"I have never seen such a poor family since I was a child, there is not even a toilet, and when I arrived at his house, I felt like five thunderbolts. The woman cried
The woman told the mediator that when she first started dating her boyfriend, the boyfriend told her that the family was in business and that the family was well-off. But who knows, when I arrived at my boyfriend's house, I learned that the real situation is not as my boyfriend said, on the contrary, my boyfriend's family is very poor, and the house is still that kind of primitive earthen house, and there is not even a toilet, which makes me collapse.
The woman said that she planned to leave her boyfriend that day. It seems that when he said that the family was doing business and how good the conditions at home were, all of this was a lie woven by his boyfriend, and when he was about to leave, his boyfriend threatened to cut his wrists and self-harm, and he threatened to sprinkle salt on his wounds.
Out of unbearability, after all, after getting along for more than a year, she still has feelings for it, and the woman finally stayed, and in less than half a year, the woman ignored the opposition of her parents, secretly took the family's household registration book, and registered her naked marriage with her boyfriend. But after getting married, the attitude of the in-laws made him collapse to the extreme, as if he had fallen into a wolf's den.
After marriage, the man's parents promised to buy a house and hold a banquet for him, but they did not come true, but instead sneered at the woman.
The woman said that before receiving the certificate, both parties agreed that their parents would hold a wedding and buy a house. But who knows, as soon as he got the certificate, his boyfriend's parents turned their faces, and when they had dinner at night, they told themselves that they wanted to hold a wedding and notify their relatives that they wanted to buy a house by themselves.
The husband explained that the wedding had not been held, after all, the house had not yet been bought. In fact, my parents also plan to buy a house, but they blame my wife for being arrogant and want to buy a house in downtown Hangzhou, and the house price is too high to afford it.
But the mediator said that the family conditions are not good, the house is not bought, but it does not affect the holding of a wedding, every girl wants a wedding ceremony, and she should still be satisfied. But the attitude of the man's parents is indeed a bit excessive.
As for the husband's statement that his parents had said that he wanted to buy a house, the wife said that she had never heard that his parents wanted to buy a house or hold a make-up wedding! It was impossible for her to pick and choose between houses, and her husband's family was beyond imagination and did not dare to have more extravagant desires. The husband was full of lies, and none of them were true.
The husband was very angry when he heard this, saying that his family was indeed a little poor, but since his girlfriend arrived at home, he took good care of her, and before he bought a washing machine, 80% of his clothes were washed by himself, and he was good enough for his wife. For his wife, she is unhappy at home because she doesn't get along well with her parents.
The wife listened to it, and said even more aggrieved that the husband's family had never regarded themselves as the same thing, and the father-in-law once said in front of his mother, "The daughter-in-law can no longer be found, and the daughter is really gone".
The woman told the mediator that she is not the kind of person who cares about family conditions, but cares about the attitude of her husband's parents, but on the contrary, the husband stands on the side of his parents and does not think about himself.
In this regard, the husband explained that the reason why his parents had that attitude was because he and his wife had not worked during the period when they first received the license, and they relied on their parents for relief for seven or eight months. So let the parents have some opinions. But in the eyes of his wife, it is her in-laws who do not regard herself as a daughter-in-law, and always speak disrespectfully to herself, and what disappoints her even more is that her husband never speaks for herself!
The husband listened to his wife's words and said in a rage that he had moved out of his parents because of her, and as long as his wife knew that she was on the phone with her parents, she would quarrel with herself, and she would not let herself contact the family.
In this regard, the mediator also persuaded the woman that it was inappropriate, and no matter how she said it, she could not stop people from fulfilling their filial piety. The mediator said that since the young couple planned to live well, they should not hold on to the past again. And at this moment, the woman said the recent dispute between the two!
Woman: Seeing that the child is going to school, he plans to buy a school district house, but her husband does not agree.
The woman said that she had taken a fancy to a 65-square-meter school district house, with a total price of 1.08 million, and she had made up a down payment of 350,000, of which she had 50,000, her mother's family gave 200,000 yuan to marry, and her mother-in-law gave 10 dowries, which was just enough for the down payment.
However, the husband disagreed, saying that he was currently running a barbecue business and needed money to invest, so the two had a lot of quarrels. The mediator persuaded that the house business can be both, and with a house, there is a greater motivation to do business. Let him think about it, and sometimes listen to his wife's advice!
Conclusion: On the other hand, in the eyes of the wife, the husband is a person who can't afford the responsibilities of the family, can't afford the responsibilities of the husband, and is even incompetent for the role of the father.
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