Recently, a mother posted a surveillance video of her child knocking over things without being scolded on social platforms, which was praised by countless netizens.
In the video, the mother is taking care of her young brother in the house, and the little girl pushes the cooking cart out of the house, and when she comes outside, the car is too heavy and accidentally overturns to the ground.
Hearing the noise, my mother came out of the house and saw the mess in the ground, and my mother watched silently for a while.
In the few seconds she was silent, I thought my mother was going to be angry with her,
But the mother didn't lose her temper as she imagined, and when her daughter blamed herself and cried and said to her mother, "I didn't mean to, Mom." ”
The mother walked up to her daughter, patted her head with her hand, and squatted down to comfort the girl.
Mom said, "I can buy things again, and I didn't think to blame her."
Mother's copywriter said: On the way to send her to school, the girl was still blaming herself, feeling that her mother was working so hard every day, so she wanted to help her mother, but she didn't expect to be pulled down. It was useless for my mother to comfort her, so she told the teacher about the situation, and the teacher carried her to the classroom to comfort her.
The girl was lucky, her mom's mood was really too stable.
Regarding the behavior of the little girl in this video, some netizens said that their first reaction was very annoying.
As a child, were you blamed for accidentally breaking something?
Perhaps, when they were young, there were not a few children who accidentally broke something and got a reproach.
When I was a child, I wanted to help my mother serve food, and then it was too hot and sprinkled, so my mother scolded her, and then she didn't dare to work, for fear of messing up and being scolded, but she was scolded if she didn't work. Careful in living at home.
Seeing this mother's reaction, I couldn't hold back and cried.
You see, the experiences of childhood will really stay with your children forever.
Nowadays, there are many mothers who are healing her childhood, and the children who accidentally break things also understand, and no longer blame them.
In the comment area, there is a comment that broke the defense:
This practice will definitely heal her one day in the future, and she will remember the warmth of this time when she is unhappy.
Let's all try to be an emotionally stable mother.
A happy childhood can really heal a lifetime.
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