This year, person I is going to be played bad by person E.
The former, as a personality who only wants to be invisible and retreat when he goes out of the house, as long as he encounters the latter, it is like encountering a natural enemy.
Because the latter will really pull the I person out of the crowd.
Let them become the "conspicuous bag" of the spotlight, and bear the unbearable pain of life.
In real life, the submissive I people, even if they are fed up with the tricks of these E people, they don't dare to turn their faces on the spot.
On the Internet, they ran loudly for themselves and howled:
How many times do you have to say that we I people are not toys for you E people!
In fact, if it's just a group of E people together, their fun is to go crazy on an equal footing, focusing on a crazy height and crazy style.
Turning on their crazy switch can be any opportunity, even if the delivery person's stereo is louder, it can trigger their "noise" skill.
But if there is an I person in the E people, then they will be as excited as chicken blood all night, from aimless madness to how to make I people crazy.
Any I person's birthday, as long as it is integrated into an E person, will become a "robbery" day.
Even if it's not a birthday, even if it's just a mediocre resignation day, you can be played by E people.
After watching a lot, some people found that in these tricky videos, a group of E people besieged an I person, purely to bully more and less without martial arts.
The ensuing doubts become-
Couldn't a group of I's subdue an E-person?
The answer is all yes.
Because E people are too crazy to go crazy.
Person I didn't expect to go out with Person E, when they would sing, dance, and sing loudly.
It's okay to be a friend, but it's impossible to prevent it as a couple.
When the boyfriend of the E person has an I girlfriend, the moment when the boy makes the girl feel the social death the most, is most likely the moment when he holds flowers in his hand and confesses in public.
If the situation is reversed, when the E girlfriend has an I boyfriend, what the boy is most afraid of is the girl's sudden nonsense.
In general, this situation will always end with person I holding his head or apologizing repeatedly, and E may give up a little.
Don't think that if there are enough people in I, you can make people learn to be good.
The latter not only will not obediently comply, but on the contrary, it can also affect the former.
Only one of the four girls in our design department was E person, and once four people went out, E person secretly hid a megaphone in his bag and took it out, and chose to suddenly open it in the crowded Sanlitun.
Recalling that day, the victim present stated:
"That scene is equivalent to a shepherd dog herding sheep, and anyone who has experienced it understands it. ”
In public, E people let I people die, and in private social spaces, they will not let go of the opportunity to let I people die.
Especially when the former sees through the latter's mind, it is difficult not to have "bad intentions" and want to play tricks.
"One time I saw my friend want to eat cake but was afraid to say it, so I encouraged her to say it out loud and swallowed it myself."
Some people say that E people rule the earth because the earth is the earth, and I people rule the Internet because the Internet is the Internet.
So back online, will the latter gain control of the space?
No no no。
As we all know, I people enjoy private space, E people enjoy tricks, and Fan Chengcheng can be called a textbook-level demonstration in this regard.
Occasionally, he would call a random person to let him feel what it means to break the boundary.
The alarm bell on the other side of the phone was loud, thinking that something big had happened to him and he needed to play the voice, but Fan Chengcheng just said "I miss you" with a light breeze.
For many E people, I people are simply their disguised charging stations, and the former is very sure that in this friendship, his favor will never be easily snatched away.
For those I people who don't like to talk, don't like to socialize, and hate parties, the E person who invades their world will become their best friend, and unless the next E person enters, there is a high probability that there will be no one else in this gang.
Where is this friendship, this is simply blatant preference.
Although we often play the meme "I person is the electronic pet of person E", in a way, in the process of being "adopted", I person does enjoy it.
People like to be alone does not mean that they are really autistic and can't socialize, and when the atmosphere is in place and someone can really bring them to play, they can also become social offal.
In most cases, all the unreasonable "crazy" behavior will make these people start to scratch their toes and make the same old mistake of embarrassing others.
But everyone is so happy, don't they look at it and their hearts itch?
The greedy I will reveal the crazy nature of his introverted personality on the Internet, "As long as there are more than three people in this kind of situation and invite me in, I will be the wildest one in the team."
Di Lieba in "Flower Silk Road Season", as a typical I-person, looked at a group of mobile phones at him when he took pictures, and began to get needles all over his body, and when he was invited to perform on stage, he couldn't wait to escape to another city by train overnight.
But when the sun is warm, the waves are docile, the atmosphere is friendly and cheerful, and the repeated pull of several E people on the field, I people can also join the army of the show.
Once you put it in, you don't feel embarrassed, and Baba, who was adopted by a group of E people, also danced happily in the end.
We often say that complement each other, and E and I are the best partners to be friends.
In terms of mentality, the former looks at the latter with love.
The former will generally find the latter cute, especially the slightly passive and cramped appearance of the latter when socializing, which will make the former subconsciously want to help or tease each other.
As the saying goes, one mountain cannot tolerate two tigers, just like two strong people are easy to fight together.
Two E people are easy to be robbed when they stay together, and they hurt each other a little.
But I people are different, they will be very patient when they listen to people chatting, and they can fully satisfy E people's strong desire to express.
In fact, for person I, when there is person E, you don't have to think about how to stir up topics all the time, and you can enter the social field that you are not familiar with.
Especially when a group of I people are together, what I know is that everyone is introverted, and what I don't know is that everyone gets together to meditate.
Aiilin of the company still remembers how embarrassed she was when she last attended a big party of her friends.
Playing with mobile phones occupies the vast majority of the moment, and silence is an atmosphere that is hard to break.
"That night, I felt like I was crawling by ants, I wanted to say something to liven up the atmosphere, but I didn't know what to do."
The fragmented chat that day revealed their tacit panic.
The idea of chatting ranges from "take out your phone and see what the weather will be like tomorrow" to observing life as keenly as a writer, "this is a trash can, this is a telephone pole, and there are advertising leaflets on the telephone poles".
And everybody's inner thought is, "I beg you to talk for a while!"
On that night, who couldn't help but speak first, and how to continue the awkward conversation after speaking, became the lightness of life that I person couldn't bear, and desperately called for E person to appear in my heart.
In Aiilin's view, whenever there was an E person that day, she was no longer an E person, but a lifesaver for their gang.
Of course, E-people are not just light balls for a lively atmosphere at a party.
For those I people who hide in their own small world, E people are actually their social tentacles.
Because an E person = gossip captain + encyclopedia + news collector from all over the world.
Noisy but cute, asking is two words: comfortable.
Although everyone jokes that "E people enjoy the private space of I people." ”
But this does not mean that the former is really so eyeless, and when the latter is tired, the former will turn into a good puppy and quietly guard their "doorstep".
For Ella, her favorite thing about being an ENFP is to tell her friends about everything, big or small.
At every turn, he dragged the latter out shopping, singing K and jumping.
But there was one thing she wouldn't drag the latter to do.
"A lot of times she doesn't go out, I can feel what she thinks, but I know she doesn't like it when I go to see the scene, so I never force her."
This is like having a kind of "mind reading", and the premise of E people pulling I people out is to perceive that I people are swaying:
I haven't been out for ten days and half a month, and I have to pull them out to make sure they're still alive.
In addition, E people's friends will never force I people to go to the clock when I people explicitly refuse, which is very measured.
There are always people who doubt the "love" of person E for person I.
Because the former looks like a social flower butterfly, as if there is a bunch of I people in stock or all kinds of pairs.
Under the background of this sense of déjà vu of friends all over the world, I people seem to be less important to E people, and even a bit like dry batteries.
It seems that I people are collecting the aura of heaven and earth, absorbing the essence of the sun and the moon, and E people are like the cat that "steals" outside, and when I people rest, you find that her good thick rice team has grown another layer (of course, E people will say that you are still her favorite treasure).
Ella couldn't laugh or cry in this matter, because her friends always felt that she was socializing everywhere and that she was just an ordinary friend to her.
Until, Ella let the other party see a moment of exhaustion when she was completely out of power.
"She was visibly panicked at first, because she didn't know how to adjust the atmosphere at all, she was so helpless that she didn't know how to comfort me. ”
E-people are not social perpetual motion machines, and there are moments when they need to be alone, rather than being noisy all the time.
Fortunately, I people have their own ways to deal with this situation, they are like cats at home, and they lean towards you when they see that humans are in a bad mood.
They can't speak, but they just hold you, rub you, and sometimes they will show you a belly flip coquettish, and accompany E people in their own way.
Ella spent a moment of utterly powerless exhaustion in the company of I, and she described that afternoon as "a spiritual massage that I have never experienced before".
Of course, the first thing she did after she got well was to immediately "take revenge" and play with the kitten.
Not to mention life, in fact, we can always see in the movie that many classic film and television dramas are Xi to the partner of E and I.
In "Bucket List", the rich man Edward is like a treasure and takes the initiative to adopt the emotionally restrained old Carter in the same ward;
When they stumble upon Carter's "bucket list", they use their power to make those crazy ideas on paper a reality and become close friends with each other.
In "Green Book", Tony is idle, small-mouthed, Tang doesn't speak much, and has a strong sense of proportion, because of his different personalities, the two have had many conflicts along the way;
But in the end, it completes a journey of humanity that transcends race and color, identity and class.
The reason why E and I can become the best partners is that the former learns from the latter how to recognize themselves inward, because the latter has a strong sense of boundaries and will not easily step on the boundaries of others.
The latter can also explore the wider external world through the perspective of the former and enjoy the energy of the former.
Just like in the movie, although all the subordinates are respectful to Don, only Tony treats him as an ordinary person, gives him real respect, teaches him to fight back, and defends his rights, and Tony also realizes how disgusting the racial discrimination that Don has received as a black man and listens to his inner voice.
That's why this kind of ridicule doesn't really offend anyone.
The so-called E and I people will not lose their diversity and freedom because of labeling, but will only become different acceptance between people.
From childhood to adulthood, we were taught to be lively and cheerful, but MBTI let us know that people are different, and everyone accepts and likes people differently.
You don't have to be hit by the words "shoot the first bird" and "why do you love to show so much", because it has a more cute name called "conspicuous bag".
Person E and Person I are not clearly in need of each other, and we don't even care what kind of person the other person is, the important thing is that Ta is the person, Ta is our friend, or lover.
This is the reason why we love watching "Friends" so much, obviously except for Rose, almost all of them are E-people, but we don't divide camps because of their different labels, we just think that each of them is very kind and cute.
就像那句话说的：Welcome to the real world,It sucks,but you’re gonna love It.
The best tonic for E people is I people,
The best tonic for the I person is the E person who loves the I person.