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My name is Xiao Ming, I am 10 years old this year, my parents have been gone for a long time, and it has always been the nanny and aunt who have brought me up.
My happiest time was with my aunt. Although my parents were gone a long time ago, with my aunt there, I never felt lonely or lost. My aunt is like my closest family.
However, after my father's funeral, my aunt carried her luggage and wanted to leave here and leave me.
"Auntie, where are you going? Why are you leaving?" I hugged my aunt's leg tightly, tears welling up in my eyes, "Auntie, don't leave me, okay?"
Auntie squatted down and stroked my head, with tears in her eyes, "Xiao Ming, Auntie doesn't want to leave you, but Auntie's task is complete, it's time to go." Auntie will come back to see you often. ”
I shouted excitedly, "I don't want you to come back to see me only occasionally, I want you to stay with me all the time!"
Auntie sighed, hugged me and said, "Xiao Ming, you have grown up, you should learn to be independent." Auntie can't be with you forever, you have to be strong. ”
My aunt was also in tears, and she gently stroked my hair, just like she used to put me to sleep.
We just hugged each other and cried for a long time. I cried until the end and couldn't speak, so I could only hug my aunt tightly, for fear that she would leave like this.
"Xiao Ming, Auntie doesn't want to leave you either, but Auntie really has to go. Come, get up, Auntie will wipe your tears. Auntie said softly.
I shook my head and hugged her legs: "No, you can't go!
No, you can't go!" I hugged my aunt's leg so hard that my tears couldn't stop flowing.
"Xiao Ming, Auntie knows that you are very sad now, but you have to believe that Auntie is also good for you. "Auntie squatted down and stroked my hair.
"For my own good, then don't leave me!" I choked up.
"Auntie has been taking care of you all these years, you have grown up, it's time to learn to live on your own. It's time for Auntie to go live her own life. ”
"I don't want you to be good for me, I just want you to accompany me! I'm still young, I'll have a hard time without you!" I cried.
Auntie sighed, and her eyes were full of tears: "Xiao Ming, you heard Auntie say, Auntie is also very reluctant, but Auntie really has to go." There's no way around it. We can talk on the phone often in the future, and Auntie will come back to see you often. ”
"No, what's the difference between that and you leaving me? I want you to be with me, every day by my side, as before!" I hugged my aunt so hard that she wanted to break free, but I held it so tightly that she couldn't break free at all.
"Xiao Ming, let go of Auntie, Auntie is really leaving. "Auntie coaxed me with red eyes.
"Don't let it go, unless you promise me not to leave me in the future!" I cried.
My aunt looked at me helplessly, and tears flowed down her eyes. She squatted down, hugged me, and coaxed me softly: "Xiao Ming, you have to be brave, you have grown up, and Auntie believes that you can live independently." We can still keep in touch. ”
"Don't just keep in touch! I want you to stay with me, you can't leave me alone!" I hugged my aunt so hard that she stood up and tried to break away from me, but I hugged me so tightly that she couldn't break away at all.
"Xiao Ming, let go!" Auntie raised her voice, but I still held her tightly.
In the end, my aunt could only bend down, pick me up, turn around and walk out the door. I struggled to get down, but my aunt hugged me tightly.
"Don't! I don't want you to go! Please, don't leave me!" I cried and cried, my hands clutching the door frame.
With red eyes, my aunt vigorously broke my fingers, walked out without saying a word, and closed the door. I threw myself in front of the door, banged the door, and yelled, "Auntie!" But the only thing that answered me was silence.
At this moment, I broke down and fell to my knees and cried bitterly. My aunt, my closest family member, left me like this, leaving me alone in this deserted house. I felt fear and despair like never before.
Just then, there was a sudden knock on the door.
I looked up in horror and looked at the door bewildered.
"Xiao Ming, open the door, it's me. Auntie's gentle voice came from outside the door.
I jumped up in surprise, rushed to the door in three steps and two steps, and opened it with trembling hands.
The aunt stood outside the door with an apologetic smile on her face.
"Auntie!" I threw myself into her arms and began to cry again.
"Xiao Ming, don't cry, Auntie is back. She comforted me softly.
"Why did you come back? Didn't you say you were leaving me?" I asked, sobbing.
"Auntie was soft-hearted just now and was reluctant to leave you. But then my aunt figured it out on the way, no matter what, I can't leave you alone. So the aunt rushed back again. ”
"Then will you stay with me in the future?" I looked up at her.
Auntie nodded, with tears in her eyes: "Yes, Auntie will always be with you in the future and will not leave you again." ”
I was so happy that I put my arms around my aunt's neck, afraid that it was just a sweet dream, and she would disappear as soon as I let go.
"I will take care of you until you are old enough to live independently. At that point, you will understand that some partings are inevitable. Auntie said softly.
I nodded, and although I didn't quite understand what my aunt meant, as long as she didn't leave me for a while, I felt relieved.
I began to understand that the reason why my aunt came back that day was because of her love and sense of responsibility for me. Although I was still young, my aunt wanted me to be independent and not rely on her. I made up my mind to work hard to learn Xi life skills and lighten my aunt's burden.
In the blink of an eye, a few years have passed. I'm fifteen years old and I'm about to start high school. My aunt's hair was much grayer and her face was wrinkled, but the love in her eyes for me never changed.
One night, my aunt suddenly said she wanted to talk to me.
"Xiao Ming, you have grown up, and it is time to plan for your future. My aunt looked at me with love in her eyes.
I was a little nervous, not knowing what she was going to say.
"Auntie wants to tell you that you can live independently. My aunt is also old, and it's time to retire and go back to her hometown. ”
As soon as I heard this, my heart immediately sank: "Auntie, are you saying that you are leaving me?"
"Yes, my aunt wants to go back to her hometown to retire. You've grown up, and it's time for me to go live my own life. Auntie was a little lonely in her eyes.
"No! you said you would always be with me last time!" I said anxiously.
"Xiao Ming, I've been growing up with you for more than ten years, it's time to let Auntie have a good rest. ”
"Then I'll go back to my hometown with you!" I proposed.
The aunt shook her head: "No, it's Auntie's home, you have to have your own life." And, you're about to go to college, so you have to plan for your future. ”
I paced back and forth anxiously. I understood that what my aunt said made sense, but the thought of separating from her made me panic.
"Xiao Ming, believe me, you can live completely independently now. Parting is not easy for us, but it is a necessary process in life. Auntie encouraged.
"I know you're right, but I really can't bear you. You have been my dearest person for so many years. "I couldn't help but cry.
Auntie also had red eyes, and she came over and hugged me: "Auntie can't bear you, but we all have to face the new stage of life bravely." I will always care about you, and you can call me if you need anything. ”
"Will you come back to see me when you're gone?"
"Yes, I come to see you every year. And you can come to my hometown to find me during your winter and summer vacations. ”
I nodded, trying to hold back my tears: "I see, Auntie." You're right, it's time for me to be independent. It's just that suddenly there is some Xi and loneliness. ”
"It's okay, it's all normal. Our mother-son family relationship will not change, but there will be less time to see each other in the future. You have to remember that no matter what difficulties you encounter in life, you can call and tell your aunt and I will fully support you. ”
"Thank you, Auntie. Thank you for everything you've done for me all these years. I'll try to live and won't worry you. I hugged her.
In this way, the aunt left here and returned to her hometown to live. I also officially started living independently.
"Auntie, I miss you so much. One night, I called my aunt.
"Xiao Ming, what's wrong with you?" On the other end of the phone, the aunt's concerned voice came.
"It's okay, I just miss you a little bit, and I suddenly feel very lonely. I said.
"My child, it's all normal feeling. You have to Xi used to living alone, which is also a necessary process of growth. Remember, Auntie will support you at all times. ”
"Thank you, Auntie. I'm not so sad to talk to you. ”
"Good boy, you can do it. Live hard and take care of yourself. ”
I hung up the phone, and my heart warmed. My aunt's encouragement gave me strength.
As the days passed, I gradually Xi living alone. Although I still miss my aunt occasionally, knowing that she has always supported me, I can persevere.
During the winter and summer vacations, I went to my aunt's hometown to see her as promised. As soon as I opened the door, my aunt smiled and hugged me: "Xiao Ming is back!"
"Auntie!" I hugged her tightly.
"Come in and sit down, Auntie has made you a lot of delicious food!"
Eating my aunt's handicraft meals, I felt like I was back in my childhood. My aunt chatted with me and told me a few words from time to time, just like when I was a child.
"Auntie, thank you for always caring for me, it's important to me. I said gratefully.
"Child, you are everything to Auntie. Auntie is also very relieved to see that you are healthy and happy. "Auntie's warm smile makes me feel extremely happy.
My aunt and I spent a few more days of warm time. When we left, we hugged reluctantly. "You have to continue to work hard and remember to come back to see your aunt often. She admonished.
"Definitely, Auntie. You have to take care of yourself too, I'll be back soon. ”
Since then, I often go back to my aunt's hometown to see her and share my details with her. My aunt would also ask for warmth and pour endless maternal love into me.
I finally understood that the bonds of family affection do not fade away even if they cross distances. My aunt gave me life and raised me as an adult, and her love will always inspire me to move forward
My aunt gave me life and raised me as an adult, and her love will always inspire me to move forward.
Now I have been working for many years, and I am also married, have children, and have a family. Although my aunt is old, whenever I go back to my hometown, she still hugs me so happily, her eyes are full of pride and joy.
"Xiao Ming has grown up and is already a successful person. "Every time I see me, my aunt sighs like this.
"It's all thanks to your years of nurturing. I said gratefully.
The aunt shook her head and said, "No, all this is the result of your own efforts. Auntie just gave you life, and the later road, you walked out on your own. ”
My success is indeed not accidental, but based on the love and trust that my aunt gave me.
Now I am a father. Whenever I hold my own child, I can't help but think of the scene where my aunt hugged me.
"Auntie, I finally understand how you raised me back then. "Once, I said this to my aunt.
"As a mother, it is my lifelong wish to watch my children grow up healthily. Auntie smiled warmly.
"I will definitely pass on your nurturing grace to me and let my children feel the warmth of home. I said solemnly.
"Good boy, you have become a competent father. Auntie looked at me with satisfaction.
However, my aunt's aging body has shown weakness. I knew that I had to cherish my time with her even more.
During my aunt's illness and hospitalization, I went to the hospital every day to take care of her.
"Xiao Ming, you are so busy with work, you don't have to come to see me every day. Auntie said.
"You're sick in bed, how can I not take care of you. "I held my aunt's old hand.
"Auntie, you will definitely recover! I will always be with you. "I couldn't help but redden.