In today's society, we often hear hymns about suffering, which try to inspire people to fight by glorifying the hardships of the past. Surprisingly, however, this way of singing the praises of suffering seems outdated, especially for a new generation of young people. They are no longer moved by such clichés, but pay more attention to the realization of self-worth and the quality of life. So why are young people no longer embracing this PUA-style hymn of suffering?
1. The PUA routine of the hymn to suffering: review history and beautify suffering
In the past, many cultural works and public opinion liked to inspire people to fight by glorifying suffering. They try to tell people that they can only be worthy people if they have gone through hardships and tribulations. This PUA routine did motivate to a certain extent, but as the times changed, it also began to lose its effectiveness.
2. The awakening of young people in the new era: refusing to be defined and pursuing freedom and happiness
Today's young people are more independent and autonomous than the young people of the past. They are no longer content to be simply defined as a "suffering generation" and are seeking freedom, equality, and happiness. They are more focused on personal growth and self-fulfillment, believing that everyone has the right to pursue their dreams and happiness. This change in values is not only a social phenomenon, but also an inevitable result closely linked to the development of the times.
3. Reveal the psychological mechanism of young people's refusal to be PUA: from identity crisis to self-worth awakening
Behind the refusal of young people to be PUA, there is actually a hidden identity crisis. In the past education system and social environment, young people were often expected to conform to a fixed standard. However, with the advent of the information age and the acceleration of globalization, young people are beginning to realize their uniqueness and value. They are no longer content to be simply categorized into one category, but are striving to find their own place and value. This awakening of self-worth is not only a psychological mechanism, but also an important force to promote social progress.
4. Young people's anti-PUA actions: challenging authority and breaking stereotypes
Faced with PUA-style hymns of suffering, young people are taking action to challenge authority and stereotypes. They express their opinions and attitudes in various ways, such as speaking out online, participating in social activities, etc. This anti-PUA action is not just a rebellion, but a quest for freedom and equality. It is only when young people are courageous to express their opinions and attitudes that they can break down the frameworks and limitations that bind them.
5. How to understand and respond to the changing values of young people?
In the face of a shift in young people's values, we cannot simply criticize or resist it. Instead, we should try to understand and respond to this phenomenon. First of all, we need to respect the choices and rights of young people and not try to force a certain set of values. Second, we need to provide them with more opportunities and support to help them achieve their dreams and goals. Finally, we need to have more dialogue and communication with young people to understand their needs and expectations, and jointly promote the progress and development of society.
6. Embrace diversity and create a better future together
The transformation of young people's values is a complex and pluralistic process that cannot be simply summarized or defined. Only when we respect their choices and rights can we truly understand them and create a better future together. So let's embrace diversity, let go of outdated notions and frameworks, and pursue freedom, equality, and happiness with young people!
Finally, I would like to ask our readers: How do you see the change in young people's values, do you see this as a step forward or a step backwards?