My name is Li Ming and I am a software engineer. 16 years ago, I joined a small software development company after graduating, starting from an ordinary programmer and growing step by step to the core of the company, responsible for important projects and customers. I am so passionate about my job and very loyal to my company that I consider it my second home.
My boss's name is Mr. Zhang, and he is the founder and boss of the company. He was a man of great ability and vision, as well as a man of great courage and determination. I have always respected and appreciated him because he has given me a lot of opportunities and help to achieve something in this industry.
However, he also has some shortcomings that make me very uncomfortable, such as he is a lot suspicious, stingy and domineering, he always doubts the loyalty and ability of employees, he always deprives employees of benefits and rewards, and he always forces employees to do things according to his wishes and methods.
Half a year ago, an incident broke my relationship with him completely. At that time, one of our company's big customers, a well-known Internet company, asked us to develop a new software system for them, and this project was very important and very challenging for our company. As a project manager, I am responsible for communicating with customers, understanding their needs and expectations, and then developing project plans and assigning tasks. In the process, I discovered that the technical director of the customer was my former classmate, and we had studied software development together in Xi university.
We were happy to meet each other and had a great time exchanging skills and experiences.
However, this matter was misunderstood by Mr. Zhang, who believed that I was colluding with the customer's technical director in private, either I wanted to jump ship to the customer, or I wanted to leak our company's confidential information to the customer, thereby damaging our company's interests. Without communicating with me or giving me any chance to explain, he came to me directly, questioned me, and even insulted me, demanding that I leave the company immediately or sue me.
I was very angry and aggrieved at the time, I felt that I had been greatly wronged and treated unfairly, I had a quarrel with Mr. Zhang, trying to make him believe me, but he didn't listen to me at all, he only believed his own thoughts and judgments.
I didn't see any possibility of communicating with him, and there was no point in staying with the company, so I decided to quit my job and leave the place I once considered home.
In fact, during my work, I have accumulated a lot of professional knowledge and network resources, and I have always had a dream of starting an entrepreneur, I want to create my own software company, develop my own products and services, and provide better solutions for more customers. I also have a team of colleagues and friends in the company, they are all very supportive and trusting of me, and they all share the same dreams and ambitions as me. We have been ready to start a business for a long time, but we have never found the right time and opportunity.
Mr. Zhang forced me to resign, but instead gave me an opportunity to quickly set up my own company, use our advantages and experience, develop better products and services, attract customers and partners of the original company, and even some new customers and markets.
Our company has grown very rapidly, in less than half a year, we have received investments, awards, media coverage, etc., our income and living standards have also greatly improved, and our dreams are being realized step by step.
Mr. Zhang later learned about our situation, he regretted it very much, he realized how wrong and stupid his judgment was at the beginning, he lost an excellent employee, but also lost a valuable customer, and his company suffered a lot of losses and impacts. He tried to redeem it, he took the initiative to contact me and asked me to cooperate with him or return to work in his company, he even promised to give me higher treatment and more power, but I refused him, I no longer have any trust and respect for him, and I don't want to have anything to do with him anymore.
When he saw that I was unmoved, he began to be jealous and slander me again, he said that I was an unfaithful and unprofessional person, he said that I was a person who relied on plagiarism and plagiarism, he said that I was a person who was not original and innovative, he said that I was a person who had no future and future. However, his words had no effect, but only made him more ridiculous and pitiful, his company became more and more backward and marginalized, and his reputation became less and less bad and bad.
I am proud and satisfied with my choices and efforts, I feel that I have not wasted my talent and time, and I feel that I have paid the due price and reward for my dreams and happiness. I regret and despise Mr. Zhang's attitude and behavior, I think he is a person who does not know how to cherish and respect talents, I think he is a person who does not know how to change and progress, I think he is a person who is not worthy of being a boss and leader.
I feel full of confidence and expectation for the future prospects, I feel that I still have many opportunities and challenges, I feel that I still have a lot of space and potential, and I feel that I still have a lot of things and value to give to the world.
I would like to say to readers, don't be knocked down by unfair treatment, believe in your own abilities and worth, dare to pursue your dreams and happiness, be wary and guard against those dishonest and unprofessional bosses and companies, they will only drag down your development and growth, they will only deprive you of your rights and interests, they will only waste your time and life. You have to be brave enough to leave them, look for better opportunities and environments, create your own career and brand, show your talent and charisma, and achieve your goals and ideals.
You have to believe that as long as you have a heart, you can .
After 16 years of work, my boss was suspicious and forced me to resign, and I kept a hand, and my boss regretted it after half a year
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You have to believe that as long as you have the heart, you will be able to achieve everything you want, you will be able to be who you want to be, and you will be able to have the life you want. You have to remember that your worth and happiness are not determined and judged by others, but created and enjoyed by yourself. You have to be a person with self-confidence and self-esteem, you have to be a person with principles and bottom lines, and you have to be a person with dreams and actions.
I hope that my story can give you some inspiration and encouragement, so that when you encounter difficulties and setbacks, you can not give up and compromise, but persevere and struggle, so that you can not give in and endure in the face of unfair and unprofessional bosses and companies, but leave and fight back, so that you can not doubt and fear, but believe and be brave when pursuing your dreams and happiness.