I. Preface
Hello everyone, today I would like to tell you about the life of a Chinese opera performance artist, Hibiscus Flower.
Through her life, we can see her encounters and ups and downs as a woman, and we can also experience that although she has had endless tribulations in her life, she can still face life with her kindness and beauty, which brings us the perception of life and the praise of kindness.
I believe that through my story, you can also benefit a lot from it.
Second, Hibiscus Flower, Zhao Lirong's sister, has had a rough life and suffered a lot
When it comes to Zhao Lirong, I believe everyone is no stranger, in various film and television works, we can often see her, she is loved by the audience for her excellent performance skills and unique charm.
And behind Zhao Lirong, there is another figure that cannot be ignored, that is, hibiscus flowers.
Hibiscus Flower is Zhao Lirong's own sister, and she is also a very outstanding opera performance artist, it can be said that if there is no Hibiscus Flower, there will be no later glory of Zhao Lirong.
However, despite such glorious achievements, Hibiscus Flower has had a very rough and unfortunate life, and her life can almost be described as "miserable".
Especially in her married life, she suffered endless abuse and deception from her husband, and after the breakdown of her marriage, she was once again struck down by life and finally could not bear the huge pressure and passed away.
It can be said that the life of hibiscus is like a sad painting, which makes people feel extremely distressed after seeing it.
1. Hibiscus Flower's life has encountered endless tribulations
Hibiscus was born in a very poor rural family, and her life has been very difficult and poor since she was a child, and in that era, women did not have much say and status, so her fate was also arranged quite bumpy.
When she was a teenager, her parents married a man who was not very good, and her married life caused her to suffer unprecedented hardships and tortures.
Her husband Gao Wenfu is a complete villain, and life after marriage is like hell, and no one in the family that could have brought her warmth and comfort can stand up to help her.
In her married life, Gao Wenfu often inflicted domestic violence on her, and her husband's unreasonable troubles also made her suffer unprecedented grievances and torture, but no matter what she did, she couldn't change her current life status, and she could only bear everything silently alone.
The existence of her mother-in-law made her life even worse, and the tension and contradictions in the relationship between her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law made her life more difficult, and under the coercion and persecution of her mother-in-law, she had no choice but to leave the opera career she loved and do some rough work to make ends meet.
2. Endless tribulations, hibiscus flowers that have not been blessed in their lifetime.
It can be said that Hibiscus Flower's life is almost suffering and torture, and her married life is like an inescapable dream, which brings her not only physical and mental damage, but also endless grievances and sorrows.
In that era, women could not choose their own marriage and love, everything had to obey the arrangements of their parents and husbands, no matter what kind of misfortune, they could only bear it silently, and could not change anything.
In her married life, although she has been divorced many times, she finally forgave her husband and chose to return to the family, but her kindness and tolerance were not duly rewarded, but treated and hurt even worse.
It wasn't until her husband's cheating and her mother-in-law's vexatious troubles that she completely realized that her tolerance and concession were just leaving an opportunity for others to be wantonly harmed, and her kindness was not reciprocated, and she could only make her life more unfortunate and bumpy.
However, when she made the decision to leave, the ordeal of life did not end there, the existence of her mother-in-law made her life turn again, and such a turning point was irreparable, after leaving her husband, she married another man, but the existence of her mother-in-law made him unable to be happy, and in the end, he could not bear the huge suffering and pressure, and death was inevitable.
3. The kind hibiscus flower has been giving back to the society all her life
Although Hibiscus Flower's life has been very bumpy and unfortunate, she did not choose to escape and complain because of this, but faced life with her kindness and beauty, and even used her life to give back to the society and others.
In her life, no matter what kind of difficulties and tribulations, she can face them with an optimistic attitude, and even in her married life, she can also arrange her life in an orderly manner, so that her husband and mother-in-law can get due care and help.
1. In the life of marriage, it is possible to tolerate everything about the husband
In Hibiscus Flower's married life, no matter what kind of things her husband does, she can tolerate and understand, and even after her husband cheats, she also chooses to forgive and return, she feels that as a wife, she should be able to tolerate everything about her husband, give him the encouragement and help he deserves, but she didn't expect that her husband's change was not because of her tolerance, but because she became more and more reckless.
2. Keep your life organized
Although the married life has given her endless hardships and sufferings, she can still arrange her life in an orderly manner, in the life of the family, she can take care of all the needs of her husband and mother-in-law, and she can also use her own labor to enrich the family's food life, it can be said that her kindness and beauty are everywhere, although she has not been duly rewarded.
3. Spend your life giving back to the society and others
In her life, no matter what kind of difficulties and tribulations, she can face them with an optimistic attitude, and after the appearance of Zhao Lirong, she has used her life to give back to the society and others, and can give Zhao Lirong endless help and support without reservation, and has become Zhao Lirong's extremely important relative.
It can be said that it is precisely because of her existence that Zhao Lirong's brilliant achievements can be had, she used her life to compose selfless family affection and love, and also gave back to the society and others, leaving us with a very deep touch and inspiration.
IV. Conclusion
Through the narration of the life of the hibiscus flower, we can learn a lot of truth and truth from Xi.
No matter what kind of encounters and difficulties, we can face them with an optimistic attitude, kindness and beauty can be understood and moved, and it will also bring us enough courage and strength.