Preamble:
A joke can cause a brother to fall apart?
The three brothers of the cross talk family, the eldest brother Ma Zhiming has a straightforward temperament, the second brother Ma Zhen is calm and introverted, and the third brother Ma Zhiliang is enthusiastic and unrestrained.
The three brothers have their own characteristics and are very affectionate.
However, why did Ma Zhiming, the eldest brother of the Ma family, beat his best friend on a whim?
Ma Zhiming: My own "crazy son"
Ma Zhiming was born in 1945, the son of a Ma family, with a strong personality and informal behavior since he was a child.
According to relatives and friends of the Ma family, Ma Zhiming was very naughty when he was a child, and often caused trouble, and was called "crazy son" by the Ma family.
However, this kind of wit also made him extremely fond of theater art from an early age.
At the age of 12, he was admitted to a drama school to learn Xi ugly behavior, specializing in comedy.
When Ma Zhiming first learned ugly behavior, he was often asked to put on makeup to make up all kinds of weird and funny people, which made him extremely disgusted.
He has a proud personality and is not willing to give in.
Therefore, Ma Zhiming gave up his ugly behavior and turned to Xi martial arts.
He practiced martial arts diligently and was strong in martial arts.
But his temper became more and more irritable, and he hated being ordered by others.
This became a stumbling block in his acting career.
In 1977, Ma Zhiming returned to the Tianjin Quyi Troupe, aiming to show his skills on the stage.
Helplessly, most of the artists in the group are old artists and exclude newcomers.
Ma Zhiming had to be in charge of logistics chores, pouring tea and delivering water, and he was extremely sad.
He once eavesdropped on old artists backstage rehearsing cross talk, mimicking their performance moves in front of the mirror.
Ma Zhiming hopes to improve his performance level in this way, so that leaders can see their potential and give themselves a chance.
However, his self-study did not have the desired effect.
When the old artists saw him practicing Xi, they didn't give him a point, they just treated him as an actor and didn't take him seriously.
Ma Zhiming had no choice but to ask Zhao Weizhou, who was also from a drama school, for advice.
At first, the two didn't have much intersection, and Zhao Weizhou only provided some advice.
However, gradually, Ma Zhiming found that Zhao Weizhou was far from being as sloppy and naughty as he thought, and the distance between the two suddenly narrowed.
Three years later, Ma Zhiming finally got his wish to perform on stage with Yang Shaohua.
This was a happy event, but the difficulties in the open and in the dark followed.
It is said that his martial arts scenes are too scary and not suitable for the stage; Some say that he speaks too fast and can't understand; Some people criticized him for always having a playful tone.
All kinds of tricky extremes.
Ma Zhiming has a straight temperament, where can he eat this anger, he has to hold back his heart.
Gradually, he began to distrust everyone, and his temperament became more and more irritable.
Even Zhao Weizhou didn't have time to take care of it, and the two of them had a lot less contact.
Zhao Weizhou: The "talent" who came out of the eyes of the elders
Compared with Ma Zhiming, Zhao Weizhou is 4 years younger than him, born in 1949, and is the son of Zhao Xinmin.
He is gifted and intelligent, and when the elders see him, they all praise him as a "genius".
Zhao Weizhou apprenticed at the age of 2 and became the elder brother of the "Ming" generation.
He has followed his father since he was a child, and he is well-informed and has great creative talent.
Zhao Weizhou also has a nickname "Big Bald", which stems from the fact that he has had a bright head since he was a child.
Zhao Weizhou himself doesn't mind this nickname, he is open-minded and kind to others.
In 1963, Zhao Weizhou was admitted to the student class of the Quyi Troupe and became a brother with Ma Zhiming.
At first, the two didn't have much intersection, until one time Ma Zhiming was arranged to do chores, and he was in an extremely bad mood.
At this time, Zhao Weizhou enlightened Ma Zhiming, and his words were full of empathy and wisdom.
Ma Zhiming realized that Zhao Weizhou was far from being so sloppy and naughty as he thought.
In 1977, the two were classmates again and became closer.
Zhao Weizhou is bold, speaks frankly, and often speaks bluntly in front of his elders and supports Ma Zhiming.
However, the good times did not last long, Ma Zhiming encountered difficulties after taking the stage, and the relationship between the two gradually became cold.
Although Zhao Weizhou is also busy with performances and creations, he is clearly aware that Ma Zhiming is facing a bottleneck period, and his heart is not steady.
Finally one day, Zhao Weizhou took the initiative to talk to Ma Zhiming, hoping to help him get out of the trough.
During the conversation, the two met frankly, and Ma Zhiming confided a lot of thoughts.
Zhao Weizhou has a high level of perceptiveness, he repeatedly thinks about Ma Zhiming's predicament, and gives many pertinent suggestions.
When Ma Zhiming heard Zhao Weizhou's incisive analysis, it was as if he had seen light in the darkness.
Since then, the two have resumed their relationship as close friends.
Ma Zhiming encountered a bottleneck, and Zhao Weizhou stepped forward to help
In 1980, Ma Zhiming finally got his wish on the stage.
At first, the audience responded enthusiastically, but it didn't take long for some viewers to write to Ma Zhiming that Ma Zhiming spoke too fast and couldn't understand it.
The leader of the regiment threw the letter to Ma Zhiming, and his tone was very unkind.
Ma Zhiming was annoyed, and began to feel inferior again.
He felt that he was not the material on the stage after all, and his heart was slumped.
At this time, Zhao Weizhou stepped forward and defended Ma Zhiming in front of the leaders.
Zhao Weizhou said earnestly that Ma Zhiming is a talent, and he cannot be denied because of a small setback.
The leader did not embarrass Ma Zhiming.
Since this incident, Ma Zhiming has been impressed and admired Zhao Weizhou.
Since then, the two have formed an indissoluble bond and become confidants and friends.
Whenever Ma Zhiming encounters a bottleneck, Zhao Weizhou will stand up and encourage and enlighten him.
Later, with the help of Zhao Weizhou, Ma Zhiming gradually found a performance style that suited him, and he also learned to tolerate his shortcomings and shine brightly on the stage.
Many audience members have reported that Ma Zhiming's performance is vivid and engaging.
Once, a veteran audience member approached Ma Zhiming after the performance and praised him earnestly for ten minutes.
Ma Zhiming was so excited that he immediately found Zhao Weizhou to share the good news.
Zhao Weizhou smiled and hugged Ma Zhiming, sincerely happy for his best friend.
A joke, brothers?
In the autumn of 1994, Zhao Weizhou returned to his hometown to visit relatives, and his first stop was Ma's house.
Who knew that Ma Sanli was out and about, and the Ma family only had Ma Zhiming.
After the two exchanged pleasantries, Zhao Weizhou casually asked, "San'er is not at home?" Ma Zhiming said without thinking: "Zhiliang went to work."
Zhao Weizhou smiled slightly and said, "I'm not talking about Zhiliang."
Ma Zhiming was confused.
It turned out that the "three sons" in Zhao Weizhou's mouth were Ma Zhiming's father, Ma Sanli.
Ma Zhiming was furious and punched him.
Afterwards, Ma Zhiming calmed down and felt that he had overreacted.
He realized that his reverence and maintenance for his father had made him lose his mind in that moment, and he could not accept any possible offense to his father.
Although Zhao Weizhou's jokes were a bit excessive, considering the deep brotherhood between the two, he should not have lost control of his emotions at that time.
Zhao Weizhou didn't take it to heart, he knew Ma Zhiming's temper and didn't mind much.
But there also seems to be a subtle change between the two.
Mr. Zhao realized that Mr. Ma might not think he should have made fun of his father.
His whimsical actions are inevitably out of proportion.
Confidant friends should be tolerant
Zhao Weizhou and Ma Zhiming went from classmates to acquaintances, and the two were like brothers.
Zhao Weizhou's joke was just trying to be on an equal footing with Ma Sanli.
Ma Zhiming was really angry, and he really lost his manners.
But Zhao Weizhou didn't take it to heart, he knew Ma Zhiming's temperament and should be tolerant.
Recalling the ups and downs of the relationship between the two for more than 30 years, Zhao Weizhou knows Ma Zhiming well.
He knew that Ma Zhiming had great self-esteem in his heart, and his joke hurt his face to Ma Zhiming.
Zhao Weizhou decided to take the initiative to talk to Ma Zhiming.
After all, friends for many years, it is necessary for them to make concessions.
So Zhao Weizhou solemnly apologized to Ma Zhiming, saying that it was just a joke on a whim, which really offended him, and he must be restrained in the future.
When Ma Zhiming heard Zhao Weizhou's apology, he was also very moved.
Only then did he reflect on the fact that he had indeed overreacted at the time.
The two looked at each other and smiled, and that bit of mustard vanished.
Later, Ma Zhiming and Zhao Weizhou both realized that their friendship over the years had gone through ups and downs, and they should be more tolerant and considerate of each other.
This also contains respect for each other's talents.
Zhao Weizhou no longer jokes about the Ma family at will; Ma Zhiming also learned to accept the ridicule of others.
The two developed a better understanding between the two and their friendship was ever stronger.
Friends should be honest with each other and give in to each other.
This is the foundation of the deep friendship between Ma Zhiming and Zhao Weizhou.
They have been through many ups and downs in their 30-year friendship, but have never really been estranged.
Because both of them are willing to compromise for this friendship, no misunderstanding can stop them.
This is the true meaning of the friendship between Ma and Zhao.
Epilogue:
In the final analysis, friends cherish each other, and the water flows for a long time.
Ma Zhiming and Zhao Weizhou were born in a cross talk family, like-minded, and hit it off.
They appreciate each other's talents and respect each other's family backgrounds.
For more than 30 years, the two have gone through ups and downs, but they have never been estranged.
It is based on this deep friendship that Ma Zhiming will be furious for a joke by Zhao Weizhou.
And Zhao Weizhou also understands Ma Zhiming's temperament, so he just laughs and is not strange.
Above friends, we should understand each other and give each other, this is the true meaning of the friendship between Ma and Zhao.