Liang Xiaosheng said in "The World": "From the moment you are born, what bowl you serve, what you eat, what you experience, and who you marry when are all fixed numbers." Don't be too embarrassed about yourself, just go with the flow, you have already read the script of life in heaven, and the reason why you chose this script is because there is something in this life that you think is worthwhile. ”
As the saying goes, "it is in the people who plan things, and it is in the sky to achieve things", and personal efforts are of course very important, but many times things backfire.
In this case, some people are likely to be unable to bear the pressure and make some extreme behaviors, but some people will be able to catch this wave of setbacks, regain their strength, and fight again in the future.
In fact, the first scenario is obviously unwise, after all, it has already happened, and doing anything that harms you will only make you more and more depressed.
The second situation is very appropriate, after all, failure is the mother of success, and you can't lose the confidence to start over because of a little setback.
As the saying once prevailed on the Internet: "Failure always runs through life", so sometimes it doesn't help to dwell too much on the result.
There aren't that many smooth sailing, not so many overnight successes, most of the time it backfires, maybe just a little bit off, but that's just the way it is.
However, many people can't let go, such as more and more college students now, and the current college students are no longer as high in gold as before.
Many students who have graduated from ordinary universities can only engage in some basic salary jobs after leaving school and entering the society, which is completely inconsistent with the prospect of sitting in an office and getting a high salary in their minds.
Many people begin to give up on themselves, even preferring to stay at home and not work rather than engage in what they consider to be "low-level occupations".
This is also "Kong Yiji who is unwilling to take off his long shirt", but this is actually not good for his own development, and staying at home all the time will only make him more and more anxious.
As the so-called "a section of the road has a section of the road" scenery, you can't choose to avoid it because the scenery of this section of the road is not so good-looking, you know, there is no road in vain in life.
More often than not, people in life need to compromise with themselves, and many things are actually predestined, and they may not be able to change them even if they try their best.
There is a blogger who has put forward the idea that whether people are diligent or not is actually predestined by God, for those who are very diligent.
Even if they are not particularly talented, they tend to have a higher ceiling than those who do not work hard because of their talents.
In other words, diligence is actually a kind of talent, and God's script for life has already been set, and everyone's life trajectory is unique.
Therefore, for some things that cannot be changed, there is no need to keep entangled, after all, "Seong loses his horse, and he doesn't know if he is blessed".
It is possible that these roads ahead are paving the way for the outbreak to come, so many things are just as good as they are, and "twisted melons are not sweet".
And "people have no long-term worries, there must be near-term worries", there will always be all kinds of small things in life that will affect everyone's mood, which is a normal thing.
There are many people who have a lot of distractions in their hearts and want everything, but in the end they don't get much, so they are always in a situation of gaining and losing.
Over time, it is very likely that he will become ill from hard work, Xiao Wu is a young man in his twenties, but Xiao Wu is very scheming, and he has to start from his own interests in everything.
For example, how much money was spent on inviting a friend to dinner today, how much money was spent on the next time a friend invited back, and how much was the cost of the two meals.
If you invite a little less, then you will be very happy, and if you invite a little more, you will make a face to your friends, and you will not have a smile for a few days.
But this kind of life is very tiring, you have to live in calculations all the time, and what you have spent so much effort to get is not necessarily much good for yourself.
On the contrary, keep an indifferent mindset and don't be too greedy, because no one is perfect, and it is impossible to achieve a state beyond ordinary people in all fields.
Therefore, it is better to focus on one thing, do one thing or a few things well, and also need to be gradual, after all, "if you want to hurry, you can't reach it".
In many cases, the more you want to achieve a certain goal, the more you can't achieve it, but when you don't pay too much attention to it, you can achieve the effect you want.
For example, in life, nail clippers can't be found when you want to use them, even if you look through the entire table, but when you sit quietly, you may be able to see the nail clippers hidden behind the glass as soon as you pick up the glass.
Maintaining a calm heart and being calm is the best state, not in a hurry to achieve your goals, but you must persevere, believing that life is the best arrangement.
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