became more frequent, her petite body covered in bruises and wounds, and her smile faded behind a mask of pain. Jin's mother and her daughter were full of hope to seek medical treatment in major hospitals, but doctors at a major hospital in Nanjing finally gave an unacceptable and cruel diagnosis - brittle bone disease. This rare disease causes a severe lack of collagen in Jin Qingqing's body, resulting in brittle bones that cannot withstand the stress and bumps of normal children's activities.
"This means that Jin Qingqing needs to live carefully, and any fall may cause a fracture." The doctor's words pierced Kim's mother's heart. She hugged her daughter's thin body tightly, tears rolling down her face. And the little Jin Qingqing didn't understand the cruel life she was going to face, she just looked at her mother's sad appearance suspiciously, and muttered in a childish voice that she wanted a cream bun.
Since then, fractures and severe pain have filled Jin Qingqing's otherwise colorful childhood. She can't run and play like other children, for fear that one of them will accidentally break her hand or leg bones. The pain of being alienated by her peers and trampled by fate has made her heart more and more fragile. What's even more heart-wrenching is that in the face of his daughter's incurable illness, Jin Qingqing's father chose to leave, leaving her and her mother to rely on each other.
However, Kim's mother didn't give up. She is a folk singer herself, and she teaches Jin Qingqing in her own unique way - using music and maternal love to give her the strength to live. Mother Kim would hold her emaciated daughter and sing a folk song softly for her, and the gentle and melodious tone dissolved the turbulent waves in her heart. Jin Qingqing will listen to her mother's singing with bright eyes, and feel the tree of life swaying in the wind and rain.
At the age of 11, Jin Qingqing performed on stage for the first time and sang about his love for life
So, when she was 11 years old, Jin Qingqing mustered all her courage and decided to take the stage to show her musical talent and also launch a rebellion against fate. It was a school gala, accompanied by the dazzling and gorgeous lights, Jin Qingqing slowly pushed her wheelchair to the center of the stage, facing the noisy crowd and dazzling light, she was so nervous that her whole body trembled, but she still took a deep breath and sang the famous inspirational ballad with a childish voice - "Let's Swing the Sculls".
"Let's swing the oars, boat, let's move forward......" Jin Qingqing's singing voice was clear and ethereal, and at first glance it sounded extremely thin, but it revealed a faint sadness. The crowd noticed her slightly trembling hands and unsteady sitting posture, and the song became deep and poignant. For a while, the audience was silent, which made Jin Qingqing afraid that his performance was too bad. However, when she sang the climax of the song, her loud singing voice was full of love and hope for life, infecting the hearts of everyone in the audience.
When the singing ended, the applause and cheers rose higher and higher. Jin Qingqing burst into tears with excitement. This is not only an affirmation of her musical talent, but also a moment of redemption for her hard-working soul! From that moment on, she firmly believed that no matter what her body was, as long as she had a dream in her heart, she could live a wonderful life in her own way.
At the age of 14, the adolescent Jin Qingqing began to face the pain caused by the difference in her body
Dreams and hard work have become the driving force for Jin Qingqing to persevere. But the merciless tricks of fate have crushed this brave soul again and again. When puberty came, Jin Qingqing seemed particularly lonely and helpless. At the age of 14, the difference between her and ordinary children was even more pronounced - her classmates began to compare their height and appearance with each other, and they often made prickly jokes about her body shape and appearance at recess parties. And Jin Qingqing's young feet have never been able to step into their world.
Those curious, sympathetic, and even disdainful glances made the already fragile Jin Qingqing feel cold. She would hide under the covers in the dead of night and cry, asking herself why she was born so different, and she had the same beautiful vision as all girls, but she could only curl up in the dark and be ridiculed. Mother Jin will also accompany her, and use her lifelong experience to warn her daughter to learn to be strong.
But Jin Qingqing did not give up on himself because of this. She realizes that while she is physically different, it doesn't mean that she is anything less than others. So she began to prove it in her own way - she participated in the school's talent show and bravely touched all the audience with her singing; She publishes her stories and words in the school newspaper, conveying a positive energy of perseverance and optimism. Jin Qingqing grew up step by step and learned to accept his unique fate.
At the age of 18, Jin Qingqing founded the Disabled Art Troupe and met Chen Qiang, a hairdresser
At the age of 18, Jin Qingqing resolutely decided to start an art troupe for the disabled. After years of spiritual tempering, she understands the meaning of the stage more - this is a platform to show herself, gain recognition, and realize her self-worth. She wants to use this team to let more ill-fated but talented friends like her take the stage together and make their own voices heard.
However, the road to entrepreneurship was more difficult than she imagined. She and her team faced a shortage of funds, space problems, and prejudice and doubts from all walks of life. This time, Jin Qingqing finally realized that the road to overcoming obstacles will not be smooth because it is for a lofty ideal. However, every time he thinks of the scene of everyone gathering together to sing freely one day in the future, Jin Qingqing rekindles his fighting spirit. When she was at her most depressed, a young man named Chen Qiang appeared.
This seemingly ordinary barber has a warm and kind heart. In his spare time, he always silently helps the art troupe, from carrying luggage to setting up the venue. Chen Qiang also tried his best to send warmth and comfort to Jin Qingqing, and took the initiative to enter her life. Jin Qingqing began to realize that Chen Qiang's appearance made her world no longer so cold.
In 2011, when the art troupe encountered a huge crisis, Chen Qiang gave up everything to help
However, the trick of fate struck again. In 2011, Jin Qingqing's art troupe faced an unprecedented crisis. The problem of the performance venue and the changes in the social environment made it difficult for the troupe to continue to survive, and Jin Qingqing worked day and night to fight the difficulties, trying his best to raise funds. Her hands are covered with calluses of life, and her eyes are getting worse day by day, but she still fights the adversity with hope. At this time, Chen Qiang resolutely gave up his job, joined the art troupe, and faced all difficulties and obstacles side by side with Jin Qingqing.
The relationship forged in a difficult environment is far deeper than the two imagined, and their families have expressed strong opposition to this unimaginable relationship. In the face of many obstacles, Jin Qingqing and Chen Qiang did not flinch. Instead, they work together and gradually win the understanding of their families. When the two made a promise at a simple and warm wedding, everyone at the scene was sincerely pleased with them - they proved that everyone is equal in front of love with practical actions, touched countless people with their stories and songs, and opened a new chapter of life with firm steps.
epilogue
Everyone's fate is full of ups and downs, and Jin Qingqing and Chen Qiang proved in their own way that as long as there is love in their hearts, they can find the strength to overcome all difficulties.