Preface
A sister-brother love spanning 19 years broke out at the end of the year, how can it not be jaw-dropping? The heroine Lu Yu is not only 19 years younger than her "husband", but what is more interesting is that she once did a special topic.
It's really bold to know the year of knowing the destiny of heaven, but you still dare to openly fall in love with Xiao Xianrou!
However, before we accuse her, should we think about it from her point of view - whether a woman, especially a woman who has been in the entertainment industry for many years, can't have the right to love again?
1. The protagonists of a love story
53-year-old Lu Yu is a well-known female host in the mainland.
When she was a girl, she was beautiful and moving, and later mixed in the entertainment industry, relying on diligence and wit to break through the world in the hosting industry.
The character is straightforward and generous, and she is decisive, but in private, she is also quite a little woman's temperament.
34-year-old Ayunga is a well-known singer and actor in the mainland.
She has a delicate appearance, a warm voice, and has been diligent in learning music and dance Xi since childhood.
Later, he was admitted to the Central Conservatory of Music, and became popular with his unique voice.
is low-key and introverted, and there are few scandals.
The intersection of the two starts from 2014......
Second, sister and brother love and live together for five years
In 2014, a large-scale talent show hosted by Lu Yu was being recorded.
In the audition, Ayunga from Yunnan easily advanced with his high-pitched magnetic voice and strong ethnic minority customs.
His performance on the stage of the official competition was even more brilliant, and his unique folk style singing method made all the judges fall in love with him.
As one of the hosts, Lu Yu witnessed the whole process of Ayunga from a well-known singer to the champion of the show.
She not only favors Ayunga, but also sincerely supports and encourages his growth, and will chat with him in her spare time.
Maybe it's because of like-mindedness, Lu Yu has a good impression of Ayunga, but she knows the unspoken rules of the entertainment industry very well, and she doesn't dare to go beyond the work relationship, so she can only bury this feeling deep in her heart.
In the following years, Lu Yu divorced and returned to a single state.
She regains her freedom in life and wants to find true love.
And Ayunga's singing career is also rising rapidly, and the two have more opportunities to communicate in public.
Gradually, a fresh and refined goodwill sprouted in the hearts of the two.
One night in 2018, after the artist's annual meeting, Ayunga plucked up the courage to have supper with Luyu and thanked her for her care and counseling over the years.
Lu Yu was flattered, and the two chatted while eating, and unconsciously chatted until the second half of the night.
It turns out that the two not only have similar growth experiences and life ideals, but also have very consistent tastes in music, movies and other fields.
The two who hit it off at first sight became more speculative the more they talked, and their relationship became more intimate than ever.
Since the beginning of this year, the relationship between the two has been like a budding grass, quietly growing in the spring breeze and rain.
However, out of consideration for each other's careers and concerns about the scandal, they tacitly hid all this in their hearts, allowing this underground relationship to take root and blossom in five years.
For the sake of the quiet years, they rarely appear together in public, for fear of attracting reporters to chase and intercept them.
Only a few times, occasionally caught by the paparazzi in and out of a certain community or underground garage together, has caused speculation from the outside world.
However, at that time, Lu Yu's company officially denied it, claiming that the two were just arranged by the entertainment company to ride in the same car, and there was no other special relationship.
However, the seeds of love have been quietly planted.
In the past five years, although the two have gathered less and separated more, they can't wait to pour all their hearts and affection into every brief reunion.
Lu Yu took the initiative to introduce many master friends in the circle to Ayunga, so that he could make more beneficial network resources in the domestic entertainment circle.
And with the booming career, Ayunga's feelings became more and more determined, and even officially lived with Lu Yu.
Until five years later, at the end of this year.
A well-known entertainment reporter suddenly said on social media that he wanted to exclusively expose the top-secret secret affair between a top national-level artist.
As soon as the news came out, it immediately sparked heated discussions and speculation among fans and passers-by.
Sure enough, the reporter then released a video of Ayunga and a woman in black entering the unit door of a high-end community one after another.
Everyone looked at it closely, and they found that the woman in black was the 53-year-old Lu Yu herself!
Because the relationship between the two has been stable for more than five years, and Ayunga's popularity and career are gradually reaching its peak, this time Lu Yu's company has no intention of issuing a denial statement on the relationship.
The love between the two sisters and brothers finally came into the public's sight this winter.
3. The same is "My Husband is 19 Years Old" The emotional journey is similar
The best thing is that at the beginning of the exposure, countless female netizens commented humorously: "As long as you take good care of it, my husband will run in elementary school!" I didn't expect that there are too many wonderful similarities between this joke and Lu Yu!
It turned out that a few years ago, Lu Yu had done a series of life interviews.
She interviewed a pair of sibling pairs who "ran in elementary school", and asked the man face-to-face if he needed to overcome some psychological obstacles in this relationship with a huge age difference, and showed that society can now treat this kind of sibling love normally.
It's just that in the end, she also lamented that if the woman's condition is much higher than that of the man, it is still easy to make the other party feel inferior or ashamed.
Therefore, if this kind of sister-brother relationship is operated for a long time, it has high requirements for the psychological adjustment ability of the two, especially the man.
And to this day, Lu Yu's own emotional situation is almost the same wonderful coincidence as the interview title of that year:
Ayunga is a full 19 years younger than her, and the woman's social status and fame are obviously higher and richer, which is indeed easy to damage the man's self-esteem.
Even since 18 years, it is still Lu Yu who has spared no effort to support and assist Ayunga's acting career.
However, her worries back then did not become a stumbling block on the road of love between the two, but because of her help, Ayunga's career flourished, and the relationship became stronger with this career.
Lu Yu himself didn't expect that his unintentional act of inserting willows would make this sister-brother love go further and further in the ordeal.
Fourth, harmless true love between sisters and brothers
So, is this 19-year-old sister-brother relationship "cheating" or "marital cheating" as speculated by the outside world?
The answer is no.
Because before he started dating Ayunga, Lu Yu had already divorced her ex-husband Zhu Lei and returned to single.
In fact, Zhu Lei fell out of favor many years ago.
It's just that the two have been childhood sweethearts since childhood, once got married, and had a beloved daughter, so Lu Yu repeatedly tolerated his various mistakes.
Until she couldn't bear it anymore, she finally filed for divorce and regained her freedom.
Therefore, the relationship between Lu and A is not cheating, and can only be regarded as a sibling love between a single man and a woman.
Not to mention the chaos in the entertainment industry, as far as this relationship is concerned, it is not a big deal.
Lu Yu is 53 years old when he knows the destiny of heaven, and Ayunga is 34 years old and has reached the age of falling in love and getting married.
Moreover, this is no longer a question of simple moral kidnapping in today's society.
Why should we blame a woman for choosing to have a crush with her favorite little fresh meat after she grows old in her youth?
Conclusion: Love has no borders, and sincerity is precious
It is true that the age difference of 19 years is a traditional one.
But getting along with each other sincerely is the cornerstone of love.
And love has no borders, and there is no age difference.
As long as two hearts truly love each other, why care about the eyes of others?
Sixty years of marriage is commendable; However, the companionship of knowing one's heart and knowing one's fate is truly valuable.
Finally, let's use a netizen's comment to draw a successful end to the love between Lu Yu and Ayunga's sister and brother:
My husband runs elementary school, as long as it is well maintained, the years are quiet and do not bother!