1 Speak worthwhile
Words are like the old man's money bag, you have to have value to speak. First of all, the speech makes people laugh as sweet as honey. If your words can dissipate those two clouds on people's faces, then go for it. Second, it has to be said that people are like taking strong medicine, and they are full of energy. Finally, you have to be able to make the silver ring, otherwise you can save some gas by guarding the warm belly, and don't talk nonsense everywhere.
Life is like a big drama, you have to hide your edge, be low-key, and think twice before you act.
Every sentence is like an arrow full of power, once it leaves the string, it can never be recovered. It can open the door to new opportunities or inadvertently hurt others. It's like spilled water, once spoken, it can never be completely taken back.
So, weigh every word, every sentence, and let your words be a tool for building bridges rather than walls.
Let silence be your shield, and words of wisdom be your beacon to move forward, and move forward steadily in this complex and changeable journey of life.
2 Think before you speak
Ordinary people speak with their mouths, like the hustle and bustle of the market, scattered with the wind, often inadvertently revealing meaningless words. Their words are like purposeless floating bubbles that burst at the touch of a button, leaving no trace. And smart people speak with their brains, and every word, every sentence is well thought out, like a well-laid out chess game, step by step. Their language is full of logic and intelligence, like a string of elaborate passwords, designed to unlock complex questions.
However, those who are truly wise, they communicate with their hearts. Their words are soft and deep, full of emotional color and warmth, capable of touching the depths of the listener's soul. This kind of communication is not only the transmission of words, but also the bridge between hearts and minds. Every conversation is like a collision of souls, deeply engraved in the memory of the other person.
Of course, the subtlety and elegance of conversation are far more precious than the endless talk. This kind of conversation is not only reflected in the choice of words, but also in the temperature of the voice, eye contact, and overall temperament. They don't say much, but every sentence is like a well-crafted work of art, which is worth savoring over and over again. This art of silence, that is a beauty that transcends words, is a power that only a true wise man can master. They know that true communication is not only the exchange of words, but also the touch of the heart, which is a realm where silence is better than sound.
So, before you talk to someone, don't forget to think about whether they want to hear these words, or if you really want to say them. After all, your words will reveal your little secrets, the so-called unintentional words, and the intentional listening.
3 Learn to be silent
Those intimate words feel intimate when they are spoken, but be careful that they become a weapon against you in the future. The best strategy is to remain silent, like uncarved marble, and there is wisdom in silence.
Those intimate words, when spoken, may be like secrets exchanged around a warm fire, making people feel intimate with each other, as if the deep connection between the hearts is incomparably strong. These words, shared in the dead of night, may bring a moment of comfort and joy, as if a temporary embrace of two souls. However, over time, these trusted words can deteriorate, like a double-edged sword, and turning around can become evidence against you. In moments of anger or misunderstanding, they can be misinterpreted or amplified and become sharp weapons against you, leaving deep wounds.
In this world of noise and conflict, silence is a strength, a firmness and depth in silence
Wise men always understand the power of silence, they use their words carefully, they know when to be silent, and make room for thought in their lives. Therefore, they can always maintain a certain advantage when dealing with various affairs and relationships.
People with high emotional intelligence can always make people feel comfortable, even if they refuse, they can make people feel warm. But if you just want others to be comfortable, but you suffer yourself, then it is not called high emotional intelligence.
Remember, talk less and listen more to what others have to say. After all, good words are like spring sunshine that warms people's hearts, while bad words are as cold as the winter wind, which people can't avoid. You know, those comforting words are like a thousand glasses of wine that are not drunk, making people intoxicated.