The hidden marriage and childbirth were exposed, and Reyiza officially announced: filming with a baby is not happy

It has been a full year since Reyiza won the "Feitian Award".

With the hit drama "Mountains and Seas", she became the first "85 rear view" of the Feitian Award.

In her acceptance speech, she thanked the audience, actors, and staff, and thanked the director for giving her a chance to become a mother actress.

In the drama "Mountains and Seas", Reyiza plays Shui Hua's outstanding personality and sharp edges, which is still the case in real life.

At the time of filming "Mountains and Seas", she was still breastfeeding, and her child had just passed the full moon.

Because he didn't want to lose his role, he took his children into the group to film.

In order to feed her child, Reyiza pumps almost everywhere, in the dressing room, in the car, at the train station.....

Because of a photo of carrying milk at the station, Reyiza strapped a breast pump to his body and held a milk storage tank in his hand.

Someone commented "with bad intentions":

"I want to breastfeed my child again, and I want to make money, and I over-market a good mother's personality, it's not necessary!"

Someone immediately stood up to support Reyiza, and netizens supported her move:

"Just pumping milk is a good mother image, so the conditions for being a good mother are not high. ”

Those who are not used to watching "show" can't see the "sadness" behind their mother!

Carrying milk is not the most difficult, and the serious milk blockage deeply "tortures" Reiza.

When he was about to join the group, Reyiza blocked the milk until he was pus, unable to walk, and unable to sit in the car, but in order to be able to film well, he had to overcome some difficulties that he did not have to overcome.

As a result, the situation deteriorated, and I had to go through surgery and drainage, and a long needle stood in it and slowly withdrew a tube of pus.

Because she was breastfeeding the child, she did not take anesthetic medicine during the whole process.

"Independent woman" became a "strong mother", and Reiza's transformation was only because of the role change given to her by a child.

Unlike the "hot goddess" who walked in the airport and wore a yellow camisole, Reiza, who became a mother, has more warmth and softness.

confessed her daughter on Weibo, which is even more sincere.

"I am your wings, you are my medicine. I will never fall, you strive to grow. ”

In fact, Reyiza's daily breastfeeding is also the daily life of a working mother, but because she is a star, she has been magnified to the people of the whole country.

There are still thousands of working mothers in the world, who are still working and raising babies at the same time.

They were all former girls, and they are now "working mothers".

In China, millions of women become mothers of newborns every year.

In first- and second-tier cities, more than half of them are working mothers.

Once on the Internet, someone raised a question:

"Who do you think is harder, stay-at-home mom or working mom?"

The most praised answer is: It's not easy, but there is no doubt that working mothers work harder.

The reality is that most mothers have to temporarily leave their children behind and are forced to work because of their families.

They are afraid that because of the endless vacation, there will be no place for them in the workplace.

From the moment I decided to go out to work, the pressure of working mothers rushed like a tidal wave.

Everyone applauded the bravery of working mothers, but the real situation is that mothers who return to the workplace are endlessly despised and ignored.

In the hit drama "The Second Hug", the heroine Fang Yuan played by Chen Shu, because she returned to the workplace from a full-time mother, which caused a lot of resonance.

At home, my mother is a super time management master, managing the life of a family of four.

But because of the failure of her husband's business, at the age of 40, she must stand up and enter the long-lost workplace again to support the family economy and tide over the difficulties together.

was once a senior editor of the media, who was blacklisted by the workplace because of his status as a "full-time wife";

The recruiter looks on coldly, and the loss is useless;

In order to keep up with the rhythm, she had no choice but to take her child to work overtime on weekends, but she was almost fired because of her child's negligence.

The "risk of dismissal" is always around her, and she walks on thin ice every day.

Finally, the "layman" stepped into the door and completed the project, and what he ushered in may not be applause, but silently said to himself: fighting for breath.

often said: "I didn't expect a mother to be so great." ”

On the day she returned to the workplace, she got the results, and she proved herself:

"I've been a stay-at-home mom, and there's no more difficult workplace than this!"

As a working mother, the question I've been asked countless times is: How do you balance work and family?

To be honest, is the current public opinion too demanding of women?

If you can go up to the hall and go down to the kitchen, you can be considered an excellent woman.

The rules and regulations that can be restrained by women, why have you ever asked women who have really been mothers?

In the real society, it is long overdue to re-examine the role of women, they should not only be whose wife, whose mother, but also herself.

In the variety show "Mom at Work", there is a mother who benefits from the help of family members and can keep her family and career in order, taking care of both work and family.

"Working mothers, like working fathers, can better balance the relationship as long as they are efficient. ”

You see, for every working person, the companionship and support of family members are important affirmations and strengths.

Society likes to praise mom and call her "superman".

In fact, mothers do not need exaggerated praise, but appropriate understanding and affirmation.

Don't be forced to be strong by labeling, just be yourself.

Each mother's reason for returning to the workplace may be different, whether it is for the sake of a better life for their children, or it may be to realize the value of the workplace.

Many times, being a mother and being yourself are in conflict, and there will indeed be moments of dilemma in life.

Parenting is a practice, raising children, but cultivating mothers.

Will childbirth really only make women in the workplace carry a big mountain on their backs for no reason?

Perhaps the role of motherhood will allow women to see "more possibilities" at work.

In the TV series "Lady's Character", the mother who returned to the workplace had the experience of "childbirth", and when the company had a maternal and child project, she carried the banner and became the person in charge.

Facts have proved that she has been recognized in the workplace with her own ability.

At the end of the day, working mothers don't need to be "balanced", but more need to be "treated fairly".

They can achieve both family and work, and can become "double-faced elites".

Of course, working mothers can be their own armor, and they also hope to be understood by fathers in the new era.

Perhaps the transition from "three meals a day around the pot" to "being alone in the workplace" will make working fathers feel the pressure of parenting, but please learn to understand and respect her around you.

Believe that working mothers are on par with you.

Putting down work is a virtuous helper, and picking up work is a comrade-in-arms who fights with you for your home.

In the future, one day, more people will understand every mother.

As Reyiza said, "I hope that women in the new era will not cry, unless it is tears of happiness." ”