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Give a piece of advice to middle-aged men, don't flirt with married women, you can't afford to play the consequences

author:A song of smoke and rain

When people reach middle age, life is as calm as water, and they often can't help but be tempted by the temptations of the outside world, among them, there is a temptation that is extremely tempting but also extremely dangerous, don't try it easily - that is to flirt with a married woman.

It is said that distance produces beauty, and there is no distance between him and his wife, and beauty gradually disappears, while other people's wives have become the embodiment of beauty because of distance, and everything about her is so charming and intoxicating.

But no matter how beautiful, excellent, or attractive she is, we must also keep a clear head, and don't get close to her easily, or even want to have it.

Give a piece of advice to middle-aged men, don't flirt with married women, you can't afford to play the consequences

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Your identity with her has determined that you can only maintain the relationship of ordinary friends between you, and they all say that you are further unqualified to face such a person, and you are unwilling to take a step back, but even if she is perfect and you are unwilling, you must keep in mind that she has her world, responsibilities and obligations, and you are the same.

You might say, we're just going to have a chat, and we'll be fine.

But ambiguity often starts with an inconspicuous chat, and in the process of sharing each other day after day, you may slowly become emotionally dependent, each other, difficult to part, and then go one step further and want to have each other and have a more intimate relationship.

As everyone knows, all of this is based on the crisis and pain of the two families.

Give a piece of advice to middle-aged men, don't flirt with married women, you can't afford to play the consequences

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When many people take that step, they always have a chance in their hearts, thinking that they can hide this unblessed relationship well with their own ability, and can deal with the problems between three people. But there is no impermeable wall in the world, and paper can't contain fire after all, once your relationship is exposed in front of everyone, the consequences will be unbearable for both of you. At worst, he has a bad reputation and betrays his relatives, and at worst, he is retaliated by the other party's irrational husband using extreme means.

And this is just that you want to taste a different emotional taste, is it worth it?

Give a piece of advice to middle-aged men, don't flirt with married women, you can't afford to play the consequences

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So, please cherish your life and don't make mistakes on the spur of the moment so that life can never be recovered.

We have to have a sense of boundaries with a married woman, keep enough distance, you can look at her from a distance, admire her, but don't have an affair with her, let alone try to have her, because this is actually destroying her.

True love does not have to be possessed, but understood and respected, only in this way can your relationship maintain long-term harmony and stability, and can you win the respect of the other person.