Looking at Lu Yu and Ayunga's "mother-son love", I remembered Anita Mui's love and couldn't help it

Half a year before Anita Mui died of illness, she had been thinking about filming "Ambush on All Sides", but was persuaded by relatives and friends.

"That's fine, I'll look at the others. She began to study the stage script handed to her on the hospital bed, and the doctor came to her, took the script and told her, "The cancer has spread, and she will not be able to perform on stage again."

She listened, and sighed at Li Bihua, who came to see her, "Since that's the case, I'll leave."

At the end of October, the trustee sent a message to Zhang Yimou: "Don't wait for me, tell Director Zhang I'm sorry." ”

After filming the movie "Anita Mui", Jiang Zhiqiang said: "Too beautiful people, we can't bear to see them old." ”

Miriam Yang's eyes were red, and she wanted to accept this comfort, but she still whispered: "If Sister Mei is still here, it will be fine." ”

Jiang Zhiqiang also lowered his head, he knew that he was comforting himself, but what if he didn't comfort himself? Anita Mui was gone.

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When 4-year-old Anita Mui entered the Nathan Road Theatre and wanted to pour tea for the guests during the break, she tried to control the water from spilling out, and whispered to the guests if they wanted to order songs.

She doesn't have many songs to sing, only one "Flower Girl".

But the people in the opera garden, with three religions and nine streams, and five poisons, are not for listening to music, they use it as background music when they click it, they play cards and fight in the babbling huqin.

Anita Mui is Qin Meijin's fourth child, and Qin Meijin opened an unlicensed Chinese medicine clinic, and if a patient comes to be cured, he will be paid, and if he is not cured, he will be given nothing.

Her husband has no income from running a boat, her clinic is in danger, Qin Meijin really can't afford to raise more children, but in order to give birth to a son, she is still pregnant again and again, every time she thinks, if it is a son, she will stay, and if she is a daughter, she will sell, but after all, she still can't bear to kick her door.

Anita Mui was discovered by her uncle at the age of 3 that she could sing music, and she began to fend for herself at the age of 4.

She and her sister are always dressed in the teahouse, and if someone orders a song, she stands still, looks ahead, puts down the teapot, walks to the microphone to perform once, and then lifts the teapot and walks to the next table.

4-year-old Anita Mui didn't know that she saved herself.

A few years later, my mother founded a song and dance troupe and took them from the tea garden to the nightclub, and they became singers.

There are many ruffians in nightclubs, Qin Meijin found a man to get married and support the scene, the man is also a ruffian, and he insults and scolds Anita Mui's sisters non-stop, often yelling: "Do you have the ability to be a singer in the future?

Anita Mui only glared at him every time, and didn't say a word: "I won't shed a tear in front of others, because I feel embarrassed." ”

became a singer with a low status and poor reputation, Anita Mui couldn't stay in school and dropped out of junior high school.

Because of having a stepfather, home is even more terrible than a nightclub: "If I have the opportunity, I want to live my life again, but this life starts from my teens, and I don't want to live before my teens, it's too hard." ”

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In 1982, Huaxing Entertainment held a rookie competition, with 3,000 participants, and 19-year-old Anita Mui was also there.

Huang Zhan gave her ten points, and Li Xiaotian said: "From the perspective of newcomers, in the next ten years, there will not be a good one like her." ”

She was packaged as a jade girl, and the record was bought very well, but she was picked up from her previous experience as a singer in a bar, the wind and comments took a sharp turn, public opinion criticized her writings, and her career suffered Waterloo, and she drowned her sorrows with alcohol every day.

The company didn't want to give up, so she asked Liu Peiji, who was already a top designer at the time, to help her transform.

Liu Peiji's mother was a well-known writer Meng Jun at that time, his father was unknown, his mother had been hiding him as an apprentice in a tailor's shop, and on his 11th birthday, his mother was worried that Liu Peiji would affect his remarriage, so he invited him to have a meal and told him cautiously: "After that, no matter who has been before or after, you can't call me mother anymore." ”

Thirty years later, when his mother died, someone invited him to go back to help the spirit, he shook his head, kowtowed three times to the coffin, and got up and left.

As an adult, he said to the public: "I don't like women, women make me insecure." ”

But when he saw Anita Mui for the first time, he decided to help her: "I was busy at the time, so I asked Anita Mui to sit on a chair and read a magazine and wait for me, but she didn't read the magazine, but kept staring at me tightly. ”

Anita Mui was unconfident and said to Liu Peiji: "I'm ugly, I also know I'm ugly, I've been very afraid of looking in the mirror since I was a child." ”

Liu Peiji saw his 11-year-old self.

Three weeks later, Anita Mui was going to the Tokyo Music Festival, and Ms. Liu prepared her outfits, gave her a pair of platinum rings, and told her small rules such as not wearing a watch on stage.

Liu Peiji regarded Anita Mui as another self, what he didn't get, he wanted to give Anita Mui, and he agreed to serve as Anita Mui's image consultant.

He cut Anita Mui's hair and designed makeup, and since then, Anita Mui has been soaring in the music world, all the awards have not fallen, in order to take care of the younger generations, she announced her withdrawal from all awards at the age of 27, and became two kings and one queen with Leslie Cheung and Alan Tam.

Huang Zhan is demanding, and he evaluates Jacky Cheung as just diligent, skilled, and willing to work hard, but when asked who is a genius, he only recognizes Anita Mui.

She acted in the movies "Rouge Buckle", "Yoshiko Kawashima", "Zhong Wuyan" and "The True Colors of Heroes".

The script of "Ruan Lingyu" was originally tailor-made for her, but Leslie Cheung found Li Bihua and half-jokingly: "Amei herself has a hard life, she should act in some happy scenes, don't shoot it." ”

After Maggie Cheung won the award for starring in "Ruan Lingyu", Anita Mui took the lead in celebrating her.

Kwan Jinpeng said that Anita Mui is a natural artist, "Everyone has talent, texture and ability, but no one can learn from Anita Mui." ”

Er Dongsheng has a higher evaluation: "Anita Mui is the kind of genius who can act without teaching, this kind of person has not been met for thousands of years." ”

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Anita Mui has always been unhappy, but fortunately there are Leslie Cheung and Liu Peiji.

The reporter asked Anita Mui: "Is Eddie's (Liu Peiji) brother your angel?"

Anita Mui replied: "Brother Eddie is not my angel, he is my patron saint. ”

"No one gets as close to her as I am. Leslie Cheung said

When she had the worst reputation, Leslie Cheung kept explaining to the public: "Amei is a good girl." ”

Leslie Cheung once pulled her curiously, looked at her arms back and forth carefully, and said with a smile: "There are no tattoos like they said."

"I'm with Anita Mui all day, Anita Mui is very afraid of the dark, we are like brother and sister, I will make her feel like she is in her room. Sometimes I book two rooms that can be opened, open the door and take care of each other. ”

When the two go to perform together, they will find two rooms that can be opened, open the middle ones, and feel at ease when they can see each other, and when they don't perform, they will sit in the hotel together and read novels.

Leslie Cheung held a concert and his throat was inflamed, Anita Mui asked him to rest, and she helped him try the song all night.

In 2002, Leslie Cheung and Anita Mui's health was not very good, but the two still collaborated together in "Fanghua Peerless", which was like a footnote to their lives.

Throughout the performance, Leslie Cheung's hands kept shaking, and later he said: "It's a stomach ache." ”

In the crowd, they depend on each other.

Huang Zhan said Anita Mui: "As a woman, she has a man's personality. ”

Liu Peiji heard Anita Mui and her boyfriend at the time, Lin Guobin, say: "You don't have to work so hard, I'll do it, I can do it, you don't have to ......."

Liu Peiji was shocked: "Do you want to be a man? Do you want to call you Mr. Mei in the future? Why do you pay so much every time." ”

Anita Mui Lin Guobin went out, a foreigner drove to provoke, Lin Guobin was ready to do it, Anita Mui also followed with a bat, she never retreated.

But in 1991, she was tired and debuted at the age of 4, she worked too long and was tired, she didn't know what the future would be, but now she wanted to hide.

Lin Guobin's fame and status are not as good as her, but at least sincerely, emotionally she only wants someone to pamper and love.

Lin Guobin: Before that, she loved Kondo Masahiko the most.

"On the dance floor, he said, 'May I kiss you?' and I nodded, and it was a kiss. At supper, he took off the tie pin he was wearing and gave it to me, and I was very happy. Anita Mui has always remembered that night.

But Kondo has a genuine girlfriend Akina Nakamori, he pretends to be single, while falling in love with Akina Nakamori, he falls in love with Anita Mui with a kiss, Anita Mui bought a small apartment in Japan and flies there several times a month.

One day, on a whim, Liu Peiji flew to Japan to see her, and when he entered the door, he saw her squatting on the ground and washing the toilet.

Later, Anita Mui knew about the existence of Akina Nakamori, and Kondo said: "You are very strong, you can leave me, but Akina Nakamori can't." ”

Anita Mui rejected this "threesome" method, she chose to leave, but she quietly left her best love that year.

Leslie Cheung has always hated Kondo, and said in a public interview that he was "a few scum".

Then, Kondo and Akina Nakamori's opponent Matsuda Seiko had an affair, Nakamori attempted suicide, and the two reconciled, but in the end, Kondo and Atsuko Tian got married, and in 2020, the 56-year-old was revealed to have cheated on a woman 25 years younger than him in marriage for 5 years, which is really a scumbag for a lifetime.

When she saw Lin Guobin, it was when she wanted to retire, the media said that women were strong and men were weak, so she quit the circle, and the media said that Lin Guobin ate soft rice, she simply didn't work, she just wanted to retire together.

Another incident happened during this period, she was forced to sing at KTV, she didn't obey and was slapped, which also strengthened her willingness to quit the circle.

But in the matter of love, a person can't be brave, Lin Guobin became a deserter.

In 1995, she met Zhao Wenzhuo, and she thought everything was back.

But Zhao Wenzhuo is 9 years younger than him, and his career reputation is not as good as Lin Guobin, and the media began to decline again, they lost to the media, and after her death, Zhao Wenzhuo called her the favorite, but the favorite on paper was separated by a layer after all.

Recently, Jin Sha and her 19-year-old boyfriend have fallen in love, and the scandal between Lu Yu and Ayunga is also evocative.

Even though the two pairs are 19 years apart, they have been jokingly called "mother-son love", but the public has more blessings, less sarcasm, more acceptance, and less hope.

What's more, there were Yi Nengjing and Qin Hao, Zhang Duo and Chen Songling before.

Anita Mui, whether it is with Lin Guobin or Zhao Wenzhuo, will be blessed now, she loves so much and pays so much, she can't match the two lines of the media.

Her love was in her hands, but 20 years earlier.

In 1998, Liu Peiji retired and bought a house in Thailand next to singer Luo Wen, and Anita Mui and Leslie Cheung went to see them when they were fine.

Liu Peiji explained the aftermath to the three of them early: "I have no relatives and no reason, if one day, I leave, my aftermath will be entrusted to you." ”

But Liu Peiji didn't expect that these people would all come in front of him.

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Late at night on December 6, 2002, Liu Peiji's phone rang, and Anita Mui's voice came out of the receiver: "I just received the physical examination report, and the doctor said it was not very good. ”

At this moment, Anita Mui knew her condition.

After Liu Peiji returned to Hong Kong the next day, Anita Mui said, "Life is just like this, it's all hard." I'm going to get treatment, but if I'm going to suffer a lot, then I don't want to, because I feel like I'm already struggling. ”

Anita Mui didn't want outsiders to know about it, so she only asked Liu Peiji to accompany him.

She secretly told Feng Xiaogang that she had cancer, but she said: "I'm not afraid of death, I just want to promote the exchange of actors between the two places as much as possible." ”

In April 2003, Leslie Cheung left, and Liu Peiji persuaded her to undergo chemotherapy, but Anita Mui said that she needed to see a friend first.

When SARS broke out in May, she ran to organize actors to donate money and materials, but her friends persuaded her to stop, she said: "Now I don't do this, no one does it." ”

In July, Anita Mui went to Japan with beautiful makeup to celebrate Masahiko Kondo's birthday, and Kondo didn't even notice that she was sick.

Eight years after Anita Mui's death, Kondo Masahiko surrounded the blog page again and took the initiative to announce the matter to the media.

After returning from Japan, Anita Mui held a press conference, announcing that she had cancer, and at the same time said that she would hold 8 concerts.

She asked Liu Peiji to order a wedding dress for her, Liu Peiji asked why, she said: "I am also a woman, and I also want a wedding dress of my own." As he spoke, tears began to flow.

Liu Peiji watched Anita Mui getting weaker and weaker day by day and persuaded her not to do it, Anita Mui said: "You must do it, if you don't do it, you have to do it." ”

After 8 concerts, the ascites on her body is getting more and more day by day, and her waist circumference has been changed once in each performance, from 50 to 75 cm at the beginning.

In several interviews, she mentioned that if she could do it again, she would choose the relationship at the age of 21, which was still a long-distance relationship.

That person that year was Masahiko Kondo, and she sang Masahiko Kondo's "Sunset Song" in her wedding dress.

Jackie Chan, Andy Lau, Jacky Cheung, and Eason Chan are all here.

She stood on the stage and said: "I am a singer and an actor, it is not the first time to wear a wedding dress, but none of them belong to me, this may be the regret of my life, but I have your love, and my regrets have been forgotten." ”

"I marry myself to music, to you. ”

The wedding dress blocked her face, and no one knew if she was crying.

At the end of the last concert, she waved vigorously and shouted "Goodbye." ”

Liu Peiji's heart sank suddenly, she knew that she really said goodbye this time.

She passed away at the end of 2003.

On January 4, 2004, "Ambush on All Sides" filmed her scene, but she couldn't go.

After she passed away, she left the property to Liu Peiji, gave her nieces 1.4 million education funds, and the rest of the money was given to the fund, and 70,000 yuan per month was paid to her mother's living expenses, which later became 200,000 yuan after several lawsuits.

According to the will, after her mother's death, all funds will be donated.

Her mother was not convinced, and went directly to the court to sue for the inheritance, and after 20 years of lawsuits, she still did not give up, and together with her brother, she even planned to auction her underwear.

She has a big room, and the dolls and letters given to her by fans are put together with her dowry, in fact, she just needs a little love, and fans say that she loves Andy Lau, maybe it's love, but maybe she just wants to find a little warmth.

She just wants to be loved and remembered.

There are two deaths of a person, once physical and once forgotten, and she will not be forgotten.

Her final medical expenses of 850,000 yuan were settled by Jacky Cheung, and the aftermath was handled by friends, because her mother was in a hurry to fight a lawsuit at that time.

In the 15th Macau concert, Eason Chan sang "Heart Debt" for her.

She has helped a lot of people, and she finally has something to give back.

"She only asks us to spoil her. Love her. We've done it all. —Huang Zhan

Thank you to her for coming once.