I was a little surprised when my uncle suddenly came to borrow money. He asked for 300,000. I frowned and said, "I borrowed 8,000 from you 6 years ago, but you didn't want to." "It makes me a little angry and a little unfair.
My uncle is my mother's younger brother, he is a very low-key person, amiable, usually rarely asks, and I have always felt that he is a very urban person. He actually came to my door and asked me for so much money, which made me a little suspicious.
I looked at my uncle, and there was a hint of urgency and anxiety in his eyes, and he didn't look like he was trying to bother me. I was a little hesitant in my heart, after all, there was a lot of money involved, and I wasn't a wealthy person.
"Uncle, what is the matter with your borrowing this time? Can you tell me the specific situation?" I tried to calm my emotions, trying to understand why my uncle had made such a request.
The uncle sighed and began to talk about his predicament. It turned out that his business was experiencing some difficulties and needed money to get by. And no one else around him could help him, so he came to me.
I looked at my uncle's expression and began to soften a little. He was my mother's younger brother and one of the closest adults I was to when I was a child. I couldn't bear to watch him get into trouble and be indifferent myself.
"Well, I'll think about it. But 300,000 is not a small amount for me, and I need time to think about it. "I tried to find a balance that would not disappoint my uncle or put myself in financial trouble.
My uncle nodded and looked at me gratefully. "Thank you, nickname. I know it's going to be difficult for you, but I really can't do it any other way. ”
I sighed softly, still a little irritated in my heart. After all, this amount of money is not a small amount, and I need to think it through. Seeing that I didn't fully agree, my uncle knew that I couldn't force it. He got up to say goodbye, left a bank card, and said, "This is my account number, if you decide to help me, you can send money at any time." ”
After I sent my uncle away, I still couldn't calm down for a long time. My uncle's sudden visit left me in a state of confusion and confusion. For so many years, I felt that I had a good relationship with my family, but this incident made me start to doubt.
I knew I needed to think it through. It's not just about money, it's about trust and responsibility between family members. Hopefully, I can find a rational and satisfactory solution.
A few days have passed, and I am still struggling with my uncle's affairs. Whenever I want to go to the bank and send him money, I feel hesitant. I know that this is an issue involving money and family affection, and I need to take it seriously.
That's when I got a phone call from my cousin. My cousin said that he was very upset when he heard that my uncle had asked me to borrow money, and that he thought that my uncle should not have borrowed money from me, and that the amount was so large. He advised me not to lend it to my uncle, saying that his behavior was not honorable.
My cousin's words confused me even more, I was already hesitant, and now he put more pressure on me. I know that my cousin is not a nosy person, and the reason why he called me to persuade me must have someone else behind his back. Now, I was even more overwhelmed.
My uncle's borrowing of money has become a big stone in my heart, and it is heavy in my heart every day. I try not to let this affect my life, but the thought of it makes my mind agitated. I felt like I was in the middle of an endless struggle, not knowing what to do.
In the past few days, my uncle has not contacted me again, and he must have felt my hesitation. I could feel his anxiety and frustration, but there was nothing I could do to help him. After all, this is not just a simple loan relationship, but a matter of family, emotion, and responsibility.
I sat in front of the window, looking out at the traffic and feeling heavy. I knew I needed to make a decision, one that would put my mind at peace. I can't be swayed by outside pressure, but at the same time, I can't ignore my uncle.
This incident made me clearly aware of the complexity and entanglement of family relationships. The relationship that once felt harmonious will also face a test because of money and interests. I don't know what I'm supposed to do, the only thing that's certain is that I need to think hard and make a choice that I don't regret.
When I got home, I kept thinking about my uncle's request. After all, 300,000 is a lot of money for me. I'm going to talk to my wife about it, after all, it's about the future of the family. When I walked into the house, my wife, Liu Fang, was sorting out documents in the living room, and she saw me coming back and walked over.
"Is there anything going on?" she asked.
I was silent for a moment and told her what had happened today. After listening to my narration, Liu Fang's brows tightened, revealing a hint of worry.
"That's not a small amount, and we can't blindly promise him. "We need to think about it, because we need to think about our own future and that of our children." ”
Liu Fang's words stimulated me deeply. Her reminder made me realize that this matter is not just about me and my uncle, but also about the future of our entire family. I didn't expect my wife and I to have such a split of opinions.
Some friction started to arise between us. Liu Fang also said to me: "You and him are not blood relatives, why doesn't he borrow it from his own brother?" I don't think my uncle and I are blood relatives, but that doesn't stop me from being my mother's brother, and I should try my best to help him.
We argued for a while on this issue and ultimately did not come to a conclusion that was satisfactory to both parties. This incident made me suddenly realize that families are not always in harmony with each other. Moreover, when it comes to money, even the closest people can be divided and conflicted. I don't know what to do, maybe I need time to think calmly.
When my uncle left, I fell into a long contemplation. Although I am soft-hearted, the number of 300,000 is not a lot for me. I gently held the bank card left by my uncle, and my mind kept thinking about the relationship between me and my uncle and the scene when he borrowed money from me. I began to wonder if all this was just an excuse for my uncle, and if he had ulterior motives?
After some contemplation, I decided to consult with my mom. After all, it's a family affair and I need to listen to my family's opinions. "Mom, do you know that my uncle has come to me to borrow money?
My mom was silent for a moment, frowning. "Your uncle has had some business problems lately, but I don't think he will ask you for so much money. You have to be careful. ”
These words confuse me even more. Was my uncle genuinely out of necessity or did he have ulterior motives? Am I suspicious? But I always felt that something was wrong.
After struggling for a while, I decided not to lend money to my uncle for the time being. Maybe I need more time and facts to make a decision. I didn't doubt my uncle, but I felt I needed to have a clearer understanding of the matter.
After a few days, I noticed that I had several missed calls on my phone. When I saw the numbers on the call record, I realized that they were all my uncle's phones. "Xiao Ming, why haven't you answered my phone recently, I really have something urgent to discuss with you. The uncle's voice was full of anxiety and anxiety.
I started to feel a little embarrassed. I didn't care about missing calls, after all, the knots in my heart hadn't been solved. But there was a hint of urgency in my uncle's voice, which made me think deeply again.
Soon after, I received an invitation to a family dinner, which was sent by my uncle and my mother. This made me hesitate a little, and I didn't know if the topic of borrowing money would be touched upon again at this dinner. But at the same time, I also began to look forward to learning more about the relationship between my uncle and his family, as well as the reality of the situation.
After some thought, I finally decided to go to the potluck. Perhaps, this is a good opportunity to learn the truth. In any case, this time has given me a deeper reflection on my family and affection, and I have also begun to cherish every moment with my family even more.
When my uncle left, I thought about it at home and still felt a little uneasy. Although my uncle's difficulties were real, I was never sure how to deal with them. After all, 300,000 is not a small number for me, and I need time to think about it.
A week later, I got a phone call. On the other end of the phone, my uncle's anxious voice came over. "Nickname, I'm having some problems doing business here, and the decision I promised before is in urgent need of funds. Can you lend me some?" was anxious in my uncle's voice, but his request left me in a dilemma.
"Uncle, I really haven't made a decision yet, I need more time. I tried to explain my hesitation, but my uncle didn't seem willing to wait. "This matter is really urgent, and if it drags on any longer, I really can't do anything about it. His voice sounded more anxious.
I tried to explain my difficult situation to my uncle, but he didn't seem to want to listen. "Xiaoming, this is a family matter, you can't help me. After all, your mother and I have been inseparable from you for so many years. There was a hint of reproach in my uncle's words, which made my heart fall into an even greater contradiction.
In the face of my uncle's pleas and reproaches, I felt extremely stressed. I really wanted to be able to help him, but at the same time I didn't want to put myself in financial trouble. My uncle's sudden visit and phone call made me feel a sense of pressure and unease that I had never felt before. I don't know what to do, my heart is full of contradictions.
I knew I needed to find a solution that would not disappoint my uncle or put myself in trouble. But now, I need time, I need to be calm, I need to think well.
This family dispute made me feel unprecedented contradictions and pressure. I needed to find a way to solve the problem without hurting my family's feelings. Hopefully I will be able to make an informed decision.