It was when I had an important academic achievement, and I excitedly called home, and my aunt answered the phone, and she excitedly told me that my cousin finally had a partner. I was a little surprised when I heard that my aunt introduced me, because from my aunt's eyes, it was not easy to find the object that my cousin liked. Sure enough, when my cousin saw the boy, she immediately shook her head and said that she didn't like this person. Although the aunt was not very happy, she didn't force it, so she could only start to be busy looking for the next one for her cousin. Afterwards, I talked to my aunt about this matter, and my aunt said helplessly: "It's difficult, my cousin is picky and demanding, I really don't know what to look for." ”
In the blink of an eye, a few days passed, and I was in the school library looking up materials for my thesis. When I walked out of the library, around the corner, I saw my cousin and her best friends quietly talking about something, and looking at them, they seemed to be discussing something very important. "Cousin, what's wrong?" I asked curiously. The cousin shook her head and sighed: "My aunt introduced me to someone again, and I can't look down on it, alas, can't I find the right person in my life?" I patted my cousin on the shoulder and comforted her: "Don't worry, fate has not arrived, and I will always find the right person." ”
Before I could think about it, it didn't take long for me to meet someone at a friend's party, his name was Zhang Jiarui, and he was a friend of my friend. After chatting for a few words, I found him quite interesting, so I took the initiative to ask for his contact information. We often chat together and hit it off. Later, I learned that Zhang Jiarui was the object of my aunt's recent introduction to my cousin. My cousin didn't look down on him at all and felt that he didn't match her values.
So, I became a "leak picker" and came together with Zhang Jiarui. But I knew in my heart that if my cousin knew about this, she would definitely be very unhappy. After all, the aunt introduces the cousin to the object, and everyone still hopes that the cousin can find a satisfactory person. However, when love comes, who can control it? I struggled for a while, and finally I was with Zhang Jiarui.
Some things may be destined to be unpredictable. My cousin and I played together when we were young, and we had a good relationship, but now because of a man, we have such a trouble. I don't know how to face my cousin, let alone how to explain to my aunt, after all, this kind of thing is unavoidable.
Not long after, the news came from home that I had been admitted to a well-known university! I happily called home, and my aunt picked up the phone and was very happy to hear my news. She said that when I came back from vacation, I would have to celebrate. I finished the rest of my studies in good spirits and made the journey home.
Back home, everyone was very happy and the atmosphere of celebration was very strong. But just then, a phone call broke it all. Zhang Jiarui's voice came from the other end of the phone, and he said some sorry words to his aunt on the phone, it turned out that he had broken up with me and had a new girlfriend. I felt like my whole body was broken, how could this be? I sat in the living room without saying a word, tears streaming down my face.
My aunt saw it in her eyes and came over distressed to ask me what was wrong, and I handed her the phone. The aunt took the phone and listened to the content of the call, her brows furrowed. She didn't say anything, just walked out without saying a word. I knew that she was going to find Zhang Jiarui, and just when I was desperate for our relationship, she actually made a big fuss about the matter between me and Zhang Jiarui.
Hearing a fierce quarrel in the living room, I hurried out, only to see my aunt I had never seen before, who was angrily questioning Zhang Jiarui. Zhang Jiarui stood there, embarrassed, explaining something. I broke down emotionally and shouted to my aunt, "Auntie, don't be angry about this kind of thing, it's not a big deal!" But my aunt said to me, "You are too ignorant, this kind of man is not worth your sorrow for him!" I was angered by my aunt's words, I said, "Auntie, this is my business, what does it have to do with you?
After listening to my words, my aunt was even more annoyed, she pointed to my nose and said, "You really don't know what to do, not only don't listen to the advice of adults, but also talk back to me, it's really getting worse and worse!" I was so angry by my aunt's words that I couldn't speak, I felt that the whole world was mad at me, unfair to me, I just felt that the whole person was going to collapse.
When my aunt saw me like this, she didn't say anything, just sighed and said, "Forget it, you are like this now, and it is also a time when you are in love." I won't tell you yet, you calm down yourself. With that, she walked out.
My aunt's words were still echoing in my ears, and I lay on the bed with a heavy heart, and my whole person fell into an endless despair. I don't know how long it took me to realize that I had been crying for a long time. All of this happened to me feeling miserable and helpless, and I felt like I was falling into the abyss and couldn't extricate myself.
In the atmosphere at home that had not subsided for a long time, I fell into confusion and fear about the future. The whole family seems to have been fractured by this incident, will this turmoil turn into a bigger conflict? I have endless worries and uneasiness in my heart......
Next, my relationship with Zhang Jiarui became more complicated by the arguments between my family and my cousin. My aunt and cousin have always had a close relationship, and I have always had a good relationship with my cousin. I was very embarrassed by this sudden situation.
Soon after, my cousin found out about my relationship, and it was with someone she didn't like. She was, of course, very angry and disappointed. At a family dinner, she suddenly lashed out at me and asked me why I was with someone she didn't like. I tried to explain, but she didn't want to listen to me at all, and she went straight to me and said something very hurtful. I feel very guilty and heartbroken, but I can't undo what happened.
My aunt and I also had a strained relationship because of this. She felt that I shouldn't hurt my cousin and shouldn't be with the person she recommended. I could feel my aunt's disappointment and dissatisfaction with me, and I was also conflicted and anxious.
This kind of family conflict makes me feel unbearable. I knew that my relationship with my cousin was irreparably damaged, but I couldn't make a trade-off with my own feelings. This family, once warm and intimate, has now become cold and strange because of my impulse. I feel helpless and sad about this.
In the future, I don't know how to face all this. This family dispute made me feel powerless and painful. After all, each of us wants to be understood and supported by our families, and I feel completely lost and confused in the face of such a situation. I can only wait silently for everything to cool down and dissolve, hoping that the future can give me an answer.
I tried to avoid a conversation with my cousin, but at the next house gathering, my cousin saw my intimacy with Zhang Jiarui, and she stared at me with a grim face. On the side, the aunt also seemed to notice something, and she frowned. I felt heavy and embarrassed, and I was secretly glad that my cousin didn't know that Zhang Jiarui was the object of my aunt's introduction, but I always felt ashamed of my cousin. I know it's a family dispute, but emotional matters are always difficult to face, let alone involve loved ones. Family conflicts and disputes made me feel stressed, and I didn't know what to do.
I decided to be honest with Zhang Jiarui. I confessed to him about my cousin's identity and my aunt's introduction, and I told him that I was troubled and guilty. After Zhang Jiarui listened, he was also silent for a while. Eventually, he patted me on the shoulder and said, "Family matters are indeed very tangled and complicated, but I am serious about our relationship, and I don't want to give up for other reasons." His honesty and reassuring comforted me a little lessened my troubles.
This state of affairs continued for a while, until I got a piece of news that I didn't expect. That day, I was tidying up at home when I received a strange phone call. The other party, who claimed to be my cousin's colleague, told me that my cousin was in an abnormal mood and that her work efficiency had dropped a lot recently. My heart was pounding, and I quickly called my cousin, but I couldn't reach her. I quickly contacted my aunt and we decided to go to my cousin's place of work together.
There, we met our depressed cousin. Her eyes were red, and she didn't show surprise when she saw us coming. After we pressed her, she finally spoke, and it turned out that she was not only angry about my relationship, but also burdened with a lot of work pressure. She had been trying to maintain a strong exterior, but the inside had long since been shattered.
I immediately felt guilty and distressed. My cousin has endured so much in silence, but I have not learned how she really feels. After I apologized and told her my understanding, there seemed to be a relief in the relationship between our sisters. My aunt was also on the side to comfort us.
However, the entanglement of this family relationship has not yet been resolved. Our emotional entanglements and family conflicts made me realize that more time and effort are needed to repair and heal. I hope that with the passage of time, the conflicts in our family can be gradually resolved, and the relationship between sisters can regain their former sincerity and honesty, so that the family can return to harmony.
I know that I love Zhang Jiarui deeply, but I also understand that it is a harm to my cousin. I chose to hide it and try to avoid complicating it all. However, it wasn't long before my wedding preparations began, and my betrayal of my cousin followed. During this time, my cousin became more and more distant from me, and she clearly felt her dissatisfaction and resentment.
I tried to contact my cousin in an attempt to salvage our relationship and tell her about my pain over it all. The cousin just replied coldly, "I know your choice, but I can't accept all this." She turned away without any restraint. My heart was like a knife, and I knew that I had hurt my loved ones.
During this time, the atmosphere in the house became tense, and the cousin's attitude also made everyone anxious. My parents began to notice the problem, they asked, but I could only choose to remain silent, I was anxious and at a loss for what to do with it.
On my wedding day, although my cousin was present, she remained indifferent throughout the whole process, as if she was completely disappointed in me. I looked at her sad eyes and couldn't stand it. At this moment, I was acutely aware of the damage I had caused and the impact this marriage had on the whole family. This wedding did not bring me happy emotions, but rather deep pain.
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